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Osho on love

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LOVE IS THE ONLY FREEDOM FROM ATTACHMENT. WHEN YOU LOVE EVERYTHING YOU ARE ATTACHED TO NOTHING.
In fact one has to understand the very phenomenon of attachment. Why do you cling to something? Because you are afraid you will lose it. Perhaps somebody may steal it. Your fear is that what is available to you today may not be available to you tomorrow.

Who knows about what is going to happen tomorrow? The woman you love or the man you love -- either movement is possible: you may come closer, you may become distant. You may become again strangers or you may become so one with each other that even to say that you are two will not be right; of course there are two bodies but the heart is one, and the song of the heart is one, and the ecstasy surrounds you both like a cloud. You disappear in that ecstasy: you are not you, I am not I. Love becomes so total, love is so great and overwhelming, that you cannot remain yourself; you have to drown yourself and disappear.

In that disappearance who is going to be attached, and with whom? Everything is. When love blossoms in its totality, everything simply is. The fear of tomorrow does not arise; hence there is no question of attachment, clinging, marriage, of any kind of contract, bondage.

What are your marriages except business contracts? "We commit to each other before a magistrate" -- you are insulting love! You are following law, which is the lowest thing in existence and the ugliest. When you bring love to the court you are committing a crime that cannot be forgiven. You make a commitment before a magistrate in a court that "We want to be married and we will remain married. It is our promise, given to the law: we will not separate and we will not deceive each other." Do you think this is not a great insult of love? Are not you putting law above love?

I am a lawless man; that's why two dozen countries are against me, although I have never committed any crime. But I don't believe in any law either.
I love -- there is no need for any law.
Law is for those who do not know how to love.
Law is for the blind, not for those who have eyes. Law is for those who have forgotten the language of the heart and only know the language of the mind.

Mirdad's statement is of such great value that it should be deeply understood -- not only intellectually, not only emotionally, but in your totality. Your whole being should drink it:
LOVE IS THE ONLY FREEDOM FROM ATTACHMENT.

... Because when you love you cannot even think of anything else.
WHEN YOU LOVE EVERYTHING YOU ARE ATTACHED TO NOTHING. Each moment comes with new splendor, new glory, new songs; each moment brings new dances to dance. Perhaps partners may change, but love remains.
Attachment is the desire that the partner should never change. For that you have to commit to the court, to the society -- all stupid formalities. And if you go against those formalities you will lose all respect and honor in the eyes of the people amongst whom you have to live.

Love knows nothing of attachment because love knows no possibility of falling from dignity. It is the very honor itself, the very respectability itself; you cannot do anything against it. I am not saying that partners cannot change, but that it does not matter: if partners change but love remains like a river, flowing, then in fact the world will have much more love than it has today.

Today it is just like a tap -- drip, drip, drip. It is not able to quench anybody's thirst. Love needs to be oceanic, not the drip, drip of a public tap. And all marriages are public.
Love is universal. Love does not invite only a few people to celebrate, love invites the stars and the suns and the flowers and the birds; the whole existence is welcome to celebrate.
Love does not need anything else -- a night full of stars, what more can you ask for? Just a few friends... and the whole universe is friendly. I have never come across a tree who was against me. I have been to many mountains, but I have never found any mountain antagonistic. The whole existence is very friendly.
Once your own understanding of love blossoms there is no question of attachment at all. You can go on changing your partners, that does not mean you are deserting anybody. You may come back again to the same partner, there is no question of any prejudice.... And later on Mirdad says:
MAN MADE PRISONER BY THE LOVE OF A WOMAN AND WOMAN MADE PRISONER BY THE LOVE OF A MAN ARE EQUALLY UNFIT FOR FREEDOM'S PRECIOUS CROWN.

The moment love becomes attachment, love becomes a relationship... the moment love becomes demanding, it is a prison. It has destroyed the freedom; you cannot fly in the sky, you are encaged.

excerpt from: Osho, Yaa Hoo! The Mystic Rose

Lake of sorrow
Ocean of tears
Valley of pain
Eternal suffering

Read this,
1. Marriage are made in heaven, as are are thunder and lightning.
2. If you want your wife to pay attention to every word you say; talk in your sleep.
3. Marriage is grand; divorce is a 100 grand!
4. In the first year of marriage, he speaks and she listens. In the second year, she speaks and he listens. In the third year, they both speak and the neighbors listen.
5. When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, either the car is new or the wife is new.
6. In a marriage man and woman become one. The trouble starts when they can't decide which one.
7. Before marriage, a man will lie awake all night thinking about something you say. After marriage, he will fall asleep before you finish.
8. Every man wants a wife who is beautiful, understanding, frugal, and a good cook. But the law allows only one wife.
9. Marriage and love are purely matter of chemistry. That is why wives treat husband like toxic waste.
10. A man is incomplete until he is married. After that, he is finished.............


Love leads to destruction .....

Love may be BLIND but it can still UNTIE a knot in the dark.

Read :There is no such thing as true love -- this is just a business transaction.And everyone is happy to do this business some profit some may lose.But worth it!:) only thing you need to realize is this is give n take ..not free.

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Love defined as: source: mariage.eklesia.net
Augustine of Hippone completing a definition initiated by Aristotle defined three types of love and these keys are interesting to transpose in our history :

- Loving to be loved (Amare - Amari) :
A narcistic feeling necessary to believe in myself, the minimum necessary to start believing in other...

- Loving to love (Amare - Amare, in Greek philien) :
Joy to share, friendship, force which makes us closer to the other, gives us value, allows us to exist in society

- Love (Amare, in Greek agapan) :
Loving-gift, the one who does not look after its interest

Love?
It's a game. Play and feel and enjoy.

well, ki padera jaanicha re ki ta parera janincha re,
aaphno campus ma testo kura padayenan,
herunjel love parne , bolyo ki tragedy hune khalko pariyo aafu ta, k ka love parnu, tei dhyangri le ta man paraian, aru ko k kura,

tara bidwan haru le k bhaneka raechan aso herau na ta asko barema,

Love - a wildly misunderstood although highly desirable malfunction of the heart which weakens the brain, causes eyes to sparkle, cheeks to glow, blood pressure to rise and the lips to pucker

Love one another and you will be happy. It's as simple and as difficult as that.

When a man is in love or in debt, someone else has the advantage

Love is much nicer to be in than an automobile accident, a tight girdle, a higher tax bracket or a holding pattern over Philadelphia. ~Judith Viorst

Love is like those second-rate hotels where all the luxury is in the lobby. ~Paul-Jean Toulet

True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen. ~François, duc de La Rochefoucauld

and finally ,

It's so easy to fall in love but hard to find someone who will catch you.
(same case here , ha ha )

Koi bhanchan prem dui atma ko milan ho
Koi bhanchan prem jindagi bhar ko sath ho
Tara ma bhancu sathi
Prem paisa sakne euta sasakta madhyam matra ho

love hurts yare.. sathi ho.. so don't love........


but lop.. hai lop is better than love..

Love is opposite of evol.

If you dont want to evol (ve) (change) you know you are in Love.

Love just kills your brain

Love sucks.

VERY POWERFUL STATEMENTS ON LOVE. THANKS FOR POSTING.

Ended with SEX...mummmhhhh

do_no_remember_me,
trust me we wont remmeber u as well :P
and as for ur statement above......wat more can a girl expect from a guy rite??? since thats all any guy ever wants.

Love is like glue, which keeps each and every one in this world together, in different ways, Emotions and feelings.
Love have different forms, types and ways.

Love is not always between boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife, Love is also between mother, father and children, brothers, sisters, friends, relatives and so. (You get the point)
With love comes respect as well, respect for each other.
Just imagine if there is no love in the world, every one hated everybody, then what would be of this world, love and respect is the only thread binding us all together.

And in some point also the Fear because Fear is only the weapon stronger enough to control the world.
Just sharing my point of view……

sweetest_SIN

whoever you are guy or gal,

First of allll......Many many thanx to you.......Lakhuai Lakh thanx.....kina tha chaaa...afteralll some body reply my post for me...........i had posted 4 or 5 topics and none of these get good responses....

Love is a drug for fools.

what i thought is let's start some b*s*....and get prompt response.....chitta dukhe ko ho....bichara chow chow chow.....bichara............If u r serious and only serious in love,, i wan say I AM SORRY....bhayo....