do all Nepalese girls lie or I get the liers? I and my high school girlfriend were in a relation for 7 years and we broke up because of her lies and made up stories. Now I am in a new relation which was an arranged and we are planning to get married here in the U.S. But the problem is she lies too!!! Is she desperately want to come to the U.S. And get the green card?? What would I do?? Please suggest me!!!
Troubled pharsi!!

That's cool. Power to you for being so honest.

Where's your gf? Based on your post, she's living in Nepal and "she desperately wants to come to the U.S.", correct?

How do you plan on getting married in the U.S. if she's in Nepal?

lol

While we are at it.


https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/1ifi1y/what_are_our_wives_and_girlfriends_routinely/



https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/xuuw8/will_reddit_ever_get_tired_of_cheating_girlfriend/

Sorry for past relationship that you had to break up after 7 years but I think you deserve it. The mentality you are holding toward girls is just wrong as if you are some kind of saints who never lied. We all lie once in a while. It's not a big deal unless it's causing a serious damage to someone. Try to respect a girl as a person first then look for a girl. It's good for you and for your future wife. If you marry that girl with this kind of mentality then you will get never happy even after marriage. That is just recipe for divorce waiting to happen.
In this world you will rarely find a person who do things without a purpose. You said she desperately want to come to US. So what's the big deal? As long as she loves you then it looks fine to me and even better.

Sherlock,
Fiancee visa ( k1) allows U.S. citizens to bring their foreign fiancées to the U.S. For wedding.

DO PIGS HAVE WINGS ?AND YES THEY CAN FLY TOO...

I'm aware of K-1 visa.

Your posts and concerns are pretty ambiguous. You sound pretty insecure. What makes you think she's lying?

Sajhamitra,
I agreed with you. It wasn't her first time that she lied. We both discussed before we went into the relation that anything that involves lying would kill the relation. No my question to you is how would deal with if you were in the same situation??? Thank for your input

Sherlock,
She admitted it.

what did she lie about?

Sherlock,
Can't say what she lied about.
@ sajhamitra,
Did you say that I deserve it??? Here is a question for you: would you marry a girl that had sex with your best friend???

Dude, marrying someone is big decision. Don't rely on other people's opinion. Looks like you are not sure about her. If you are not sure and do not trust her then do not marry her.

off course she just wants to use u and get inside US and get a free ride which is a green card. Ho's are ho's.

Arko ramri kti khoja, jhuto bolne kti sanga jiwan chaldaina sathi, Move forward<>

It is true girls/woman lie far more than man at least in male dominated society. In general women are more insecure in relationship and they think/desire many things out of her man. This very desire/demand makes them even more insecure, which leads to manipulation/lying. In fact relationship itself is manipulation/lying/deceiving/ and mutual use.

I am sorry that you have girl-trouble, boy. I have been in your situation recently and can't trust anyone anymore. I have already given up hope for "nice" girl (I mean whom you can trust completely). I think it's better to remain single and not fall in love than get hurt by these bitches. 

Nowadays it's really hard to find a woman who actually loves you because you are handsome or easy going or descent but not your money, green card or status in the society

Love is not a mathematical equation to predict rather it is feelings , human behavior , actions , sentiments , personality and so on. Demography also effects on showing you love in different way. Rather it is an mutual understanding, a good communication , caring each other , knowing each other and showing affection on right time and right place keep the love alive. 

Pharsi is probably a good boy. He has lot to learn.

U R responsible for whatever happens to u.