Girlfriend of one of my friends had been in a relationship with a different guy before.
That was past, and now both of them really love each other and plan to get married soon.
The guy knows mostly about her unsuccessful past relationship and loves her despite.

But this friend of mine seems very occupied by a question.
He says he wants to know many guys the girl has slept with before!!
He himself has slept with 2+ girls (except this one), and says whatever number is there for her won't make any difference in their relationship.

I advised, if the number does not make any difference, why bother knowing or asking?
But he seems very confused whether to ask or not, and only way to get this question out of his head is by actually asking her.

If he asks:
1) She might lie, and just say 1(her ex), or even claim 0 (not even with ex), fearing the consequences of telling the real number
2) She might not wanna lie, and also might not want him to know, so NO ANSWER! which could bring troubles in the relationship

GUYS: If you were in this guy's position, how would you guys handle this?
GIRLS: If you were the girl, and if the guy asked you the question, how would you answer?

Hello Jantarei,
that is a sweeping statement that noone remains virgin these days. Many nepalis girls still have not sold their culture to the West. Not to say it is morally better but these girls remain true to traditions. It is a sick mind which presumes that all girls do not have self control.

I know that there are girls (AND boys for that matter) who stay virgin until marriage; didn't mean to say that each and every single girl (OR a boy) doesn't stay virgin. Sorry for generalizing.

He himself has slept with 2+ girls (except this one), and says whatever number is there for her won't make any difference in their relationship.

What about massage parlour, beauty parlour?? lol

Greenfield, my 2 cents for your friend: if your partner's past bothers you, don't marry them, find someone who's past doesn't bother you. Don't be afraid of being called a hypocrite, it's better to be happy and called names than to be miserable and stuck with someone you can't trust in my opinion.  If you are going to marry someone with the intention of staying with them for the rest of your life, there are no questions that are off limits - ask what you want to know about them. People shouldn't be timid when making important decisions such as marriage.

Good luck to your friend!

greenfield you r this type of guy,
other i know a guy is going to get married after few weeks
he doesnt even care abt this
he was hungry just like tiger looking to sleep with as many gls as possible before his D day

i think ur friend( read U) should go to his gf and let her know how many did he banged before and tell his side of the story. how many affairs he had and what was the reason behind the break ups and stuff, so that sge will have better understanding. and then its upto her if she wants to share her side of story. if she opens up thats her will, if she doesn't (assuming both guys really love each other) there isn't anything that u have to know. she is trying to forget her past and move on, so STFU and be next to her.
also there is a chance that she don't wanna say coz she couldn't remember how many😬😬

कोइ कम्पिटिसन चल्दै छ हो greenfield जी तपाई(assumed its you not your friend) र तपाईको केटि साथि बिचमा ..... तेस्ले येतिजाना संग रात बिताई म त २+ मात्र भनेर ?

Come on Dude !! Stop being hypocrite . If she is loyal to you today why care about

यदि केटि तपाई प्रति आज बफादार छ र साँचो माया गर्छ भने हिजोको पहाड खोश्रेरा आजलाइ किन तेही धुलोले पुर्नु भन्या नि ? हिजोको खाटा उप्काएर आजको खुसि र मायालै किन टाटा गरिरा हो मुर्ख मनुवा .

Tell your stupid friend that, they both would not be happy knowing the reality. tell him to forget the past and work for the future, if he really loves her. since he has already doubted her - their break up is on the horizon, its just the matter of time.   

buddhi firchha ki vanera ali kada vandeko. 

 The guy asking question is a pu$$y and he has an excuse cuz he's asking for a FRIEND....FULK you, i am pretty sure you're asking for yourself.

Here's my  understand:

You fell in love with a girl and she told you she had boyfriend in the past and you didn't ask her beyond that because you're scared. If she tells you Yeah she had sexual relationship, you'll get mad and you're FULKED UP, but if she says no she didn't have any sex, you'll feel happy. That's all you want to know.

You can pretty much feel it if you have sex with a girl, you can tell the difference most of the time. If it goes in/out smoothly then you can assume that she had past sex parterns !

If you accept her no matter what, then this question is stupid....If not move on find other girls, there are still many girls that are virgin.

virgin khojdai garla feri parla no 1 [Disallowed String for - use of word not allowed], lol
pretty woman justai

Hera greenfield, leave that girl.....i could feel your situation, tht girl should be preety so you were after her jyan lagayera, now she is with you, you won. Right and now you are angry within because she had past relations and you were not her first love, aaja you wanna find how many peo

...(continued hai) aaja u wanna find how many ppl, bholi u wanna know what they did inside the room, parsi you wanna know if she took it inside her arse, nikoparsi if she licked it, jhan

Jhanparsi how they did...so doubt will keep on coming hera, that girl is not good for you, u wanted to be her bf, u did, now move on, leave her and find a firl whose past wont bother u, my two cents for u

These days if you want your bride to be a virgin, just give her some advance notice. She can prove herself to be a virgin on the suhaagraat bed. Thanks to the contemporary medical miracles.

 geetmaijawafdiu:

These days if you want your bride to be a virgin, just give her some advance notice. She can prove herself to be a virgin on the suhaagraat bed. Thanks to the contemporary medical miracles

I disagree with your statement, Still  about 50% of the girls remain virgin in Nepal before marriage. Don't count few b!tches and generalize the whole population.

I would imagine "x" out of 10 brides to be virgin but what I am really surprised is:
you claim:

about 50% of the girls remain virgin in Nepal before marriage where the margin of error is whatever.

Where do you get this data from? If you read Yudhir Thapa's classic Lukeko Samaaj, your 50% might come tumbling down to where I am standing now. Therefore I would not put out any such bold number since there is no way to verify or validate.

I can assume a girls can be virgin 20-30 yrs back, now i think 5 percnt will remain as mostly have bf anf gf these days, and its normal to practice safe sex , even our govn encourage safe sex,

He should watch " whats with the number". this is awesome

thats reallygood movie, lol

do u hv link for that movie  yr2013