I find that I'm not good at being "flirty" with a girl who isn't clearly interested in me back or being flirty with me. For example, I have been talking to a girl right now. I've talked to her twice and she is very lovely and funny her laugh drives me crazy... but could'nt make any sort of move. On the other hand, I'm not sure if she likes me, and so when I go in for a move. I'll have to take a chance of course. At the time it'll be more obvious...But anyway, I digress. What little flirty things can I say to spice things up and see where she stands?

I find I'm pretty good at it with girl-friends because there's no REAL interest, so I'm 100% confident and I can make women laugh that way, since I can't lose (through not really wanting to go out with them). I need to somehow translate this for women I AM interested.

So much for hormones;
And your pessimism.

Is love a feeling or a fantasy, you asked?
It can be felt, thus a feeling,
Takes one there, where one's never been, thus a fantasy.
Shall I say, gravy-esque of the both & more.

Listen,
If you'd never dare;
There's no way to tell, how'd fare.
Twenty-four carat in love is indeed rare;
Let the 'one' show you, how he'd care.

In between the hesitation, apprehension & your fear;
Do not forget, destination is near.
Spread thy wings and fly; forget your fear,
Then thou shall see, a picture so clear.

Lu ta, hope this helps. Hehe.
IndisGuise:)

I have hurt my wings so I cant fly,
In fear and mistrust now I lie.
Do you really think there is a 'one' for me,
Who would love and care unconditionally?

InDisguise ji, do u really believe,
That in a world so selfish love really exists?
What people say is love... is pure selfishness
All they want is thier own existance.

People might care for each other,
But in the end its "me" that really matters.
A feeling, a fantasy.. whatever it might be,
There is no thing as loving 'unconditionally'..

So even if I dare to fly like the pure and white dove,
I am sure I will never find real and true love!!

haha...is this thread about "how to flirt" or is it about " how to treat ur beloved one"?

As far as i know, flirting is done just to have a good time for a while with one-another .Feelings ends with the conclusion of conversation.Flirting is done with a approach of familiar smile and a tricky greetings. conversation should be dragged forward with gentle words with humors.Remember!!!when u flirt , u sud make awear to ur partner that u r not intimately envolved.Flirting is a art which can't be learned at once, u need patience & time to mater it.

to mater it = to master it**

Sahina wrote:
"Flirting is a art which can't be learned at once, u need patience & time to master it."
You wrote as if you already mastered it....and if it so can you tell me the degree of patience and amount of time needed??? if not then that statement is funny...he he he

hey Ardent,

Am i mastered in flirting or not,well let it be judged by pplz...i won't even bother to ans it.For ur curiocity of"the degree of patience and amount of time needed" wht would i like to say is its totally dependent on how confident u r on ur delivering capacity and how far u are good in communicating matters.To be a good flirt one very essential thing is that u must possess a very-very-very good convincing power and good body attitude.eheh...there are lots more tips which are needed to master in it...ehe...those above mentioned are just the tailor of flirting-tips,lol

Hya ta flirt garne lesson chaldai recha. Sahina jeeeeee, hajur le ta yeuta "School for flirts" bhanera chalaunu bho bhanera nai po raamro hola jasto cha ta hau. Paisa pani aaune , kaam pani paaune. damn it looks like a god damn good idea. Need some help lemme know, Me very fast learner. wanna try, I am open (wink). Looks like I need to get in touch with ya.


re kya

oi rose..sorry yaar ma pani alikiti busy with the
weenkends..(football..u understand dun u ;oP..)late reply..and well was
trying not to write here..cos u dun seem to stop and im trying to stop
hehe..someone has to stop hoina ;o)..why dun u be a nice phul and do it
;oP..

anyways hehe...dimag kharab re?so u mean to say u have dimag?thats wat
ur tryin to tell me?dhat of cos i know that..u think i bother replyin to
ppl wit no dimag ;o)....but i guess it doesnt take dimag to reply to
me.does it?hehe...bordeom? ;oP...

(im writing in more paragrahs..impressed?not that im tryin to ;oP but if
u r..think this way..Monks can be impressing how about his
bro...;o)..Ardent ;o)...)and i talk for nothing re?hehe..if i started
talking/typing for smthing and started makin u pay...hehe u be broke too
fast...wanna me to start charging?;oP...of cos ma kaha wanna break u ;o)...

ani dead re?hehe if ur now dead...dyam alikiti alive hunda ta jhan kasto
hola?;o)...offer ta hareeb tempting cha hai..lucky i got good self
control nabha ta..thorns ko lai..jhandai mero bhai Ardent lai pani
sarcrifice deko ;oP....may gawd help the other more humans ;oP...

ani color ta..hehe so u giving me permission to imagine u?err ur
color?should i dare?without gettn a real reconfirmation..if im ever
gonna get one ;oP..ani timro eyes kai kasari sodney?i thot ppl get
drowned in eyes...do they tell?they just show hoina ;o)..or malai booby
trap rakhey ko?ironies.. it aint bobby yet its called booby trap
;oP...malai go and check out ur eyes bhaneyra ..drown garney bichar
ho?dyam...sajhaites..if anything happens to me..u know who is to be
blamed ;o)..esp if i drown..touch wood..dyam hehe..i do try to go to the
beach every weekend :o)..so dyam now im freaking meself out wahahaha...

herum la when or if i will ever dare to try and see ur eyes and see wat
it shows me :o)..im too curious hehe...but for now bhai where are
u!!!dun worry about drowning ma chu ni!!;o)...and hehe if i did dare to
take a peek and those eyes showed me smthings..do u think i would tell
u?ma ta maha lobi ni ;o)..

ani shame maney kay ho?u gettn shy on me ho?ho bhaney ramro..if not i
think u would wanna show me the way to hell hoina ;o)...dun piss off ur
thorns re?hehe can i?i thot the most i could do is ..piss at ur thorns
wahahaha.(pls refrain urself from imagining how i would do that..not too
nice a scene ;oP)and if i do try to piss at ur thorns :o)..its cos
..well i wanna u to grow more ni ...taller and higher..for other hands
to reach..fetilizer ni ;o)..natural ;o)...but for now..i think Ardent
bhai..dun u feel like u wanna pee?;oP

and me snore?hmmm...how should i know...can one hear oneself snore when
sleeping?well do u wanna find out if i snored?one way to find out
;o)...and hehe if u did find out...that i do..pls do tell me..i snore
the best snore :o)...guys too need to be complimented ni..for thier
weirdest things..but oops why am i tellin u..im more than sure..if will
be complimenting someone next time when u hear his snores...aint i
right?;o)...

and i dunno wat im best at..but hehe i think u more than know now...im
good in smthing that well no one should be hehe...well i like to think
im better in other things too..esp things that really
mattered..:o)....but have yet to convince meself..hope one day i
will..herum if that day will ever come...guess i will try to wait
:o)...for as long as i can :o)..

ani sir pana bhanca..yaar pani ...Monks nick chai kaha bata ayo?me
curious hehe..and urghh isnt it a tad bit too early to be giving me nick?;oP

anyways im sure u are right now..lying down and having some good dreams
:o)..u better be!!!then u wont reply now wahahahah...;oP....anyways
think this was a long one..i thot it was short..there were other things
i wanted to say but hehe thot otherwise ;o)...toom uch attn aint good ni
;oP...unless its the right kinda attn heeh..


indi bro and rythm..wah wah..ke ke lehchaan ho...i didnt wanna type here
me bhakwash alikiti reply waiting gareyko cha hola bhaneyra deko..i do
try to please ni ;oP...anyways heeh khoi next ?indi bro ko turn?work ma
busy ki? answer khallash bhoyo?;oP

rythm ..real and true love re?hehe dhat when was love true or real..wake up!!!jago rythm..jago!!!;oP...now aint u inspired to wake up?after such inspiring wake up calls?;oP

and ardent bhai!!dyam now u...ur going off!!!i thot u were gardener?well who wanna take care of a rose ;o)...kaha goyeko?;oP kya easily distracted nahuwa!!rose lai tanna tender care and attn chahincha ni ;o)

Sahina errrr....i think i know u...(old pick up line ho..herum work huncha ki hunna ;oP..) ...dun u think so?;o) hehe how u been doing ?hope good :o)..

anyways saab haru..ma ta goye song tyupe garnu...

goodday...:o)


danny

anyways im sure u are right now..lying down and having some good dreams
:o)..u better be!!!then u wont reply now wahahahah...;oP....anyways
think this was a long one..i thot it was short..there were other things
i wanted to say but hehe thot otherwise ;o)...toom uch attn aint good ni
;oP...unless its the right kinda attn heeh..
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Hare feri lamo......kati lekhnya sakya u le. :) Ke bhanni bhanni tired ma...well its Monday what do you expect. ;))

hehe tell me smthing i dunno!!!!!GRRRRRR!!! i was trying to make it short!!and it was short ho!!!for me ;o) hehe..nabha ta...dyam..;oP

morn ma ke ho?sajha ma daarshaan nagari bina ...day hunna?ma pani one time ma testai thiye ;o)..alik dunno why sajha ko pheri bimari ayo...but i think i be fine :o)....this time hehe...anyways shoo off!!let me finish the song ho!!!dun reply!!GRRRR!!!alik geet sundai type garnu maan laagcha ke..:o)..and hehe nepali ta time laagcha type garnu hehe....

u wanna type the "just another manic monday...:" by bangles for me?just remembered the song :o)...well at least i tried to give u smthing to do..than to reply to me ;oP..
ardent bhai!!BACHAWO MALAI!!DAI LAI HELP CHAYO!!!!;o( ...;oP


laters!!!!

danny

me finish the song ho!!!dun reply!!GRRRR!!!alik geet sundai type garnu maan laagcha ke..:o morn ma ke ho?sajha ma daarshaan nagari bina ...day hunna?
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Chup...go and do what you got to ...kati kich kich garna sakya keta bhayera...keti jhai bolya cha bolya cha. lol. FYKI i already gave a lecture and am preparing for my next duhhhhhh. And yea i used to sing that song when i was still a baby.

oi malai ke re!!esto thulo compliment..keti jastai bolya cha re?dyam..u think so highly of me?or ke ho?too lowly of ur own gender?;oP hehe we know wat u think hoina ;o)...lecture malai re?so u plan to make me go to sleep ho?lectures always make me go to sleep..dyam the secret it out!!!hyaaa...i dun wanna fall alseep now..got hw to do ke!!no lecture now pls :o(...;oP..

hows the preparation goin?preparation ...hmmm will it be of help to u?;oP...and u used to sing that when u were baby re?most prob u were a baby when they released that song wahaha ;oP...and guess someone told u to keep ur talents hidden...no wonder u "used" to sing as a baby..no more hoina?;oP..wahahahaha


dyam!!!anyways dunno wat to do now..i think i go check me timetable now..and see if i got a lecture coming wahahaha...:o)

and song ramro thiho hoina?;o)..say yes!!!kya took me some time!!:@:@:@
hehe

Ewwwwwwww...u got a brilliant idea HARKEDAI...ur idea just enlighten me but Afsoss , where were u b4 3-4 yrs re kya ,lol ...ehe..now its lil hard for me to think about this job kya...ehe

And this name Dananah sounds familiar to me too.is it co-incident or we both know each-other?ehehe...A big quz,most probably " Question of The day"...ehe.i doing fine Mr...ops!again calling u Mr. and making u feel like matured man...ehe...kya kare adaat see majbur hein ham,lol another hard job for u as i m writing in hindi...Wink**wink**.BTW how r u and howz life there?After a long time hai?

hey matrix rose jeeeeeee, i did pop in the forum for u. re kya. lol ehehehehehehehe

Sahina jeeeeee, kina ra hajur 3-4 barsa le dhila bhako pani dhila bhako ho ra. tyo pani kamai garna lai kahile pani dhila hunna. Ki hajur le arkai artha laaunu bho. Ma sanga chai flirt nagarnus hai, malai flirt garna aaudaina kya. K garne saanu ma baa aama le, babu aru sanga jhut bolnu hunna, aru ko ijjat garnu parcha bhanera sikaye. Tellai ta gatho paarera jantar banayera rakheko chu prabhu, k garne aadat se majboor hai. Aba hajur ra business partner banne bhaye chai i am open hai. Only for business. don't worry it won't go to ur bf. saanu ma baa aama le aru ko kura laauna hunna pani bhanera sikaka thiye ni ta.


Hajur ko uttar ko pratikchya ma.

lol,harkedai malai jeee banne ko?ehe...k garne mero ali jee bhane ko sunne bani chaina kya.ma ali informal nai chha hai tesai le ma chahi timi bhane ra kura garchhu la?

seems like u r mistaken flirt as fraud!
well,flirting is healthy<>ehe...doctor do tell it re kyaaaaa,lol

oh! r u offering me some business?ehe...i will accept it under only one condition...tell me the structure of our organisation.if ur organisational layout appeals to me then i will think about your's offer re kyaaa,lol

BTW, mero parents ra timro parents ko sidhantha(principle) ta kasto auttai rahey chha.they too taught me to be a honest and a faithfull person.eheh...may be its cuz our parents are nepalis their thot are tallied hola hai?

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To Rythm's earlier post.

Better late than never. :)

Wings that are hurt would heal with time;
To fear & mistrust -- say Good-bye.

Just like,
For every stars made in heaven;
In all probability ten out of eleven,
Heaven has chosen, one for all;
The 'one' who'd hold, when you'd fall.

Yes, at the end, it's 'me' that matters;
Open thy eyes, its 'you & ME'
How wonderful it is to be;
When 'Me' suffices for the 'We'.

Remember;
Never say never, or,
You'll punish yourself forever.
For all you sermons negating unconditional love;
Discard "Even If", and just fly,
You might just find, if you'd only try.
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Danaha bro, yeah work ma busy... It's about tyam i shall take a sabbatical from sajha. I am behind my schedule. @ I'm gonna be in trouble :(.

Anyways, Fata faat lekhda artha ko anartha niklela feri. Rythm ;) le bujcha ni kura.

In jest,
IndisGuise:)

sahina jeeeeeee, aba business ko kura ta kaha forum ma garnu ni, don't worry u will get enough of authority and responsibility to keep u happy. Hajur lai head of department banaula ni hunna ra.
Huna ta ma pani informal nai chu personally, tara ahile ko laagi ma chai formal nai huda ramro hola, hoina ra.
Business ko kura chai personally nai garula, huncha ni hai ?


Keep in touch for business

hey harkedai...katti offer malai? two offers -business offer & authority offer-in this short duration?...umm..well i dun posses such capability to carry out high-authority ,not yet...ehe...will be soon in future but not currently. if u wanna hand over it to me then i m not gonna disappoint u either ...how about u bear that responsibility now and i will accept it when i will be fully qualitied for it.

To be a good flirt one very essential thing is that u must possess a very-very-very good convincing power and good body attitude.eheh...there are lots more tips which are needed to master in it...ehe...those above mentioned are just the tailor of flirting-tips
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Sahina jee, hajur le nai e mathi ullekhit kura haru bhaneko bhayera po maile offer rakheko. Natra ta malai kehi pani aaudaina ni flirting ko barema. I am totally dumb in flirting. I was completely depending on u. Well think again and reply laterz.

its either you do or you don't..new yorkers know this best.....sweetheart..dahlin..after every word you speak.........
walk in a room full of people..see if you catch someone in your eye..if you do..keep staring even when she/he stares at you...walk around and stand next to the person and say hey i caught you staring at me...hehehe there you go start a conversation..

when the conversation rolls out..then use your touch..maybe fiddle with her hair/or his tie...hold hands..see it really..

don't give no info or name/address unless you wanna end up with nothin..ask if you're attending any other party..and continue...show her/him the place...blah blah blah..........but don't press further..

art of flirting can elead you to a beautiful romance..what is world without love??

for further ques::

Ask Venus the luv goddess herself...

and i'm your cupid...SUSHHHHHHHHHHH