HEY GUYS,
I was talking to a girl for past few weeks over the phone and i am going to meet her for the first time tomorrow at the party. There will be lots of other people and i am kind a nervous. I don't know how to approach her and what should i tell her.This is important, if everything goes well, this might end up in marriage. please suggest!

Don't rush! Take ur sweet time.
Good Luck!

Hey,
u are already thinking of marriage? No wonder u r nervous now.

Just take her as a good friend and go, take her as a good friend and try to communicate more.

Hope this makes some logic to you.

:)

Just approach with a smile, and be your self, don't try to show off just keep calm. Remember she is as nervous as you are. Some girls expect you to take the lead as you are the man. Act natural.

Say hello with a smile, and find something to say, like how did her trip go till here, if you have picked the place to visit, then say, Hope it is okay I choose this place, and tell her why you choose it or something like that.

Just approach her as you approach your male best friend.

If you get nervous then I tell the girl “Please don’t mind, I am bit nervous as this is our first meeting”. And when you have sat down just start with the conversation you already have had before you two mate, like in chat or msn or mobile or something.
Be honest. Coz if you start a relationship with lies and show offs, that will end up pretty soon.

Wish you all the best.

peter,

take marriage out from your mind right now

be yourself. see if she likes you and vice-versa. see if you guys click
Donot go overboard and take it slow... ...

do you get those butterflies . hold your thoughts for now.
Good Luck and all the best.

make sure you invite us in your wedding ;)

peter oh peter...

ur in a position where i guess a lot of guys who would like to be in..i mean not takin the marrigage part into account..that word scares me but seems like u def are braver than me ;oP hehe..

as u said u been talkin to her on the fone for the past few weeks..so i guess when u meet her for the 1st time both of u can try to pick up from the where both of u stopped in the last fone call?..

since its the 1st time ur meetn her..guess u shud keep down ur expectations as low as u can..as they say the best things happen when least expected..thats wat i heard anyways ;oP

sayn it is easy..but well good luck on not gettn too nervous esp with the occasion and the crowd..just shut off the crowd and focus on her?im sure thats possible?.hopefully u dun have 2 left feet and a wooden body like me ;oP..esp since its a party and well there be music?and dances?and esp if she likes/wants to dance?..but well that be good thingy if u got the moves?hehe..

anyways good luck again..and hope all goes well..

good day!:oD

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Peter! Be Yourself! I hope she's already impressed to be going on a date! :)

Abt the other stuffs , MAN , i am learning BIG TIME from sajha. " experience... speak please! " - i mean to address people having gone through situations like this before?

And do share yours too !!!

You gonna do fine bro.Just let it go nice and easy.There is no one perfect in this world,we learn through experiences and ..."moments like these cant go wrong".

Party..Lots of people..and nervousness,thats of course..let it approach towards you think like a boxer,let the opponent come to you.
In case you get too nervous and words getting stuck in your mouth...imagine" the crowd in the party all in their underwears...and you are the only one fully dressed"....shame on those people right....now see who is superior ..YOU


and the winner is YOU.

Always try to make her feel good,talk something nice and try to be romantic(funny),show some hospitalities like opening door..letting her in first..pulling out the chair for her,filling up her empty water glass,grabbing napkins for her and that kind of things are warmly well regarded by women.
You gonna be fine dude....
god bless the moments

hurri

man!!! this dude peter is up with some kinda relationship-based thread each day. looks like he is either making fool out of all of us or to sound a bit discourteous, if i may, is seriously in need of a therapy. :P

this one prolly one of the most weird questions i have seen being asked here. dude, u need to get over your low self-esteem man. how on earth are you going to approach a woman if you don't have a confidence in yourself or for her? u don't even seem to know abc of love/relationship, let alone it's gist and responsibilties.

pardon me but i really need to know your age before i could suggest anything to you. u don't even know the girl personally and u've started to think about conjugal life wow, that's very uncool of you bud! if you really want to take my suggestion, don't hasten and think 10 times before you commit yourself. at the risk of sounding cynical, i must tell you, do the self-analysis prior to coming to a decision. make sure you're doing what u want to.

forgive me being presumptuous, if i have, but u sound like a little bro to me. all you need to do now is focus on your studies and career before letting yourself commit towards more responsibilities. it's never too late to find a girl and pursue a married life, but god forbids, if you screw up with your studies or career at this stage, which needs more attention on your part, it's gonna fracture your whole life. please take this as an honest suggestion from your elderly brother if you count me in.

good luck!

LooTe