Ok i have been having feelings for guys! well Honestly I felt this way when I was back home as well! But I tried to supress those feelings or thought I was sick n was wondering if there are any brothers/sisters that are going through the same situation!

@ Americane
 YOu won!!! happy now..... hm?
too much ego is not good nepali amigo!
anyway u r the winner n congratulatons!!

Visible ji,
Im just curious. I heard there are two kinds of gay. One who gives and the other whi takes. I mean sex garda. Which one are you?
Ani also there is a big issue among psychologists about gay/lesbian. Some psychologists say that gay baani is just a disorder like any other disorders.
Greek ko jamana ma gaypana lai jod dinthyo coz in a battle, a lover is more likely to save his lover, aba when that lover is gay. Sun ma sugandha for the greek army.
Im not against gay. Im just saying ut could be a disorder. Like, ocd bgayeko mancheko. Ocd bhako manchelai yo disorder ho bhanyo bhane haina hunai sakdaina bhancha. They r at denial. Tesaile if u think being will be a problem to ure parents then admit that its a disorder and u can take care of it. Just like angelina jolie, she thought she was a lesbian and was with some asian looking lady but after realing it to be just a case of disorder she started going with guys.
Timu katai saano huda, keti haru sanga dherai ta kheldaina thyo? Usually baccha belako kura haru budho bhaye pachi dekhincha. Nepal, didi haru dherai cha bhane ketiko luga lagai diera kasti raamri bhanne chalan cha. Ani ketako luga lauda chai khaasai matlab garena bhane one starts to ask for attention by doing girly things. Yestai yestai kura haru bichar gara.
The decision is yours.

hey such  a shame to see some one can hate  some other human being for there sexuality and belief

Americane @ heeralone..Gay is natural n its nothing wrong killing other robbing other is wrong condemn that' man conservative mind like yours suXX..i guess god created human being like u just to make world a hell..
Learn to accept other as well.. such a ignorant ..so lack of knowledge..there is nothing wrong in being gay.. i m not gay but i support gay marriage..n tell you world had moved long way..lots of country now recognised marriage between two same sex person.. watch Movie MIlk..
KARMA just hope not one day your brother or your son comes n tells you he is gay ..n he likes mens..what would u do..don't judge n discriminate other man u'll know when it happens to ya..

shame to see people have such a view even now

VIsible i know man despite anything ignore this people..u can't help people like them..kukur bhukdai garchaa hati lamki dai garcha.
move on put on a strong face n jst live your life.. when u different you have to face obstacles

live n let other leave

peace bro

 There are numerous gay people in Nepal. I myself am one. It is completely ok to be gay.

A piece of advice: DO NOT let anyone tell you how to live your life. Being gay doesn't necessarily mean you're promiscuous and no one has the right to tell you what is right and wrong. Be strong!

I can bet my life this is another one of those characters of babbal khate! दीस हींजडा याभटार सुट्स यू म्याऽऽऽन !!

our own brother NIROULA is a gay. What is status abt him?
he used to  live in palm spring.

Visible101 Mitra,

It's a weird question. Don't you know that there is a gay member of parliament? Sunil babu Pant, head of te Blue Diamond Society, is a great example representating LGBT group. While I was back in Kathmandu early 2009, I saw so many gays in Thamel. I heard Nepal could be the best wedding destination for gays.

Looking your behavior, it looks like you are gradually becoming gay. So, it's good news for you. You could visit Thamel to find your partner NOT sajha. Good luck

Hi there, 
Homosexuality is in all races, not just westerners. Our Nepali society is against homosexuality. Therefore people hide. But i'm sure there are 100s of homo sexuals in Nepal as well. Infact, if people think its weird and destruction of culture, facts are that even animals can be gay, not just human. If you feel for men, there is no point trying to falling in love with a girl, marrying her, making her pregnant and fooling her of your actual desires. You will not only ruin your own life but the girl's life too. they say you can lie to the whole world but not yourself and trust me the best way to stay happy forever is to be truthful to yourself and to the people around you. People are gonna criticize you regardless, whether straight or gay. Specially our nepali culture is that we talk too much about others and judge others. Don't be intimidated by people who are of no help in your life but just enough to make you feel like shit. Go for what you feel and be happy. Afterall i don't think there is any bigger happiness than finding the true love of your life, whther man or woman who can understand your deepest feelings regardless all these judgmental people. I'm a straight gurl but i am not against gay and lesbian because its simply uneducated to do so and everybody has feelings...just coz we are straight doesn't mean we have to ridicule the feels of a gay man. Feel free to fall in love with a man. 

dragontatto frustu bhaye justo cha

khula mancha ma gayera bhasan de justai garera lekhna thalyo
but what you have said is correct man, 110 percent.

Dragon,

I totally agree with you. As a gay man from Nepal, evertthing you say resonates with how I (and many like me) feel. Many choose to get married and have children, while living a life of deception. At the end of the day, we're all human and happiness is what we seek. :)

Thank you for all the replies!!!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

@visible, no matter who you are, you are what you are, we all are beautiful, as long as their is love, god loves us all. you are brave, don't worry about keyboard warriors, be what you are...

@ NAs , testo kehi haina NAs ji--jasto thiye aile ni testai chu haha -Tapi sanga mero Bhetghat bhayo jasto lagcha tapi le malai na chine ni
BTW I really liked your article regarding Bindu Pariyar :/

Thank you High Flying Eagle

Gay, from Nepal, neither proud nor ashamed. (about both of those facts)

carlossantos i know:/ It's kindda like it's not your fault but you are still held accountable :(

@visible101: Not saying that I didn't have my own struggles with it but I finally decided that life is too short to live pretending what you are not. You may not change the whole world but what you can do is be honest and it's amazing how that brings awesome little changes to you and the people around you. So no :( just a big :), just like the original meaning of the word implies. :)

@ carlossantos!! so true

@ Nas bro le picture haru chahi babbal betaunu huncha.lol..Obama scandal ko bare ta ma lai tha pani thiyena haha...Nas bro le dheri kassam na khaye ni huncha- tapi ko pani kohi sathi haru holan jo closet case huna sakchan tei bhayera khyal rakhnu hola:) Ra muri muri Dhanyanad gay jati haru prati kuni naramro bhawana rakhidiyeko ma!

@ NAS man photoshop ko pani hadh ni huncha ni, bichara obama lai ni chodena :( anyway tabloids are everywhere and can be about anything! Obama ,Larry gay bhane ni na bhayeni I am! Nas le obama ko image ko Nas garyo pravu! :P