Guys...I am in a dilemma about my gf...at the begining when we started our relationship..she was so keen to me and she always used to do some thing to make me realize she is always there for me...
before when i was upset she used to call me everytime just to make me feel she is there but now...she just says how are u feeling???bloody hell what's the meaning...i don't know how to understand these girls...
Do you guys think that she is over me...moreover i havn't meet her from last 10 months...she is in nepal...i call her everyday (bloddy half of my money goes on phone calls...) but still she is not as excited as before...
do u think she is over me or what....
please guys let me come out through this agonizing moments....

Birkhey dai, May be your girl's found some Harke dai or Bhunte dai around .......hehehehe Jokes a part.


Somewhere i had read that holding love is like catching butterflies. If u hold too tight it

dies and if u let go it flies.Well u r in such kinda position. Just chill myaan. Take a chill

shower, make some coffee and watch a movie in your video and don't think too much

about her.Just keep on living your life.. and if she really loves you and misses you too

then there will surely be bell ringing on your phone from her. Take it easy myaan.
chill.....not with San miguel though.

Dude ... have you ever heard of AWACS aircrafts during war in Bosnia and more recently in Iraq. Bro.. those Airborne Warning And Control System aircraft are airplane equipped with airborne long-range RADAR fitted in to search suspecious or hostile activities in aerospace and on ground in friendly as well as nerby enemy territories and inform near-by flying friendly air-support to take out such suspecious or hostile activities.

Dude you have picked a suspecious signal in your Arbel 3D-RADAR. Do not fire HellFire (Air-Ground) missiles into the target without asking for close-up ariel photograph of the intended suspecious target from AWACS team but if you feel thretened, fire your guided HellFire missiles at the target before she fires her Russian A1(Ground-Air) missile at you.

You will live to fight another day...........chao

sad case dawg, get real , look for someone here to date ... ten months u spent just calling her, and that too, she's in nepal ??? woah man, as i said get real and find someone here .... there ain't no shortage of gals here dawg ...

Birkhey bro don't jump into conclusion............May be she is missing you so much and she thinks by avoiding you she might be able to feel a little bit releaved..............
You were in Nepal before and you guys were together and got to see each other, after coming here she might be missing the love and affection you used to give her.......
Something might be bothering her she doesn't want to tell you. Try talking and have her open up to you and tell you how she is feeling. There could be so many reason.....
Peace Out.....................

Rekha ji.... Jun ma pani lekhna bhyaunu bha cha............
kasto fursad.......
cheers...........

it is understandable but how to deal with the gal who says everything is fair before marriage..specially when u r being very truthful..how would u react in such situation...

Birkhe bro.......she already found someone....forget her


Hara mitra kte ko pachi laagnu hunna yo umer maa....pahila career ani kte...Gals are always barrier for career...love garna thalyo bhane jindagi pragati garnadaina...paisa bhaye pachi jasto pani kte aaucha....model, russian, hungarian, american, british and even ranas and royal family

malai lagcha ki timro gf has found another birkhe dai man. come on its been 10 months u say. no offense pasa, but thats a long time when all she gets to stay in touch is through phone. maybe you should move on too.

yea i can sense that but friends bloody i can't finish off the feelings and her memories...its really hard..f..k man i m realizing now how difficult it is to be in emotional..i don't know how u guys easily say move on...its not that easy man..
i have been here for years but just becuase of her..i m being very truthfull...coz i never wanted to cheat her..but whats coming on me now is devastating man...

bro it takes time and for me its been 3 yrs still.....she is in my heart..she is married with 2 kids...bro..listen to the song " dil mera churay kun" from akele hum akele tum and lock yourself in room..........cry as much as u can...bring it out...then play rob zombie song and jump.....it will take u atleast 6 months...start listening to heavy metal dude...it works....

Sorry to interupt u guys as i m new to this site.
Birkhey dai, it is totally up to u what ur next step gonna be, whether to let her go or hold on to her. Don't follow what others say, do what ur heart tells u to.If it still tells u to go along with her,then just do it.But as a well wisher,i just want to say that gals are really hard to be trusted though I m a gal.
"Do u trust some and fooled in phoniness or trust none and live loneliness"....think about it.

lax u r right...u know what hurts me most...i gave her trust n faith and she is playing around (not sure though)..if she really had fallen for other..she should speak it out and let me out from this dilemma...until she doesn't speak and clear the real things..i will be suffering...i tried to talk about this recently..but she doesn't response she just try to change the topic...
don't you think..if that is the case..she should really take me out of this dilemma and clear the things....

If you are really worried and want her to be with you in the future then book a ticket for nepal in this winter. Go to nepal and get married. And come back , try to bring her where ever you are now.

birkhe bro
i have been in very similar situation as urs, and as others have mentioned, i am trying my best to move on and forget her, its really tough to move on and realize how things turn upside down so quickly, in my case, i was as patient as anyone can be, trying to figure out if she really was over me or just sth else was bugging her and all that, in ur case, if she doesn't want to talk about it, there's no point forcing, maybe some day she will realize her mistake, or if she didn't fall for any other guy,maybe she will tell why she is behaving like that to u, as much as it hurts, don't jump to conclusions and break it off just like that, just don;t call her so often, i know its tough and all the time u would be thinking about talking to her and clearing up things, but don't, just let time pass by and make her realize that now u dont really care, if she did fall for other guy, she won't talk to u obviously, but if there is sth else bothering, i am sure she will talk to u eventually, trust me, girls take advantage of the feelings their bf's have for them, they feel like their bfs will face any crap put out by them, so ya, don't just break it off totally and keep ur options open, i am sure u will have a hope somewhere in u that she will be with u one day, keep that flicker of hope alive but don't let it get in ur way of studies/work?? here, i made the same mistake and now i am repenting, wishing i had never sacrificed my studies and all for someone who eventually dumped me, (i think so........)damn this gals, they r never open about anything, r they???
anyways, chill out and with time u will feel better,

haaaaaaaaaaennnnnnnnn birkhey mula
this is a moment to savour.
every song will be about u,
u will be able to relate to a scene in every movie.
poems will hurt
and sayings will make u cry
savour it, because to feel like u are feeling right now
is to really be alive.

see, your brain has an oppurtunity to go throught the whole gamut
of feelings and expressions.
u have probably never felt so low , right.
look at it this way u can't go any lower.
so taste this moment, and know what it is to feel like a spurned lover.
and move on up. this is what life is about,
you're lucky, only a chosen few get to experience it.
the rest read about it or watch it on the tv, and think that the momentary sadness
they feel , is what life is about. the fools, love is never sweeter then when it is tasted through the lips of a soul that has experienced hate.

nay, i say, u have to have been there :)
if u've never loved and lost
u've never lived.
so savour it.


but then again, she could really be concentrating on getting her life into shape to be a
better person for u, seeing as u're abroad and she's threatened by the assertive and
empowered women u might meet and compare her with.
so disregard disregard,
i just needed to rant n rave a bit.

It is easy for me to tell you "ditch the bitch and find new itch" but achaano ko piir achaano lai matra thaha huncha. But, one thing for sure, in time, you will feel the pain less and less.

Hoina ra?

Birkhey dai, Darshan garay pavhu...
Dai... satya satya.. you're not the only person out there who are having hard time with women.. or a woman.. we men have been in that situation for thousands of years.. women are the most weirdest creature ever created in this planet earth.. Dinasourse, dragon shit even shitmonoster got nothing when you compare them with these nice-innocent looking vicious heart breakers, soul shakers ladiesssss... so watch out...
Bro, listen... it's all a game to them.. they think differently then us.. their brain is wired differently.. attraction works differently with them.. if you call them too much, you'll lose your charm- your attraction, which black ppl call gyammmmmm white ppl might call it attraction and we Nepali often mistaken it by "love". bro, don't call her too much, but call her enough to make her crazy about you... i think you called her too much and made her fill like you're a selectee and not a selector.. hence, you're no challenging for her.. you're like a "ghar ki murgee" for her.. and you lost your charam/game/attraction/love(??).. .bhujnu bho dai????
Dai, it's a sisterhood out there... they all speak the same language.. they all want men to stay at home.. watch thier kids and still bring money for them.. it's not thier fault.. it's how female genes works...they always seek for a candadite who can protect them, and feed them and what not.. since the cave days.. languages has changed, dress , behaviors has changed over the years but thier deep down expectation is still the same over the thousands of years.. and you often see one girl supporting another - rather than a man.. evern gone to girls for advice in you love life and found out that she's so b.s and can't understand your sentiments?? duh... cuz you're going to a girl .. she can't understand you although she wants to.. cuz her brain is wired differently.. she can't think or feel as you do... she's a different creature than you....
So bro, these girls wanna tame you.. you don't do that.. you're a male.. you are designed to spread the seed... so go out there and find your suitable mate.. spread your seed a lil' bit.. enjoy and celebrate being a man... and be a slector not a selecteee ... and for heaven's shake.. don't waste your thinking about that girl thousands of miles away.. bro.. look around.. see that blonde with big bleeeppsss??/ how's that.... uh huhhhhhh now you're feelin'...
and bro, don't worry about emotional craps.. at least don't go looking for them.. they're like troubles .. they'll come get you.. don't worry.. when it's time.. you'll find that one that will make you marry her. until then.. do what nature wants you to do.. do what natured intended you to do, and let them do what nature wants them to do.. you play you gyammeee bro ;)

hajur ko bhai,
dyamn bahadur...

Men cheat,women cheat,big deal.It was never meant to be so move on with your life.It's human nature to cheat.The question should be what did YOU do to make your partner cheat?Now that reminds me I want to have some cheese!

Thank you guys for your good n valuable suggestion..and hey dyamn bro i really liked your opinoin...
i hope things are not like that what i m asuuming...

well i have booked a flight to ktm after new year...will be going to clear up the things..
i just don't want to live my life with a confusion on my mind...

now even after i met her ..and things are same..then on my side..i could say..i have done all what i could to save my love...

if it works out to be good...then i will cherish..otherwise back here..and start ...spreading the seeds..haha coz then it would be like getting pain only by trusting another gal....