I wonder! My random thoughts and the environment makes me feel jaded. Every once in a while i have someone remiding me about what am i lacking directly or indirectly. With a gentle smile they prove their point and disappear. A total wreck of my delima. Anway friends and relatives keep buzzing in as always but whats astonishes me is even my boss time and again everytime i see his face quotes, " You need a girlfriend man!" My wonderment reaches it peak. In every encounter i hear the sameold bee buzzing in my ear. I sit back, relax! and think, Do i really need one? Apart of school and work i can only find half and hour or so to blog here or check my emails. The idea is totally gibberish. I mean why would i want to get in a relationship that i'm not serious about or for the namesake? Another aspect that really triggers me is why are these comments being made? At this age they must be thinking, " Young guy no girl he dosent have any fun in life." Well Whats the fun part here? If it's getting laid is one then i can get laid anytime i want to that's not an issue here. My problem lies in being comitted to a relationship.

From a man's perspective as we all know girlfriend is primarily for "sex" (For 9/10 of us) and to share your so called feeling and thoughts etc... or you know go out together holding hand in the mall or someone to sit next to while watching movies and cuddling..There might be more then that i'm just telling you one or two.. (which i know of) Cant really say coz i've been out of this game for few years.. But that thought really bother me why am i being looked as extraterrestrial individual?

Thanks for reading this post guys. Have you say i'd appreciate any type of feedback even "You suck" or "go to hell Retard" works Thank you.

thx god u don have any gf...lucky guy

Don't worry...have fun...when its time you'll get serious...

From a man's perspective as we all know girlfriend is primarily for "sex" (For 9/10 of us) and to share your so called feeling and thoughts etc... or you know go out together holding hand in the mall or someone to sit next to while watching movies and cuddling..

sex is enjoyed by both gender.

yekloyatri,
no sin. njoi ur free life while u can (O:

yes hehhehehehhehehehehhehehehehheheheh

yekloyatri
At some point in life you will realize that u need a girlfren.. and beleive me you will be looking for one in nearest future..people think that something gotta be wrong with you if you dont have a girlfren and you are getting old....they may think you as being a person who cannot take responsibilities... or who is not commited... ...

if you want it to be... duhh!! :P

NICE one Shakeen!

keep up the good work .. and yeah .. u can die alone... good luck by the way .. with everything ... halleluyah ...

having a GF is a sin.

wish i was single sometimes..

Few words, but may be not of "wisdom". i agree with you, akloyatri,though it might not be true that GF are only for sex,( sex is just a part of ur life, people need for normal functioning, while, few survive without it, but it is just another exception). "what i usually thought-- all human being are very oppotunistic socail animals". so why keep urself and others in such a close proximity of relationship where they cannot look for better and more one in life. relationship without name is sometimes better and works best. we all need people around us and if that is fullfilled by various "OTHERS" means , u don't need gf. keep working with ur stuffs and enjoy life. "sometimes it is better to wait for time rather than going after time.

Stupida, latoboy, Downtownguy, Cerine, vaadgaule, gunda, thapap, Shakeen, aarya and rezor. Thank you all for sharing your views.

More comments are anticipated and would be appreciated. Thank you.

I'd have to say i firmly agree with Stupida. I'm definately happy in my own world and the various "OTHER" forms that you mention is keeping me very happy and entertained. But the fact that triggers most is their lack of understanding and vague perspective. They refuse to see a point from different angle.


More comments would be appreciated. Thanks.

Is not having a girfriend a sin? >>>>>>>

NO, Not at all . Donkeys are those who think so & you should never pay attention to donkeys ,right? let them bray...............
Stick to your principles.

Ha ha ha

This shits funny. hmmm... A sin huh !! Says which PRIEST ? Or is it the Bible ? No no no its the Ramayana !!! nah its the Koran who says its a sin. And the Sun and the Moon and the Stars think so too.... ha ha ha
ufffff petaiiii dukyo !!!
ha ha ha

Is it not that having a girlfriend is a sin? Or Is not having a girlfriend a sin?

Very confusing all! ;)

actually, both having and not having a gf are sins hahahahahahaha..

tyo bhanchha ni...banarasi laddoo...khaye bhi pachhtaye..nakhaye to bhi pachhtaye...ho testai ho

so, having more than 2 gfs is a virtue/good deed :P hahahahaha.

LooTe
For one life -one love (don't count the number of gfs in between)... :D :P

Hey the Rabbi said it is not a sin. ha ha ha

La hai Aba ta saachai Narak ma jancha yo manchey. St Peters at the gate asks," Galfren chaina rey ? La ja ta(kicking) bye bye. Give ma regaads to ma fren YAMARAJ !! High Fie !!!" ha ha ha LOL I cannot stop laughing...ha ha ha

Is an article a release of confusion, confession, emancipation, frustration or .....(tion)???

By the way, sheer curiosity- do you confess your non-attachment syndrome rather commitmentphobia prior dating or while dating a girl or is it like the no-string attach from either sides of the party???

Just trying to do some research....

Who cares what other thinks??? In USA, not having a girl/boy friend is a SIN (Quote-YY), and in NEPAL, having a girl/boy friend is a SIN. Does anyone ever met CHITRAGUPTA, so that at least we will have a clear definition of SIN, atleast....

Sayonara!!!

brother!!!! u are lucky!!!!! don't make gf or fall in love....... heheheheh being.... in love is horrible It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can HURT you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your life.hehehehehe..You give them a piece of you....you know i'm saying....hehehe.... .........................They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness... It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain.be aware of it....