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Posted on 12-28-11 12:15 PM     [Snapshot: 29]     Reply [Subscribe]
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I have been here for quite a while and I see myself staying for years to come.
Having said that, I totally support your decision. If you can work hard, have ideas then you can make it anywhere. For many of us, raising our kids in US culture is a concern; this will no longer be the case with you. As long as you understand that it will not be easy and all the shortcomings associated back home, you will be fine. Just don't give up with one failure, keep trying and good luck.
 
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Well brother if everything you said is true ;sounds like you can do better anywhere you go...!
 
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If I were you, I would not think for a sec. I would definitely do it.
If you ever feel like, you did the wrong thing, America will definitely welcome a genius like you. :)
 
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 did you mange to save 30 lakhs in Nepal, buy land and save enough money for average marraige all while being on student visa in USA for 4.5 years? 
 
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 us_nep ..your plan sounds really good and glad to hear that someone wantd to go back. You should def go back but don't forget to take Nepal's political and economic situation in account before you make any kind of investment. Wish you success
 
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US_Nep,

Like others have mentioned, from what you have posted in your initial post, the arguments for going back to Nepal seems quite strong.
What are the reasons that you would even consider being in the States? In your circumstance, what are the positive reasons why you would stay in the States?

 
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 this is the wrong place for your query. you should talk and seek the advise of your parents :) and just for the heads up, your 30 lakhs might be a huge sum to go shopping in nepal, but isnt much if ur thinking about getting married , building a house and starting your business. 

best wishes :)

 
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 us_nep
Its always pleasure to  hear people planning to go back. After all we don't belong here and most of the people they don't realise that or just ignore the fact. To be honest with you, if I were you I would't even think twice ...I would just go back. I always dreamed to be in you situation. Trust me there are many more who would love to go back if they are in your situation.
 
What I know is that "U'll see what you wanna see". If you think about all political instability going on in our country then probably u'll never wanna go back. But there are several othere things that you need to consider before making any decission. Basking in a sun, reading paper in a Lazy saturday, laid back life, dashain, tihar, holi, family, friends, nice sunny weather, watching TV shows with family, these stuffs may sound nothing but I believe we need these things to be happy from inside. 
 
Since you already have plans and vision and even back up for the hard times, you should be just fine. After all you have an engineering degree and a hand full of money too. If nothing works out you can still work as a teacher or rent your house to generate extra income. I dont think it would be really that hard to survive. Every one is doing it, why cant you. All it need is a state of mind. If you think  your strong enough then go for it. Our country need people like. If all the people like you wanna settle here then who gonna lead the next generation of our country. Lets not surrender our country to the hand of dirty politicians.
 
Just curious...which engineering field are you in??

 
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mahodaya  us-nepal , 
                                       definately its wrong decision ur making there is no doubt in that debate in anyways u want . timro aafno faida aafno ramro ko lagey chai teme le us mai basda ramro ho tanna poisa expensive car ghar swimming pool ini haru materialistic ananda hun jun kura temele pakkai pani nepal ma paodainau paye pani alikati dherai mahago sulka terera matra paochau . hamro samaj ma testo guf dine nepal gaera yo garne ohu garne bhanera dherai aaounchan tara actually nepal gaera saphal ta paone ekdamai thorai chan mero aghadey testo garne byakti ko odaharad eauta matra cha ti maha nayika hun karishma manandhar, bhuwan kc etc  unle yahan ko materialistic sukha chodera phirtaa gain . ra temele pani yo phirta jancho bhaneko malai guff deko jasto matra lagio .
                                      its different thing though ya ofcourse nepal nepal educated not only educated guys with some sort of skills talent definately hamro nepal ma unskilled manche haru thuprai chan ya definately nepal need guys like u pakkai pani for good of nepal but the thing is its good for nepal only bcause there is no way u will make same money as u make now . 

                                      its good decision ur gonna make but the thing is ur just making us fool because many people do because they get some sort of ananda doing that . sorry don't believe u gonna go . 

 


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