hey guys, has anyone thought what attributes you expect from your future wife?

and what you do if you dont get after getting married?

I think different people will be expecting different attributes. May be she is excepting something from future husband too.
Marriage depends upon trust and compromise. It would be better to talk with future wife/husband and try to compromise if you cannot fulfill it.

Are you getting married Spearhead..........

when you have expectation then u are bound to be disappointed .. @ least i learned that.

so for me . i will have very low expectation whenevere its gonna be (O:

real good heavenly sex, sex and only sex

Thpap, I concur!!!

Expect nothing but expectation itself.

Every one expect a perfect partner with different attributes, in their own way.
But realize this non in this world is perfect.
Lear to be satisfied / happy with what you have or what you get.
Coz you get what you deserve.
You cannot have all in one package.

Even Lord Shiva could not give Dropati a perfect husband. As she asked for a husband with different attributes, (strongest of them all, wisest of them all, handsome of them all, cute of them all, great worrier of them all)
Then what Dropadi got was 5 husbands.

Expectations often leads to Disappointments
And ignorance often leads to destruction.
So find a balance in between….

As Interest usually leads to liking
And liking often leads to love.

So take interest in your partner, you may like him or her, and even fall in love.
Take interest by getting to know each other.

FINALLY SATISFACTION ALWAYS LEADS TO HAPPINESS.

guru u are guru
i am fully satisfied with your comment
i think no body need to write more on this subject

Beautiful look, sweet smile, Sweet and lovely speech, no arrogancy and angerness, wiseful thought, friendly nature, committed relationship, so many other 32 qualities, I want from my potential beloved wife.

Beautiful look, sweet smile, Sweet and lovely speech, no arrogancy and angerness, wiseful thought, friendly nature, committed relationship, so many other 32 qualities, I want from my potential beloved wife.