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equate.
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Posted on 01-28-16 4:20
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Any Nepali matromonial sites ? My brother looking for a bride and not being able to find one.
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F1_Refugee
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Posted on 01-28-16 4:27
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sajha is much more better than any matrimonial sites among nepalese community in US. If you and your brother doesn't have any problem then feel free to share the criteria of potential bride as of course about your brother...
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Posted on 01-28-16 4:33
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About my brother : 29 yrs old Profession : Engineer Yearly salary : 90 k - 129 k Caste : Brahmin Location : USA ( Texas ) Potential Bride, Caste : Brahmin location : USA Profession : not important
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Posted on 01-28-16 4:51
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मैले नि घर-जम गर्नी भनेको..... फेरी म योगी मान्छे.....त योगीले मेरो छोरि कसरि पाल्छस भनेर छोरि नै दिन मानेका छैनन्, के गर्नी होला?
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tito-satya
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Posted on 01-28-16 5:16
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साथि ! अमेरिका मा नेपाली केटि को भाउ नै धेरै बढेको छ ! अमेरिका आएर के के न भए जस्तो फील हुन्छ कि खै ! मैले त यत्ति सम्म सुने कि, अमेरिका आएर पनि के नेपाली केटा बिहे गर्नु भन्ने ! नेपाली केटा लाइ पत्यौदैनन हौ ! जत्ति सुकै पैसा कमाउनुस, जत्ति सुकै राम्रो job गर्नुस, जत्ति सुकै पढेको हुनुस, that does not attract Nepali girls to Nepali guy for arranged marriage ... कि फकाउनु नै पर्यो, love मा पार्न सक्नु पर्यो, न भए त खै हौ ! बरु बुढी भएर बस्छन, बरु भारतीय या त पाकिस्तानी लाइ ताक्छन अनि पछि मज्जा ले लोप्पा खान्छन, तर नेपाली केटा चै ३२ गुण भएको हुदा पनि हुदैन ! जत्ति राम्रो भए पनि हुदैन ! खै के खोज्छन के | खै के खोजेको होला हाम्रो दिदि बहिनि हरु ले ! Note: No offense to any Nepalese girl. Just sharing the experience based on my real experience.. Me and my family were in the same boat where you and your family are now. We were also looking for a nepalese girl for my elder brother's marriage who was/is in the USA. Later, he went to Nepal and got married.
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Posted on 01-28-16 5:33
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अमेरिका छिर्नु अघि नै छानी सकेको हुन्छ : यहा छिर्ना साथ् अर्को संग बिहे गरे भने पुरानो प्रेमी ले आत्म हत्या गर्ला भनी बसेका मात्रै हुन् | भाउ खोजेको भन्छौ भने पनि ठिकै छ | तिमीहरुले पनि प्रेमी बनाउन नसक्नेले अर्काको प्रेमिका खोस्ने काम किन गर्छौ ?? हा हा
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mily
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Posted on 01-28-16 6:21
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केटीहरुले धेरै भाउ खोजेको होइन होला | Maybe they don't find your mentality and attitude attractive. Just look at a post above: Potential Bride: Caste: Brahmin Everything else: Seriously?
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tito-satya
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Posted on 01-28-16 6:39
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धन्यबाद मिलि जी !
अब के भन्ने त ! आफ्नो दाइ/भाइ को बिहे गर्न केटि खोज्नु भएको हो, equate साथि ले ! कस्तो केटि चाहिएको हो त्यो त भन्नै पर्यो नि हैन र ! I do not find that has anything to do with attitude ! मलाई अनि मेरो परिवार लाइ एस्तो खालको, यत्ति age को, यत्ति पढेको, कहाँ बसेको केटि चाहिएको भन्न पनि न पाइने भए कसरि बिहे को कुरा अगाडी बढ्छ त ? Those are the first things come in the picture when anyone thinks of marriage ...
equate साथि को सब्ध को मर्म बुझ्नुस न , न कि सब्ध सब्ध को रचनात्मक आलोचना, यो कविता महोत्सभ हैन त ! न कि exam मा एउटा कविता को हरफ लाइ ब्याख्या गर्न दिएको हो !
ल बधाई छ नेपाली चेली हरु लाई, यस्तै सोच राख्दै जानुहोस ! चेली बेटी लाई बुझ्न नै नासकिनो भो बा ! धन्न मेरो बिहे भै सक्यो, नभए त यो देश मा त बिहे नै पो न हुने रहेछ आफ्नो देश को केटि संग त !
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Saaney Gurung.
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Posted on 01-28-16 7:10
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tito_satya: I second your statement from our personal experience as well. Unlike equate, we had no preference for girl's cast/ethnicity or anything else. Only expectation we had from the girl was honesty (that's the trait our family was looking for) and it seemed to be the biggest ask from Nepalese girl in US in general.
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mily
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Posted on 01-28-16 8:01
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@tito-satya, I don't think you got my point. I criticized that post because it's laden with casteism. @SaaneyGurung, Perhaps you came across a dishonest girl or two. That doesn't make it right for you to generalize all Nepali girls in the US. Dishonesty is not associated with any gender. Guys can be dishonest too.
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deepocean
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Posted on 01-28-16 9:45
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- equate, I understand, the better place to find better Nepalese girl is Nepal. Us tira mostly mily jasta bhetinchan, full of critisim, big talk of equal rights mily jee if you're female ekpatak hajurko baba-mommy family lai kale hapsi hajurharuko hunewala jyoi bhanesyos ni... hope they are not racist..neither you're :)
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tito-satya
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Posted on 01-28-16 9:48
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मिलि जी ! धन्यवाद सर्बप्रथम त !
के फरक पर्यो त equate साथि ले बाहुन को छोरी नै खोज्दा ? अब काग ले काग को हुल खोज्छ अनि बकुल्ला ले बकुल्ला को ! एउटा बाहुन को छोरो ले बाहुन को छोरी संग बिहे गर्छु भन्न न पाउने त ? एउटा गुरुङ को छोरो ले म एउटा गुरुन्ग्नी बिहे गर्छु भन्न न पाउने त? कसरि जातियबाद भयो यो कुरा? हो एउटा जात ले अर्को जात लाइ गालि गरेर वा होच्याएर बोलेको भए पो जतियबाद को कुरा आउथियो त ! यो equate साथि ले फलाना फलाना जात को केटि खराब हुन्छन अनि फलाना जात को केटि असल हुन्छन, त्यसैले बाहुन को छोरी चाहियो भनेको भए पो equate साथि गलत हुनु हुन्थ्यो त, हैन र?
बाहुन को छोरी चाहियो भन्नु कुनै गलत हैन अनि जातिबाद हैन, एउटा मुस्लिम ले मुस्लिम केटि खोझं पाउछ अनि एउटा हिन्दु ले हिन्दु केटि, त्यो जातिबाद, धर्मबाद हुदैन भने कसरि एउटा बाहुन को छोरो ले बाहुन केटि खोज्नु, एउटा गुरुङ ले गुरुङ केटि खोज्नु, एउटा मगर ले मगर केटि खोज्नु जातिबाद भयो? मैले बुझ्न न सकेको हो कि, खै हौ ?
बुझ्न नै न सकिने हाम्रा चेली बेटी लाइ ! के सारो भएको हौ ! त्यसैले होला हाम्रा छिमेकी ले नेपाली चेली मन पराएका अमेरिका मा | नेपाली केटा अलि सोझा हुन्छन, नेपाली केटि को कुरा नै बुझ्न सक्दैनन् ! नेपाली केटि पनि सोझा हुन्छन अनि त छिमेकी ले फाइदा लुट्छन |जय होस् हाम्रो चेली हरु को ! जय होस् तपाई हरु को सोच को !
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mily
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Posted on 01-29-16 1:16
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deepocean -- "Us tira mostly mily jasta bhetinchan, full of critisim, big talk of equal rights" ....LOL Yes, I'm a proponent of equal rights. You don't like that in women? Good news for you: There are many girls in the US who silently accept male chauvinism :)
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Posted on 01-29-16 1:19
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@tito-satya, तपाइलाइ पनि धन्यबाद है | मेरो बिचार मा चाहिँ "कस्तो केटि चाहियो भनेर सोध्दा" "बाहुन केटी" चाहियो भनेर उत्तर दिनु अलि ठिक होइन | तपाइले यो जातियबाद होइन भन्नु भयो | But I respectfully disagree. Casteism is so engrained in our culture that we might not even realize we are discriminating against other caste/ethnicity. I think, to say that I will marry a girl of this particular caste only is belittling other castes.
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Posted on 01-29-16 1:29
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मिलि जी ! तपाई को विचार सुन्दा अनि बुझ्दा नि, मेरो मन आझ कृतज्ञ भएको छ ! म धन्य भएको छु हौ ! ल तपाई लाइ आझ यहि साझा को मंच बाट खुल्ला निमन्त्रण दिन्छु ! मेरो कान्छी बुढी बन्नुहोस ! मेरो बुढी को पनि सल्लाह मा यो प्रताब राख्दै छु म ! तपाई ठ्याक्क कान्छी बनाउन लायक हुनुहुन्छ ! marera k nai laijaanu chha ra ! lau jaa ! Hahahahaha!!! It turned out to be so funny ! 'Whatever it is but I am correct' bhanne soch jastai bhayo hai...
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Posted on 01-29-16 7:38
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mily update: "Us tira mostly mily jasta NEPALI KT bhetinchan, full of critisim, big talk of equal rights who compels equal(women) rights to men". mily ko caste brahmin nabhayera aru nai kunai bhayekole ali chot parera caste ko kura gariseko hola :) kalelai kale bhanda reesaune kuro jastai ta hola :)
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Posted on 01-29-16 11:21
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My experince is bad too. I am guy who is in removal proceedings. So everytime a girl talks to me, i tell them frankly this is what is going on with me. Girls from nepal do not understand, girls from here run away as soon as they hear about this. Talked with two girls who were citizens. Everything went good until i told them this. They thought i was marrying them for citizenship. One girl i had to say no because her attitude changes so drastically. She would not say no, but would not say yes either or plan to meet.Just make fake promise to meet, make plan then postpone it for some absurd reason. It happened 5 times. I asked her if you have problem with me or you have bf or dont want to marry. If you have bf or dont want to marry i will simply tell my family i didnt like you. No secrets have to come out. But she kept saying no and made me swing like pendulum. After 4 months , i said keep your citizenship to yourself..i am taking highway baby.
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Posted on 01-29-16 11:52
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Okay, I am 27 yrs old female, Brahmin, and currently residing in U.S. Do I qualify?
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Posted on 01-29-16 11:52
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This thread shows that lot of Nepalis are still casteist and lot of Nepali men are sexist. They would not be sexist in the open but in anonymous forum, they will take every opportunity to show their sexist attitude.
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tito-satya
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Posted on 01-29-16 11:53
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@ cybro: Exactly, it is really hard to get Nepalese girls in the US. I do not know what they harbor in the mind, it is really difficult to find one. Even if you find, they have full of attitudes of being in the US or having Green Cards or Citizenship... they would rather grow old with that attitude or else be the lollipop of our neighbors, but always say no no to nepalese guys. I checked shaadi.com today because one of the parents in another thread was looking for a matrimonial site, for a groom for his/her daughter... and to my surprise, so many nepalese girls are there in the mid 30s and still looking for guys... but I bet if some nepalese guy sends them invitation, they will again say no no, because the attitude comes. Come on Sisters ! No one is perfect. You have to get used to live with imperfection. Compromise ! You compromise, the guy will compromise! After all, marriage is the biggest compromise!
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