I am in extreme situation, just wondering what will you guys do.

I met my BF 2years back in college, i thought he was nice, he is cool , he is bindas, just like buddha. I fell for him, we moved together in the same apt, until recently i found abt this guy, HE JUST PRETENDS all these( just to sleep with girls as he has slept in past), he travels to diff state just to sleep.

But I like him, i felt for him, u know nepali gl are nepali, once you gave ur heart, cant change, i did everything to win him back, he is a chain smoker, stole cigarette, liquor from my working place, i even befriend his best friend who is from the same community and caste, his habit also same, stealing, sleeping with gls.

Now what ppl will do in this situation.

ADVISE NEEDED

you are f**ked up .:

ASK YOURSELF!!!:p
what you want to do ?
when the subject is abt love!! don't listen to anyone except your heart!!

"he travels to diff state just to sleep"
LMAO!!! i really dont know a perfect adjective to describe that kind of person !! lol someone help me to figure out the perfect word!! "twat crazy ??"

you are crazy girl. just leave that sh!t.

KentuckyKanchi,
Think about your  future. Stay away from this guy.

get your @$$ moving girl. Move on.
Out of sight out of mind.

Yes am f**ed up but need good advise though

For every nepali girl in a messed up relationship like that, there are 50 other nepali boys looking to hook up with you so don't waste your time.

However, if you want to think critically, then maybe the guy loves you but wants to have sex with others. Men are genetically programmed to mate with as many females as they can and it may be difficult for some guys to overcome that. So figure out whether he loves you or not. Figure out whether it's love you want or sexual commitment. And then you can go from there

rithink, u cant give this shit reason, man r gentically strong, ...

rithink, do u think this that men r strong in everything

Not genetically strong, just genetically inclined to mate with more females, so as to 'spread the seed', to continue their specy.

Gurl you can do better than that. Just see in your own college there are way too many nice guys both nepali and others...you deserve better than that.

कान्छी, के सोचेर बसिराकी तिमी? बजियेको मट्याङ्रा फुट्ने गरी देउ, अनि आफ्नो बाटो लाग। बार्है महिना कात्तिक लाग्ने तुरीलाउरेसँग बसेर तिम्लाई फलिफाप हुँदैन। उही छ नि एउटा भनाइ- घाँस न सास, "कुन्नी के जाती"को सत्यानास भन्या जस्तो मात्रै हो।

rethink:
Men are genetically programmed to mate with as many females as they can
just genetically inclined to mate with more females, so as to 'spread the seed', to continue their specy.
- that's a really lame excuse for not being able to control sex drives. We males are pretty sloppy regarding sex. women have much higer libido than males do but they are able to keep their hormones under control and they tend to keep their relationships to as few males as possile or are just more honest.

Jantare yep that's the animal instinct.

When the females got pregnant and were getting ready to nourish the newborn, do you think male animals are expected to be jacking off waiting for the female to get ready for sex?

I don't think so

@rethink, who told you men are genetically programmed to sex with as many women as possible. I'd like to read that report bro. In my opinion, women are same, 'uhi dyang ko mula'.


@kentuckykanchi, nothing is wrong in your part. when you guys se*x-ed , sort of bodily chemicals..endorphine and stuff got exchanged. this thing creates bond at emotional level. this is what happening to you , when you wrote 'you felt for him'. now, just take it easy, isolate yourself from that person for at least 2-3 months and the effect of that body chemicals shall fade away and you should be back to normal. just remember every morning, that you slept with male HO and just give a [Disallowed String for - banned word] about him..  this mental preparedness will even help you accelerate to stabilize things quickly. think about all the bad things he might have done.. just bad things.. if there is none, think always that he's male HO stripping dancing in the women's strip club. and we know what HO is like. use and throw. just do it..  don't ever think of going back to him again.. run away from him.. there's always better waiting for you and believe me everything happens for good. there is something good, wonderful waiting for you.. naani..

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Is this Kentuckycowboys your boyfriend?

lol stat bro!! HAHAA

 Like No_More_Crush said, dumb the guy and move on with your own life. 

And like I tell every other Nepali girl, NEVER move in with a guy unless you're dead sure that he's the one! I know that hormones get the better of you when you're young but unless you're 22-23, decisions of moving in with a guy often leads to bad consequences. I know this not by my own experience but by my friends' experiences (mostly girls). 

I bet you still have some feelings towards him despite him being a jerk but that's what separates us from other animals. We have emotions and feelings - even towards objects and people that don't deserve them. 

The longer you stay with him, the harder it's likely to get. 

Good luck. 

STAT bro totally made my day !
@kentuckykanchhi : try mailing this story to Karan jOhar, he could be the one doing better justice to you, not us "bharautes" in sajha !

 I dont see a reason why you are still with that even when you know he is cheating on you. The only thing I am considering is you dont wanna loose your F*** buddy.