O.K, It's Valentines' day. So?

No I do not have anything against the spirit of the DAY, one day (week would be better), where we set aside the time for our (that) ONE person, and neither do I oppose anything that's remotely fun. At this mechanical age, of course we need to tune ourselves to remind us that there is more to life. And life's joy is better when shared especially with .. well THE ONE.

No I do not have any dark memories, any poignant tales, or a scar that opens up every valentines'. In fact, few of them have been exceptionally memorable, an odyssey if you will. But, as I try to look back to the years, I remember Valentine's was hardly a "circus" that it is now. It was truly a 'thing' between two people. It's another thing that if I go further back, we had not even heard of anything called Valentines' day :).

We hear so much about Valentines' day. 'Any plans?' "What are you getting for HER/Him?" And the next day, "so how was it?" We went to this place and it was blah blah blah...give me a break. I overheard one of my very beautiful female colleague ;), asking another (guy), "aren't you off today? He went, "Why? Why should I be?..What?" :). Then there were (quite) gushing between two colleagues. Apparently one had got something related to the family of diamond or its siblings. And yes, they were FEMALE(s). And no, they were not loud. (As if). Those awwwwwwwwww's and o0o0o0oo's. Darn. I gave them the most radiant smile I had :).

As I rushed to work this morning, worried, frustrated for being late (I left her a message) for the 'touch base' meeting with my boss, guess what did I learn after coming to work. SHE is not feeling well :), & most probably she would be off today. Hehehe. A valentine fever perhaps. And there I was, worried that I am late for our so (un)important meeting.

Valentines' day is nothing more than a commercialization & is one of the foster children of the capitalist world. It is overstated, over blown and nothing more than mere hype by the commercial industry, to extract every last penny they can, from our hard earned money. And we are like that fish in the abyss, where we can only escape for so long & we all shall be 'caught', eventually. After all, the spaces are scarce, if at all.

Would someone please tell me if this day actually help sustain the life of a relationship, or does it in any way makes (already) beautiful relationship more bewitching, or for that matter, mend the relationships already on the rocks? No, really?

Isn't today's relationships more like, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" kind? The hype for this DAY is anything but, grotesque at best.

Like one Spanish philosopher said, "We fall in love when our imagination projects nonexistent perfection upon another person. One day, the fantasy evaporates and with it, love dies." Or does it? I leave that for you to decide. But it makes one think for a while. Doesn't it?

Frankly, I do not see any reason for this day to be hyped about. It's nothing more than propaganda. Sooner we realize that, better it is. Needless to say that if there are any winners, or for that matter anyone who actually benefits from this great day, are those who has commercial interest in it. But then again, who doesn't? After all there are 'sales' almost everywhere. ;). There in lies an irony:).

And with it Valentines' day is here to stay.

Happy Valentines' Day. :)

IndisGuise:)

P.S: It doesn't reflect the view of the writer :), and neither does it imply that writer resents the 'subject'. It was mere avalanche of random thoughts in oblivion.

Hareyyyyyyyyyyy, I meant our own Khandala ;)
Jaanam samja karo :)

Am honored that you read it. Agreed its long, but well. as long as you can manage. :)

"sorry behe bhayeko manche le kalo lagaundaina re kyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa hahhaha:P apsagun huncha ree:P "
--> (((((((((((((((((Dhyaaan teraaaaaaaannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn))))))))))))))))))))
Maile " thumbs up.. I want my thunderrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr" bhaneko

Timile, " Joor ka jhatkaaa, dhire se lageeeee, Mirinda" po diyechau?

Yedi tyo sacho ho bhane, I would rather go on hearing your lies than going on living without you. RE kya ;)...

Yedi biha nai bhayeko bhaye 'seto' luga lagai deu, sagun huncha :p
(If indeed ur, then i take it back. Am strictly speaking in the boundry of our shared Phun.)

Anyways, Ruina, aja ta kamse kaam yesto je payo tyai nabhana. Mood nai OFF hune:P

In jest,
IndisGuise.

indii :O)
hehe.....
its funny!!

laaa naa ta bhandina nii taa reeee kya;O)
tum paas ayee yun muskuraaaaaaaaaayeeee tummmmmm neeee najaneee kyaaaaaaa kyaaa sapaaanee ddeeeekhayeeee.ab too meeraa dil jage naa sotee hain kyaa karun haiiiii kuch kuch hota hai:P

bye:O)
ps. happy valentine day indi(personally wish gareko re kya;O) )

Ahhhhhhhhhh.. balla sass ma sass ayooo
Agi dekhi kureko:P

Kuch kuch hota hein.... LOL
hum dil de C S
ke ho ke... Ruina.. yeh ILU ILU kya hein yeh ILU .. hehehhehe

Happy Valentines' day ruina:P
(Personally ;) )

Aiight me out...
Take care
IndisguisE:)

Ahhhhhhhhhh.. balla sass ma sass ayooo
Agi dekhi kureko:P

Kuch kuch hota hein.... LOL
hum dil de C S
ke ho ke... Ruina.. yeh ILU ILU kya hein yeh ILU .. hehehhehe

Happy Valentines' day ruina:P
(Personally ;) )

Aiight me out...
Take care
IndisguisE:)

In Disguise ji,

hehehe.. u do have a point in the 364 tara dun u think its more romantic to have a day that is dedicated to the couple and they know that this one day they dun havta care abt any other ppl..

and u know.. aroo 364 days ta kaam, padai, and other day-to -day problems mai janchha... tara 1 day ta ek jaana ko lagi seperate garera afno 24 hrs. tyo manchhey lai dedicate garyo bahnney it will make both of 'em feel special.. ki kaso??!!

Kura ta thikai ho.

"and u know.. aroo 364 days ta kaam, padai, and other day-to -day problems mai janchha..."

--------> Today was anything but different than the 364 D:)

"tyo manchhey lai dedicate garyo bahnney it will make both of 'em feel special.. "

---> Could've, should've, would've bhaneko jastai kura bhayena ra yo ta? Khasai ta hunna jasto cha. Khali kura ko kura ho yo.

Hoki ke ho? ;-)

Ruina am michin ur kissimissy ;-). hehehhe.. ne a good gurl and give it to meh baby aha aha :p

In jest,
Indisguise:)

HAPPY VALENTINE DAY TO THE MOST HAPPENING COUPLE IN SAJHALAND!


RUINA & INDISGUISE

and PQN1,rythm,girly,how_bizz,swati & Matrix etc and all :)

sabai chexxy haru ko naam leko ni... bulchuk len den maaf pau;-)

IndisGuise:)
NOTE: PQN1 in the list considering PQN1's latest claim of being a girl. HEHE.

"PQN1 in the list considering PQN1's latest claim of being a girl"

If you insist that I am not a female, then what can I say. I cannot assert my sex. I am an impotent. (OOOOOOOOOOOOOO SUKA SUKA ) COL (Crying Out Loud)

My dear IndisGuise ji,

No matter what I say u are going to make a different sense out of it.. what I was trying to say was..... SABAI couples le SPECIALLY valentines day ma ek arka ko lahi time nikalyo bhanney wudnt it be GOOD???? hajurko k bichar chha pani suni halum na

YOurs.......Rythm

Totally agree with IndisGuise... just my opinion, nothing more than that.. it's the same for me, with or without my valentine!

anyways.. for those who are celebrating, enjoy

aaj ek din nakkal pardina,
Nakkali_kanchhi

Sorry PQN1, Mah Bad.
But I must tell you that often you talk like a guy and at times like a gurl. aba je sukai bhaye pani, ramailai chau. :)
Yeuta comment la :)
To be or not to be is the question here. Ho ki ke ho?;)
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My dear Rythm ji :p
Aba My dear ra yours bhani halnu bhayo... mutu ma halchal bhayera barbaad;). Balla balla samhale:).
Yep, it would be nice. Yep it would be great if all the couples in fact does that.
See I did not take it in different sense. I actually agreed with you :p. Perhaps the kind words you chose melt my rigidness. hehe.

Having said that, if the couples have to work/wait for valentines' day to be together, in my humble opinion that relationship ain't worth it, in many cases. Would it not be nice if they would take time for eachother the rest of the year as well. Hell they don't even have to be together, if they have that bondage and understanding, it would not take this stupid but useful day to remind eachother that they ACTUALLY are a couple.
Neverthelss, I agree & understand with your prespective too. ;)
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Thanks Nakkali for readin that longgggg post. :)
Is it 'with or without ' your valentine. Pick one.
And beside, you should do nakkal in valentines' day. Guys lop tat.

Aliiii aliii haar hooo aliii alii jeeeeeeeet kuni ke kuni ke kuni ke kekekek keke
Katti suteko ruina timi, jha bihana bed tea lyaideko.. but I can understand. It was a long nite ni hijo :P, suts suta ;)
Indisguise:)

Maile yehan Indi ko kura aali bujhena...in your oipnion u said:
>>>>Having said that, if the couples have to work/wait for valentines' day to be together, in my humble opinion that relationship ain't worth it, in many cases. Would it not be nice if they would take time for eachother the rest of the year as well. Hell they don't even have to be together, if they have that bondage and understanding, it would not take this stupid but useful day to remind eachother that they ACTUALLY are a couple. <<<<

aani again u say that u agree with Rhythm ji...K ho K ho maile ta kurai bujhena..:-S...maile kura nabujheko ki tmile rhythm lai sight haaneko ho..chuutaauna nai sakena...k ho double sight dine...J bahye ni aali confussing laagyo yaar tmro view...aali conflicting..

Nirman..

"aani again u say that u agree with Rhythm ji...K ho K ho maile ta kurai bujhena..:-S...maile kura nabujheko ki tmile rhythm lai sight haaneko ho..chuutaauna nai sakena...k ho double sight dine...J bahye ni aali confussing laagyo yaar tmro view...aali conflicting.. "

---> Timile kura nabuje kai ho Nirman :). tyasai tyasai sight/side haneko bhanera Ruina lai bhadkauna nakhojana hehe:). But it's aiight. My tweet Ruina knows its not that. Afta all malai dedo bhani sakyo usle. Duniya le maile arulai side haneko bhane pani mero nazar ta uii mathi cha bhanera uslai tha cha. My eyes decieve people perspective.

Regarding my view and rythm's. It is simple. Let me explain.

Rythm said would it not be nice if a couple can dedicate this one day for eachother and make our loved one feel special. And I agreed. And ADDED, why just wait for this one day. What about rest of the 364 days. Would not be even better if they do that every day or other days as well. Or should they not make an effort other days of the year. Why wait for this one day.

In brief, what I was trying to say is, Love is not an obligation. It's a promise for each and every day, to make eachother feel special, care, protect, guide, listen and sometimes let him/her know when to stop. And also to tell, " you are wrong" when s/he is. EVERYDAY. EVERYDAY. EVERYDAY.

bhanne chai mero bhanai ho :).

Hahaha now i look like love guru.. darn, reminds me of something like, jasko afno ghar ma ago lagecha tyasle arulai fire safety ma lecture. ( Doesn;t apply to me though :p)
Again conflicting/confusing?

Somber
IndisGuise:)

Wah WAH Wah...aabo ma clear bhayen...aani malai dherai uuchit laagyo tmro kura..gahiro kura garchha indi le gaanthe...kahan kaahn baata aunachha kunni kura pani..;-P .tara j bahye ni tmile rhythm lai sight side j bhaye ni haaneko chahin ho hai...;-)..dedho ho ki sidha aankha thaha chhaina tara side chahin hanekai ho...:-P..heheheeheh
Ur writings rock yaar...tyo chahin man nai parchha...(((((Taaliiiiiiiiiiiiiii))))

Katti suteko ruina timi, jha bihana bed tea lyaideko.. but I can understand. It was a long nite ni hijo :P, suts suta ;)
Indisguise:) ..........>
i was praying with god for u:P
ahile ho biahana nai utheko ma..
starbismus ko bahana banayeraa ko ko lai herchau anii k garnu ram banaunu khojeyo uhiii krishna bannu khojechau dyaamm my man!!!:(


well indi
maile hijo timro posting padeko thiye ani kehi comment pani lekheko thiye well sayaad tyahi comment le garera hola u said i didn't study ur posting:)
there is one paragraph where u say something:-------
Frankly, I do not see any reason for this day to be hyped about. It's nothing more than propaganda. Sooner we realize that, better it is. Needless to say that if there are any winners, or for that matter anyone who actually benefits from this great day, are those who has commercial interest in it. But then again, who doesn't? After all there are 'sales' almost everywhere. ;). There in lies an irony:).
well i guess there is good reason to highlight valentines day!specially for loved one..
as i mentioned earlier...its day for ur loved one ...day dedicated to someone special..

aba sabai jana ta lucky hundaina nii valentine afu sanghai bhayeko ?sabai jana ko valentine pani huncha bhanee ta sure hundiana nii...................specially applies to teenager.it means lot to them sayaad they believe on love/infatuation/crush whatever.
so euta bahana ho sweet bahana where one can stop to say i waited all this day to propose u coz u are special to meh!whereas someone stop by to say i miss u soo much coz its valentine day.................reason to stop by just to say someone means lot!

just to add bit sweetness in life,bahana nai sahii;)brings smile on someones face...

hmm aba jaha samma timro/hamro life ko kura cha ...we are soo sweet :Pwe dont need any extra !!
soo rythm is ryt and lemme say again couldn't agree more with u:)coz u are also ryt
u are using brain ...rythm is using heart may be;)

But it's really sad when your friends are hanging out with their boyfriends and you're alone (i've been there). However, I would love my sweetheart to be with me on this special day. Maybe girls are girls, Ruina. I feel the same way.
And about commercialising this day, isn't every occasion? like a car sale on President's day?

So how many of you guys like to go for "one night stand" ? Isnt it worth experimenting for a while?

In some way I agree with Ruina..at least in context of country like nepal..teenager have somemoral boost to express their unexpressed love this day...but for someone already in lop...does that apply ruina???
aani aarko kura ma chahin..if u r truely in love..u miss him/her evryday ni..every oment ni hoina ra..U fell him/her next to urself only not to find her/him, and u search for him/her hoina ra????
Well k bhanen aaru...
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ANnii Janavi...Mero prasna ko uttar khoi ta...malai Brother banayera aafu chahin kahan kahan..malai tmile kahile bro banayeko>>????:-S..ma ta confused...hope u answer soon...
UUDAAAYO SAPANA SABAI HUURI LE...
V'DAY KO DIN BROTHER BANAIDIYO MALAI KASAILE...........
kWAA KWAA KWAA.....HEHEHEHEHEHE
IN jest,
Nirman

janavi
but it's really sad when your friends are hanging out with their boyfriends and you're alone (i've been there). However, I would love my sweetheart to be with me on this special day. Maybe girls are girls, Ruina. I feel the same way.
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i know it hurts janavi!well i wont say i understand that pain coz i dont know that pain...but i am sure it hurts.....
why girls are girls???janavi....be strong dont let anyone make u cry be strong!!
noone deserves ur pain one who deserves deosn't make me cry!!
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i n some way I agree with Ruina..at least in context of country like nepal..teenager have somemoral boost to express their unexpressed love this day...but for someone already in lop...does that apply ruina???



well nirman .......that depends !! ...
aani aarko kura ma chahin..if u r truely in love..u miss him/her evryday ni..every oment ni hoina ra..U fell him/her next to urself only not to find her/him, and u search for him/her hoina ra????
Well k bhanen aaru...
yes absolutely ryt.... if u are in truely love ya u miss him/her everyday /every moment.....u feel him/her next to u...bet lemme remix something here
u truely love someone,u find him/her next to u thn why not be cherish and celebrate that special feeling and dedicate it on some special day......non other than hmmmmmm valentine day!!!

aba jaha samam dekhawatii etc etc ko kura chaa aba tyo ta mero bhannu kehi chaina.....aba mero bichar ma chai dashain .tihar,christmas manaunu huncha bhanee ek din afnu love ones ko lagi manaunu kina hunna????????
as janavi already mentioned abt commercialisation....>
about commercialising this day, isn't every occasion? like a car sale on President's day?


ruina.