Was just browsin' thru the "saptahik" on KOL and bumped into this article, eh... Which just scared the hell outta me... hehe... Is this a manifesto of soon-to-be-married Nepali girls or just a product of the writer Rasudha Risal Sharma? Coz, if this is really what Nepali girls look for in their future husband, eh, then I have a huge reason to worry about... ehh...

Guys don't read this if you have 'weak' heart... lol, this can bring tears to even the strongest single Nepali brown Male. eh...

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- http://www.kantipuronline.com/saptahic_html/gharparivar.htm#1

"Churoth rakshi ko kura garda aajkal ko jamana ma social status dekhauna bhaye ni Nepal ma ta tannu nai parcha natra ta Khe-pa bhanchan."

Dude, GROW UP!!!! Drinking and smoking does NOT mean showing your social status. Many girls are prefer non-smokers over smokers which is a good thing. There is a campaign started in our college called, "YES I mind you smoking", with all this anti-smoking campaign going on, you think its cool to smoke. And you think smoking is showing off your social status, dude, u have some SERIOUS issues. I don't need to even go to the stop drinking campaigns.

Can someone teach me how to download Nepali font, I want to read the article too.

Riten u said it all. Agree with u 100%

Hey guys grow up

You will not find any virgin man and woman in this world.
They play even in remote area but they donot call sex.

as far as smoking and drinking it is not a good habit however
that doesnot mean it will make you a bad person either.

Meera,
Try this link - http://www.kantipuronline.com/nepali/fontinstall.php for the fonts.

good article indeed! enjoyed it :)

adrian, she wants guys that can drink/smoke in moderation, she doenst want somone that has a "LAT" on these habit..

p.s I BET no WOman Wud want a guy addicted to Sajha.com either :)

I donot think she will care
because when you drunk you donot know who is who
and what is what

hahahahahah we Nepali ppl are so funny.. we come from hills and dirty streets of kathmandu where cows are eating dump ... but our hopes are surely high.. even higher than mount everest.. now every Nepali girl wants to marry Brat pitt or Tom cruise..every Nepali guy would prolly wanna marry Jlo, or julia, but the question is not who they wanna get married with , the question is do you think they get married.....???? i highly doubt it.... and even if someone gets married with a sexy kherya or kherynee wha makes them so pure than Nepali guys or girls.. do you think they will hold thier sexual desires and use that organ just to pee pee cuz they always dream about getting married with a sexy Nepali?? bull shit.... only kherya Nepali girls find are bhuday, tallu khulay, or someone who can't find a white girl.. and i've seen that mostly Nepali guys end up getting married with a mote kherynee or physcos whose relationship don't last more than 1 to 2 months with white dudes...
marriage is more like compormise to most nepali when they get pressured by thier family, thier age, thier loneness, and of course green card situation... already getting sick of the term marriage in sajha.. looks like everyone in sajha wanna get desperately married asap cuz they're having no luck with khernees or kheryas as they brag about them in here.....
why not go to villages and get married with the poor nepali girls or guys. it will make thier life better and you'll do the same for them...

quit dreaming about hollywood actor looks.. they have bhirangay roooggg.... go to Nepal and get married.. be happy

dyamnn

Meera Said (in response to my earlier posting)
"Dude, GROW UP!!!! Drinking and smoking does NOT mean showing your social status. Many girls are prefer non-smokers over smokers which is a good thing. There is a campaign started in our college called, "YES I mind you smoking", with all this anti-smoking campaign going on, you think its cool to smoke. And you think smoking is showing off your social status, dude, u have some SERIOUS issues. I don't need to even go to the stop drinking campaigns."

I guess u had a problem understanding my implication, I was just elaborating the normal Nepalese mentality n their expectation,and hence the ground reality over there.Not a question that I it admit or not.
Whatever u say(I may say that too) but our social grading system is so impractical that people r judged by money, luxury n eventually their habits. U have money, u go to night outs u drink n u smoke ...there would be ten other people trying to follow u back there ..the gossiping society says "well done dude"...I dont care abt the mentality in ur college or as a whole in US or west....my implication was solidly based on OUR that is NEPALESE menatlity. I never said niether implied that it is COOOOOLLL..so please do take into account of the dimensions before u jump into a quick conclusion..which has rather a personal smell.

BY the way what makes u think that I am 'NOT Grown Up'? if u r looking for a healthy discussion try out without making it personal ,I would aprreciate that...First u behave as a grown up then may be u can raise similiar question ...

Comments highly appreciated not celf centered egos.

Bho baa..ma ta auta matra hoina dui tin wata Khairee bihee garchuu

Lol Dyamn,

Relax... chillax!!! Sit down, drink some water, count to ten ... hehe... I am already worried to the core and your aggravation is only makin' it worse.. hehe... I heard ya.

You don't know who you gonna get married with, until the day you really got married. So, until then, there ain't no harm dreaming, hoping, laughin' about it. :)

Personally, I'd really prefer getting married with 'tharuni' from terai than anybody else. hehe... they are Hot. :P

Natra Neta -ji jastai, ma ta Khurini bihe garchuuuu baaaaaaaa....... 2 - 3 wota. hehe... How about brunette, blond and brunette?? ehehe... Charlies Angles?? naaah... Kalanki's angels... hehe... Netaji, get ur own angles... grrrr....

Autiee chai ama ko mann rakhnaa..dui waati chai afnoo lagi

natraa Marketing Specialist bhaa ko K kaam lagyoo hoinaa...he he he

La yaar jhagada nagaraun..maanche man pare pachi 'aankha phuteko goru..' jasto je pani hariyo dekhincha re kya, bhanya tyo maanche ko jastai baani pani man parcha re kya...tyo sabai listing (whoever provided) is for the loosers who cant even fall in love! lol...kiddin hai feri, aba kasle kasle jhataro hanne ho! :P

there is no mention of sex how many times and how they want it
please khulasta parnuhola

i am with bhattu. good question.

OKIE for sex questions.........i love my wife to be on top.....with heels on bed....latex, silk, garter belt, blind fold...awsome oral sex....if anal more good. (just kidding on anal). i dont annal with my wife but i want her to dress like school gal with low tie and stocking grabing by my neck.......play like she is my boss and i am her slave...slaps me a says " whats my name bitch"

if any nepali gals fit in this catogary, then i will understand

does nepali gals grabs your ass in pub while playing pool ?
does nepali gals kiss openly infront of other ppl?

coz when i go down there i go for 20 mins.......i dont care how i cum but i make sure she gets multiple orgasm

Bhattu, LOL, good question. But sex doesn't seem to be a priority... according to Mrs. S. Sharma. Neither does STD's. eh... It's okay if you have AIDS, or if you can't perform sex, but YOU Shouldn't smoke or drink. Remember that.. LOL. And you should always smile. :P

MoneyMinded, Kaa going down to the valley bhanya, come back, come back. LOL... U just x-rated this thread... eheh...

what the hellis happening with KOL???

I stopped reading that article right after reading the first sentence.

BIHE KO SESAN (season) CHA.

please correct me if I'm wrong but is 'season' a nepali word? Maybe KOL should revisit nepali dictionary or appoint sitara to proofread its articles before publishing.


dangggg

BHattu, good question :)

LOL moneyminded bro..hahah mero pani gahiro gahiro sapana cha, i dont want to x rate this thread now tho :)

kalanki bro timi ni yar, testo arroop nalagau na author mathi, she never said not to drink or smoke, ..

danngg, good to know sitara writes good in english as well in nepali :)

dyaam bro good point,

" marriage is more like compormise to most nepali when they get pressured by thier family, thier age, thier loneness, and of course green card situation... already getting sick of the term marriage in sajha.. looks like everyone in sajha wanna get desperately married asap cuz they're having no luck with khernees or kheryas as they brag about them in here....."

Yo confused lai jaile ni kina anti-kalanki bannu parne hola???
eh.... If Confused's parents ask him "chora, la bhann aaja what did you do?", he might answer "Oh today I went to Sajha and wrote few lines agains Kalanki... " ehe... Purushaartha garya jasto. :P

About that daru-churot thing, she didn't mention guys can smoke-drink socially either. One churot in a bluemoon couldn't be considered as smoking. eh... One drink in mamako chori ko bihe is not considered as drinking either. You don't become gambler coz you went to "foxwoods", you know what I mean. So, daru churot thing is not even worth mentioning if is didn't intend to mean regular drinking or smoking. About the use of word "lat", how much is too much anyway? eh...

No matter how philosophical one might get about marriage after all it's a deal between man-woman, man-man or woman-woman (in countries where same-sex marriage is legally accepted and more tolerated by the society..eg. Canada).

If I were to read the KOL article and if a girl were to state a list of such demands and expectations in the real life, then I have no choice but to say that it is a very faulty and gross advertizement and marketing strategy on the part of the girl which will most likely turn off most of most the guys. The guys will most likely turn to less demanding girl and suggest their friends and relatives not to go for such demanding girls as well.

If I were to meet such a girl I will certainly ask for the same level of great personal qualities, personality, and achievements from such a girl just to be "fair and resonable".
How a guy would feel if a guy who posses almost all of those great qualities and end up with the girl who has such great demands and expecations while she herself posses none of them ", "NONE" my friend..ha ha ha.

To be frank, I try to be a perfect person but I'm not a perfect person therefore I dont see it is fair and reasonable for me to look for and expect all those qualities in a girl that I might be looking for. I will certainly look for those qualities in a girl which I also can offer to her.

If a girl posses very great qualities, bears great character and has a great track record of achievements then, it is very resonable for her to place such criteria or expectations from prospective guys...... not..all I can say to such a girl(s) is ....................."Great expectations but faulty advertizement and gross marketing strategy"