Wot is the best way to propose somebody?And wot is the best way to say no?

propose meaning date or marrige.

when a man ask a girl to marry??? .....i don't understand why people say propose for a date....

proposal--

"would you mind being a beloved "grandma" of our grandchildren?"

reject--

"excuse me, but i don't understand love. i am too naive and premature for those stuffs"


LooTe

Eh, Kya bolti tu, Aati ka khandala?

ss74k-- ya me neither.

well if someone is proposing someone i m gonna guess they have been dating for a while. so why would they say no?

I love you so much!! I want to spend the rest of my life with you and I can't spend the rest of my life without you either!! Will you marry me??

how's that shwetta?? (wink,wink)
do let us know if he says yes or no ke!! :P :P

and if you wanted to say no to the other guy then:
I know but it's not like that!! You're an awesome guy but i just don't think we'll get along that way!! I am so sorry but we can always be very good friends!! :)

how's that huh??

oh man i am good ke!! :) :P

I talked to him over msn and phone for sometime...liked him..but dind't know alot about him..there were still many things I wanted to know about him and he was not telling and I did not dare to ask directly as I thought its beginining he might not like being asked too many questions..then oneday over the phone out of blues he said would you like to be married to me?? It came as surprise..without thinking I said I I dont know...though I may have wanted to say yes....did I make mistake?? somewhere I was expecting he would ask me one day in person not over the phone??? should I have said yes???
we still talked over phone...met again..I fell in love with him...now he says he wont because I did not say yes then......

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seducing...??

or

make him leaving..??
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Just say in our gorkhali way -

"ओइ कान्छी, आइ लव यु होइ आइ लव यु ..."

or what do you think??

-Rjn

Just say" mary me BIA%$h"

i lop u.

i lop u Mokshya
lajata vorn daui mai lay

Shwetaa,
Wot is the best way to propose somebody?
-Showing interest in the person first, if he likes you he will propose himself or you can break the ice too. If you are attractive this should be a piece of cake I think..if not forget about it. If both of you are already in love with each other it should be even easier.. Just tell the guy that your family in Nepal is looking for a groom for you.. then he should react to it if he likes you

And wot is the best way to say no?
-"I am seeing someone" or "I am engaged" or "You are like my brother" haha... the worst thing to hear from a chick you like..

nepalname तिमि ले मेरो बितेको दिन को याद दिलायौ , मलाइ पनि यस्तै परेको थियो फरक यतिकि तिम्रो फोन मा मेरो फेस टु फेस तर नचिनिकन अझ भन्नु पर्दा कसैको घरमा जाँदा । मलाइ उसको त्यो प्रश्नले यस्तो सरप्राइज दियो कि सोचेकै थिइन त्यतिखेर तर पनि भने मलाइ सोच्ने टाइम देउ , भन्ने नै हो भने उसको बानि ब्यहोरा र बोलि वचन ले त म त्यहि हुन्छ भन्न सक्थे। जवाफ नदिइ म घर फर्के , आज भन्छु , भोलि भन्छु भन्दा भन्दैमा म बिदेसिए। उसले दिएको नम्वर साथ बोकेर बिदेश हानिए तर फेरि बिदेसमा आएर पनि ३ महिना फोन गर्न सकिन र पछी गर्दा उनको बिबाह भैसकेछ । लाग्यो म ढिला भएछु जे भए पनि उसको ममि लाइ बधाइ सुनाइदिनु है अन्टि भनेर फन राख, पहिले नै भआरि भएको मुटुलाइ अरु भारि थप्दै ।

The best way I have seen somebody propose someone was back in the winter of 2004. I think it was either valentines day or the day before... Me and my frens from school were hanging out around manhattan that time. we stopped at the rockerfeller plaza to see people skate and all that stuff...

The music was playing and all that jazz but all of a sudden the music stopped and everyone went to the side of the rink except for this dude who circled around the rink with the spot light all the time on him. He probably circled a couple of times and then went down on his knees and went infront of his "love", took out the ring and proposed her right there infront of everyone with a great little "arrangement" he did....

Of course she said yes and they kissed with everyone clapping for them...

This I think was the best way the dude could have ever come up to propose !!!

lol that newyork rocafella center proposal is a standard thing in newyork, many people do it, it is romantic way to do it , but i personally have seen 2 guys proposing the same way at the skating ring,i personally think a guy should be unique while proposing something personal , and somebody said " well if someone is proposing someone i m gonna guess they have been dating for a while. so why would they say no? " , well for starters if two people are dating for a while that does not mean both of them are ready for a commitment , two people dating could also mean that they enjoy each others comapany , the relationship and great sex , that need not result in marraige every time , so sometimes there could me a "NO" while proposing dude.

With the assumption of spate of successful dates with woman, I would recommend someone three things to contemplate before popping the question.

Foremost, choose a venue that spurs the moment as once in a life time experience. You would ask yourself would she be embarrassed or amazed and feel bliss if you pop the question at this venue? I am not gung ho about bash, glitz, and fete, yet I recommend you should ponder hers hobbies or interests with yours that would incite and reciprocate emotionally that last forever. With the courage and pride, you should propose at Talk Show or Daily Show or Karaoke or something different but very unique place. For instance, I would pop the question during the break while visiting Good Morning America or Today’s Show in NY or J Lo's Late Night talk show in LA. It could be something else that should match the interest and very exciting for both.

Having venue chosen, next you desire her to be amazed and delirious. You should offer genuine chivalry and unwitting ad-lib at the venue where you are about to pop the question. That most people have proposed mundanely, You should make this as much as possible peculiar. What could it be much peculiar? It's a million dolor question folks. I leave peculiarity for you to find out yourself because it comes with your trait.

Finally, the moment has come to utter your expression literally. You could express the emotions as romantic as possible in your own words, albeit If I were you, I would express my feeling something like this. First, I kneel and hold her hand gently and start expressing my feelings. The moment I saw you on our first meeting, I felt you were the one who I have been dreaming of my whole life. I could not stop my emotions of regard and affection to you on the first day and there after. I cherish and love you very much. You are my future, my world, my life, and my heart. I wanna be your soulmate to share the moment of truth and ups and downs forever. Would you honor me being my lovely wife?

With love

I think so

Swetaa, I have no idea how to propose a guy cuz I am a guy. I just know how to propose a girl. lol

I_think_so,

Excellent idea.. interesting venue, unusual and impromptu but romantic proposal. But you forgot to mention the ring which contains the diamond. Just like in the movies.. But these things are not necessary in the culture that I was brought up. If you genuinely love and trust each other then there is no need to do all this I think, just some flowers, a ring and a nice restaurant should be sufficient for normal people like me.