Was just browsin' thru the "saptahik" on KOL and bumped into this article, eh... Which just scared the hell outta me... hehe... Is this a manifesto of soon-to-be-married Nepali girls or just a product of the writer Rasudha Risal Sharma? Coz, if this is really what Nepali girls look for in their future husband, eh, then I have a huge reason to worry about... ehh...

Guys don't read this if you have 'weak' heart... lol, this can bring tears to even the strongest single Nepali brown Male. eh...

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- http://www.kantipuronline.com/saptahic_html/gharparivar.htm#1

*******oops, the second line should have been:
Is this a manifesto of soon-to-be-married Nepali girls or just a product of the writer Rasudha Risal Sharma's desperate housewife braincells?

She must be a retard. eh.

The requirement number 5(later part) contradicts with other requirements.

Wishes are good. Thats what everyone wish. I wish you don't spend whole
life in the search of a perfect guy or a perfect girl. Thats why western
society rested whole responsibility on girls to find the perfect guy for her
by herself. In arrange marriages, these requirements are theoretical and
hardly met all. Anyway, the ultimate destination is to find boy or girl that
fit your need or hope by yourself, not by your parents. If you are not
prepared to find yourself, then, I don't think based on the boys I have
ever seen will satisfy these confiditons.

Churot Kahaini jasta lat nabhayeko might be possible, because whole world
is hating them: because they are asked to (isolated) find a special corner
designed for them. Most airlines don't allow smoking even in international
flight. ..............

Raksi: red wine is good for health. Addicted? Where is laxman rekha?
(Oops, I remember when me and friend of mine drunk 6litre of beers
over a night).

Marriage (the tash and real one): loved by females more than males.

KT sanga dherai asa nagarne: Its a two way road. Go watch http://www.wifeswaptvshow.com/ .

GP baa, It's easy to bisect, trisect, disect the things that others have said/written. Especially for you, who has already walked that road and now living happily with your aadarniya ardhangini. hehe... It's like SLC examination. To those who have already passed, it's a breeze. To those who are about to appear in SLC, it's an snow storm. To make the matter worse, I am sure that I won't pass it with the 100% grade, if those criterias mentioned by Mrs. Sudha Risal is to be believed. Phew, Zamana has really changed, eh... it would be really easy to get married some 5-10 years ago. Now, when it's about time I got married, they frigggin' changed the question model.

God bless me!!!

(>>>KT sanga dherai asa nagarne: Its a two way road.)
Baaa, Afno "arti-budhdhi" aru lai dina kaam laagcha, Na-ki aafu mathi bhai-pari aauda....
Hope you have heard that sayin'... eh...

hyatteri, k ho yesto, k jamana aayo...hamle matra sabai gare keti haru le chai k garne ni yo garna hune..yo garna nahune...eeuta garyo bhane tyesai arko garum garum laagcha ..aba bho tyeso bhaye malai ta Nepal ka padhe lekhe bhanauda keti haru chaindaina tyeso bhaye yedi yesai ma keta haru taul chan bhane.

Aaja tyo last para ma ta 'kehi gun haru hun ' re ajhai aru pani chan ra bhanya?????...aafu ta yesaima unfit ...baru gau ki sojhi...Maili ,saili le nai line maarlan ..yesso sticker pani nanikali eeuta gog ankha ma ani eeuta DVD palyer kandh ma rakhera uuta kavre tira dulyo bhane keti ta la bajji thokchu fala fal...aba sahar kai padhe lekehko khojne bhaye pani tyeti sarho tension linu pardaina..alikati tyo dollar kharcha garnu parcha ...Dindinai party ma jaane, restaurant laijane...eeuta sano car nabhaye chinees mobike le ni chalcha ..garmi bhayeni suited booted handine...eh lau herum ko chai aaudaina raicha...

Churoth rakshi ko kura garda aajkal ko jamana ma social status dekhauna bhaye ni Nepal ma ta tannu nai parcha natra ta Khe-pa bhanchan. Eh tyo Ideal keta paunu ta Ideal keti pani ta hunu paryo ni baa....yo jamana ma virgin keta khojchu bhanera ni nasoche bhayo...baru Bihe pachi ko relationship lai chai bujhne khalko chaincha bhane ta bhai haalyo ni...uusko past chai herna nahune re aafno past chai khulasta bhannu parne re....bhayo ba....bhayo. yesta guff chai nadiye ni huncha, ki chai gayera tyehi mahila sangathan ma gayera hanne yesta guff khubai taali paincha.

keta ho yestai ho vanay aba..ta "women on the top" huncha ani keta haru lay sutkeri hunuparcha ra ghar samhalnu parcha ani keti haru kaam ma janchan...hey pravu kasto kaliyug...

Hamra pala ma internet aako thiyen, hera K Beta.

Sudha Risal or hamra sajha ka heroin S. haru jo sukai huun,
if they want to find a perfect guy who satisfies all these
conditions, then they will also get old or end up with your
Kuhire-sala.

Unfortunately, the dilema suffered by our Nepali guys/girls in
America is not the quality in Nepali boys/girls as pointed by
Sudha, I think the prime requirement is do you have H1B
if you have just entered in job? Will your employer sponsor
Green Card? If are around the 4-6th year in H1B, then,
have you already applied Green Card? Do you have it already
if are staying longer? The rejection of Nepali girls or boys
in USA will not be based on Sudha's requirements, but, based
whether you have possibility of continuation of job as a green
card holder. Thats why a high school girl or boy who has
green card in either way through job or through DV lottery,
will deserve better candidate than what you really have in
professional life. If your prospectus w.r.t. green card is not
good then, you are gone: neither sudha nor other s____a can
help you.

The trend towards marrying Kuhire-keta or KT or even to Indian keta or
KT, the prime reason is to get green card. In this effort, they will end up
sand witched between Nepal's social requirements (through home)
and the american society. The rate of divorce (most of the time premediated
divorce: expected to happen after green card) among half Nepali
couples would give us real scale reading on the marriage success ratio.
Whether Sudha's requirements are really worth to get satisfied or
make some compromise with happy nice looking easy going guy with
good professional job.

Remember that when roulette ball is rotated with high energy, it
does not have to settle in one slot out of 38, as long as it has
high energy and all slots are turned to one. When energy dissipates
and KE is lowered the ball sees 38 slots and finally, it should settle
with one slot. That slot is called a lucky slot for the players. Guys
with all requirements are like the roulette ball with high energy at
the beginning, he has demand all around and thats why he won't
settle so early. He is vulnerable to switch to other slots until
its energy "age-charm-money" are ..................

GP

कलकं बिहे जहिले गरे नि गर तर बोका अहिले ने छिनिराख है।

Good social commentary! While at the first glance, Sharma's writing comes as derisive, snooty requirement list, it is in fact a very clever, one may even say sarcastic, look at the double standard in our society.

It's about time tables are turned.

Case in point: she wants a husband who has no previous emotional or physical attachments (meaning virgin, up there and down there), but she does not want him to question her past, or her ways and have no predisposed expectations of her.

One may gasp at that, but is it not so common from men's side? Even lot of Nepali guys here in the US who go home and get married expect their wife to be virgin, emotionally and sexually, while they themselves have had numerous pre-marital affairs and sexual experience while in college or elsewhere.

Hoina ra?

ke bho aba, tables turned huh? Pahile keta haru le garda pani kehi nahune aba keti haru lai aja dherai khojey bhane yati dherai ho halla...

"Churoth rakshi ko kura garda aajkal ko jamana ma social status dekhauna bhaye ni Nepal ma ta tannu nai parcha natra ta Khe-pa bhanchan."

Dude, GROW UP!!!! Drinking and smoking does NOT mean showing your social status. Many girls are prefer non-smokers over smokers which is a good thing. There is a campaign started in our college called, "YES I mind you smoking", with all this anti-smoking campaign going on, you think its cool to smoke. And you think smoking is showing off your social status, dude, u have some SERIOUS issues. I don't need to even go to the stop drinking campaigns.

Can someone teach me how to download Nepali font, I want to read the article too.

Riten u said it all. Agree with u 100%

Hey guys grow up

You will not find any virgin man and woman in this world.
They play even in remote area but they donot call sex.

as far as smoking and drinking it is not a good habit however
that doesnot mean it will make you a bad person either.

Meera,
Try this link - http://www.kantipuronline.com/nepali/fontinstall.php for the fonts.

good article indeed! enjoyed it :)

adrian, she wants guys that can drink/smoke in moderation, she doenst want somone that has a "LAT" on these habit..

p.s I BET no WOman Wud want a guy addicted to Sajha.com either :)

I donot think she will care
because when you drunk you donot know who is who
and what is what

hahahahahah we Nepali ppl are so funny.. we come from hills and dirty streets of kathmandu where cows are eating dump ... but our hopes are surely high.. even higher than mount everest.. now every Nepali girl wants to marry Brat pitt or Tom cruise..every Nepali guy would prolly wanna marry Jlo, or julia, but the question is not who they wanna get married with , the question is do you think they get married.....???? i highly doubt it.... and even if someone gets married with a sexy kherya or kherynee wha makes them so pure than Nepali guys or girls.. do you think they will hold thier sexual desires and use that organ just to pee pee cuz they always dream about getting married with a sexy Nepali?? bull shit.... only kherya Nepali girls find are bhuday, tallu khulay, or someone who can't find a white girl.. and i've seen that mostly Nepali guys end up getting married with a mote kherynee or physcos whose relationship don't last more than 1 to 2 months with white dudes...
marriage is more like compormise to most nepali when they get pressured by thier family, thier age, thier loneness, and of course green card situation... already getting sick of the term marriage in sajha.. looks like everyone in sajha wanna get desperately married asap cuz they're having no luck with khernees or kheryas as they brag about them in here.....
why not go to villages and get married with the poor nepali girls or guys. it will make thier life better and you'll do the same for them...

quit dreaming about hollywood actor looks.. they have bhirangay roooggg.... go to Nepal and get married.. be happy

dyamnn

Meera Said (in response to my earlier posting)
"Dude, GROW UP!!!! Drinking and smoking does NOT mean showing your social status. Many girls are prefer non-smokers over smokers which is a good thing. There is a campaign started in our college called, "YES I mind you smoking", with all this anti-smoking campaign going on, you think its cool to smoke. And you think smoking is showing off your social status, dude, u have some SERIOUS issues. I don't need to even go to the stop drinking campaigns."

I guess u had a problem understanding my implication, I was just elaborating the normal Nepalese mentality n their expectation,and hence the ground reality over there.Not a question that I it admit or not.
Whatever u say(I may say that too) but our social grading system is so impractical that people r judged by money, luxury n eventually their habits. U have money, u go to night outs u drink n u smoke ...there would be ten other people trying to follow u back there ..the gossiping society says "well done dude"...I dont care abt the mentality in ur college or as a whole in US or west....my implication was solidly based on OUR that is NEPALESE menatlity. I never said niether implied that it is COOOOOLLL..so please do take into account of the dimensions before u jump into a quick conclusion..which has rather a personal smell.

BY the way what makes u think that I am 'NOT Grown Up'? if u r looking for a healthy discussion try out without making it personal ,I would aprreciate that...First u behave as a grown up then may be u can raise similiar question ...

Comments highly appreciated not celf centered egos.

Bho baa..ma ta auta matra hoina dui tin wata Khairee bihee garchuu