The arrest of Nepali person for chatting up with 15 year old girl reminds me of how lots of nepalis living in the US takes things lightly.

US is land of opportunity and land of the free until you get caught doing illegal things. There are many things which are considered illegal and you might be taking it too lightly. It might mess your life up if you are not careful about these things.

Here are somethings that you should not take too lightly

1. Law about minors:
US is very strict about your behaviour with minors.
- Don't chat with underage girls, if you find out that the person you are chatting is underage then dont.
- Buying ciggerettes or alcohol for minors. It might seem like a harmless thing to do because they would get it somehow anyways, but if something happens to a minor when they are drunk or if they get arrested for any reason, they will get to you and you are in deep shit. All your dreams of greencard and american dreams will be over before you know it. Most likely you will be imprisoned too. So don't do favors for your underage friends/acquaintances and risk everything you have


2. Law about drugs:
Be very careful about possessing drugs at any time. If you get caught with an amount that is considered 'enough' for distribution, then you get screwed. You can say bye bye to your american dream and hello to prison. Lot of times doing drugs like marijuana might seem harmless among friends or to carry some in your pocket but if you happen to get caught then it's not going to have a happy ending. If you are a driver and your car gets stopped and one of your passenger is in possession of drugs, you might be liable for it.

- Another important thing that Nepalis don't think about too much is the fact that if you have guests over at your house and they get really drunk. If they drive home and get into an accident you will be charged heftily. You might even have to do time depending on the severity of the accident.




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Actually no chat with Underage Person regardless of whether it's boy or a girl.. So there may be a lesson for Nepali women too.. ;-)

Very useful information..bhushan..

kasto thees kura gareko !!! "DONT CHAT WITH UNDERAGE GALS " re !!!! ... Chat ta garna painchha bro haru Khali aruko naramro garnu bhayena.. nachaaine kura garnu bhayena chat ma ...!! .. tara yaha harulai CHAT ko artha khaali tyastai tyastai kura garera CHAT garne matrai ho ki kya ho .. !!

its more about moral and ethical issues than the law.

When you chat with underage girls who knows if the person on the other end of the line is a Police officer? So it's better to not chat period.

I am not sure if I agree with the tactics of luring people by acting like 15 year old girls. I mean you could be having a harmless chat with someone who you think is 15 year old. If the 15 year old girl starts to get a little raunchy then you might just go with the flow and then get busted. Like let's say the "15 yr old" starts to ask you questions like what are you wearing etc.

Is it ethical to lure people like that?

There is no problem in chating, but will b if u go visit her in her adress

why is it always men mostly who get in trouble a lot for these perverted things, and what does it say about men in general

If guys, for whatever reason, end up in jail, make sure you carry protections. I heard it is highly unlikely that one can keep his rear end safe. If unthinkable happens, at least you come out clean of diseases.

no u cant have sexually illicit conversation with the minors over the computer period, its not about anythign else. udont have to go visit them, if u have sexually explicit conversation with the minor u can get busted.

Hey Silly_Lilly!

why do you always blame men? Do you not have brothers or ummm...a father in your household? or what? LOL ;P

Men were created with some 'Basic Instincts' as mother nature wanted us to be. When the hormones kick in,the thing called common sense dissipate like 'snapping your 'faa--ingers'.
People like mentioned above get in trouble for that sake.

Peace ( in the Middle East). :)

why must a man always blame women at the end for their faults?

why is mother nature mother and all gods..the almighty one are he in many religion?

To answer that question: i would quote :

Nothing enchants the soul so much as young women. They alone are the cause of evil, and there is no other.
Author: Bharitihari

AND thats just an answer to your question! not necessarily that i agree upon :) [ or i may ]

that's not an answer to my quesiton, that's just an addition to the fact that men blame women for everything.

bcoz it is women who makes men to make a crime on it

another blamer nevermind

Please scroll upto my posting again and read it.
I am not blaming women at all. If there were no women, men would lose all the fights in them.

Peace.