Too sad to hear the story. Depending  upon your legal status you can file a  legal separation/divorce. You will be receiving alimony depending upon your income and his income.
First try to fix it through the counseling and peer help, may be helpful. Most insurance covers it. How long you have been married and any children? If you can concentrate get a degree if you have one get higher on his expense.


 

I am soo sorry to hear this. But if you are being decieved so many times and see the trend not to end anytime soon then you need to gain your self respect back. Hope you have a GC to legally here. Hope your husband has good savings so that you can get half of it to start a new base. Please take good care of yourself and sorround yourself with supportive girlfriends/ friends/family . Move to a bigger city and get a great job.Makeyourself over and Look Darn good. You dont deserve to be a Doormat for this guy. Hope things will get better for you girl!!

Well Look for Public Lawyers for Divorce they shouldn't be expensive . If you have decent job to make up your rent,Bills it's time to move on with your own life if you can fight to get some share from cheap dumb who is cheating on you usually when wife filing divorce from husband get some percent of husband's wealth in US .

Sorry to hear about your situation. The first thing you need to do it try to find LEGAL AID where you live. You have to call and set up an appointment, go to their office and fill out few forms. They will find an attorney/lawyer who will work free for you. You do not have to pay for any services. Your husband should have to share his finances/wealth with you. I know what you're going through. Good Luck ;-)

nepaliinus,

nepaliinus,
get a life, let him live his life. don't try to be too nosy haha

mr geek 1 vanna khojya k  ???? afno buda le cheat garcha vanda is it being nosy ?? wtf ..idk whether ur a a guy or a gurl .. buh wud u let ur spouse [Disallowed String for - bad word] around or get [Disallowed String for - bad word]d around by many people n still not giv a damn ???

There's nothing to get scared when you are not happy with your life move and try to make life yourself and show you are not weak enough to break down with such behaviours of him .

Nepalinus
First of all tell us what u want us to do? Just share ur pain or give u suggestions. If the latter is true then I see many good suggestions posted above (eg Rekha's) and u don't seem to be doing anything about them, just complaining.
U have to take this in your hand. I think intervention is the way to go. You might want to involve some closed ones and have a meeting then confront ur husband together. Give him the ultimatum change his behavior or Devorce will be filed. If he does it again contact an attorney asap. If u think there is no way changing him, contact the attorney right now and file for devorce. Tell them u r unable to oay the legal fees. In most cases the husband has to bear ur expenses too.
Stop feeling bad for urself...get up and act!!

timi pani cheat agre bahihalyoni k ko tension, majjale din dinai naya keta sanga sutne ni, new life new experience, din dinai naya dick sochana timlai kasto pleasure huncha

Nepalinus,

Gold digging is kind a disease/addiction and can not be stopped and their mind works as food outside the house kitchen are cheesy and tasted good.

*** Is some one counting on my comments? *** What is the total so far ?

^ Please read and understand the definition of a golddigger or listen to Kanye's song on the title.

How can you even have second thoughts on this? Its already beyond belief that after all these years, you have still held onto the guy. If you have always been faithful from your side, then you need to get out of the relationship ASAP. Sorry if it sounds harsh, but tolerating an act like this shows your weakness and lack of self respect, which your spouse is proably feeding off of. Move on with your life girl!!

easier said than done.