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LifeisaHighway
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Posted on 12-27-09 10:04
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MY COUSIN RECENTLY TOLD ME SHE LOVES ME AND SHE WANTS TO MARRY ME AND BE WITH ME. I HAVE BEEN DYING TO HEAR THAT WORD FOR THE LAST FEW YEARS. . we both been here in US for like 2 years now and we live together. I ALWAYS LIKED HER AND I HAD A PREETY GOOD SENSE THAT SHE LIKES ME TOO. BUT THE PROBLEM HERE IS THAT I WANT TO LET OUR FAMILY KNOW ABOUT OUR RELATION BUT SHE DOESNOT WANNA DO THAT. HELP ME GUYS.I DONT WANT TO LEAVE HER AND I KNOW SHE DOESNOT WANT TO DO THAT EITHER.
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Just Sayin
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Posted on 12-27-09 5:41
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Just FYI... White = does not allow cousin marriages Blue = allows cousin marriages Magenta = allows cousin marriages with exceptions  (Taken from http://www.enotalone.com/forum/showthread.php?t=139724)
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rationale
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Posted on 12-27-09 7:17
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Convert into Muslim. you can marry her other three sisters along with her.
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Sexy In Sari
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Posted on 12-27-09 7:20
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If I were your family members, I would tell her to LOCK UP her Pus and move out. OR you need to cut your Cucumber. But I am a Sajha user and since you have already enjoyed Whole 2 years I think its your responsibilities to tell your family. BUT I HOPE YOU GUYS HAVEN'T DONE BHAI TIKA BACK HOME..SOMETIMES COUSINS DO THAT TOO..otherwise it will be YAKEEE..
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Cartmann
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Posted on 12-27-09 7:53
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I heard Chhetri people can marry their cousin...if you are chhetri then your parents would be happy to hear bout it.. But i am not sure since i haven't seen any people marrying their cousins...
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santoshgiri
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Posted on 12-27-09 8:08
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STOP
This is INCEST, a crime, under Nepal's marriage law.
- SEXUAL ACTIVITY BETWEEN CLOSE RELATIVES IS A CRIME IN NEPAL
- IRRESPECTIVE OF THEIR AGE OR CONSENT
Civil Code of Nepal 1963, Chapter of Insect defines it as a heinous crime:
Incest has been defined as
- a crime involving sexual intercourse between persons who are relatives within seven generations. Incest is strictly prohibited in Nepal.
- Marriage within the incest relation except under the customary practice is void. The punishment varies according to the distance of relation between the people involved in incest.
Incest within the following relation is punished as follows:- Having sexual intercourse with mother is punishable with life imprisonment.
- The crime of having sexual intercourse with sister of the same parents or with daughter is punishable with 10 years imprisonment.
- The crime of having sexual intercourse with women in the relation of father's ancestral lineage is punishable with six years imprisonment.
- The crime of sexual intercourse with other women of relation within seven generations of father or mother's ancestral lineage, other than those mentioned above is punishable with an imprisonment of two years.
Incest law can be invoked only when there is intercourse between two people,however mostly, in this kind of offenses it is women who get victimized by the law and society.When a girl filed a case of incest against her uncle, the Supreme Court defined that the Country Code,1963 had repeatedly made a mistake of not including an uncle’s daughter's daughter under the definition of incest. In this situation they could not define the law which had been mistakenly enacted. The law, which was enacted 20 years before and has been amended from time to time, is the basis of the rule of law.Hence, any person outside such criteria is not justifiably considered as an offender. See FWLD report.
- Nepali Citizens
- People in Nepal's Jurisdiction (geographical boundary)
Legal Age to Marry:- Nepal Marriage Act also defines the legal age of marriage with parental
consent as 18 years for boys and 16 years for girls.
- Without parental
consent, these ages are 21 years for boys and 18 years for girls
Minimum age for sexual activity-
The sexual activity under the age of 16 is considered as rape.
Also read, INCEST : http://www.digitalhimalaya.com/projectteam/turin/downloads/incest.pdf
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dekchidriver
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Posted on 12-27-09 8:31
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</u>dude... if shes ur 1st cuz.. meaning u both have same granddad.. it sucks not only from an ethical or moral perspective, but biologically your kids are going to be weak and possibly suffer from rare diseases (have u watched the movie 'Wrong turn'? its not about incest, but i think some of the 'ghosts' are actually inbred offsprings.. i cud be wrong..)
if shes ur 2nd cuz or lower.. i dunno man.. ethically and morally, itd still be wrong in nepal.. if u guys are just in it for the sex.. just think about later in life the possibility of lunching with her husband or her having to go shopping with your wife..
Look before you leap :P
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Ved555
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Posted on 12-27-09 8:51
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Canyou cut off your dick? then will she still love you the same way? I have to ask you this coz she cannot cut off her genitalia.. haha
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raju161
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Posted on 12-27-09 8:57
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आगो ताप्नु मुढोको कुरो सुन्नु बुढो को। - budobaje, you are right
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fusre jogi
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Posted on 12-27-09 9:04
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if you get married to your cousin, and you bang her and make some babies, you'r kids will have to tell your wife maiju and they will call you mama...
imagine your own kids calling you mama or maiju...... that's f@ed up..... but anyways, it's your life man and it's your call.......
if you are fine with it, go for it.......... love comes above all...
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Ved555
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Posted on 12-27-09 9:27
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mama and maiju... haha that's hilarious...
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Posted on 12-28-09 12:15
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Here is a recent story published on CNN: http://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/meast/12/17/gaza.gender.id/index.html?iref=allsearch "It is astonishing that we have [so] many cases with this defect, which is very rare all over the world," Abudaia says. He attributes the high frequency of this birth defect to "consanguinity," or in-breeding. "If you want to go to the root of the problem, this problem runs in families in the genes." Abudaia says. "They want to get married to cousins... they don't go to another family. This is a problem."
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fusre jogi
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Posted on 12-28-09 12:20
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if you marry your cousin, you go to your sasurali, what will you call your sasu ma ? maiju or muwa ? ani think about this too your kids and you will have the same mamaghar....... our culture is so good , it will make you look like a clown....... so think carefully before you make any decision....
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Posted on 12-28-09 12:46
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Posted on 12-28-09 2:05
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just forget about marrying her
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birajasharma
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Posted on 12-28-09 2:54
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If you ever want to go to Nepal, don't marry her.Run away from her life.But if you can spend your life with her in US without seeing face of your parents and relatives, do as you wish.But never imagine Nepalese society will tolerate your relation.
Moreover about genetic defect in offspring, it is true there is more probability for defect.(may be 1 in 1000 vs 1 in 2000).But look at Muslims many are healthy even after many generation of in family marriage.
If you have gut, say Damn care nepal and nepali and go ahead if not leave her and marry somebody else.She will understand.
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ANS
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Posted on 12-28-09 7:57
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Guys, think clearly.. there is some kind of physical attraction, and that is leading you to this situation.
You guys should split and keep just contact in phone, and slowly everything will be fine. It will be pain initially but time will take care of everything.
Before deciding anything - analyse every thing first. What will be the good and bad consequences of the act? Then only take decision.
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STUPIDA
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Posted on 12-28-09 9:14
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@CartMann................Chettri ppl don't marry cousions......u dumb.......don't write if u don't know it.............little knowledge is very dangeroues...........
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magdadela
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Posted on 12-28-09 9:43
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Man Made society vs. god(nature) made sexuality! Nothing wrong from the point of view of nature! From the point of view of God, I do not know! From the point of view of my soul highness, sorry, I have to tell you,"You could not find another girl in this world???" If it had been my teacher I liked so much, he would have said, "Go get drowned in a cup of boiled water". Actually, "Magdadela, Dadu ma pani tataera dubera mar".
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fusre jogi
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Posted on 12-28-09 11:37
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adam and eve were brothers and sisters in a way.... they were cloned in a way..... adam's ribs were used to create eve.... but their kids were brothers and sisters and they banged each other....... and their cousin banged each other ....... and after generations they had too many choices so they stopped messing up with their cousins.......
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Ganjadi
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Posted on 12-28-09 2:16
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PLEASE : PLEASE : PLEASE (Never ever do such kind of things. Every religion says its not good) You will regret your life afterwards even your child will regret it(The whole generation comming after you and your pitri will regret). You do need to respect your relation as Mother, Father , Brothers, Sisters, Wife, Friends, etc. Please do not try to indulge your relation. And remember one thing: I HAVE SEEN ONE OF THIS CASE IN NEPAL WHILE I WAS A CHILD WHERE ALL THE FAMILY ENDED COMMITTING SUICIDE (FATHER, MOTHER, SMALL BROTHERS AND SISTERS). ONCE YOUR FAMILY IN NEPAL KNOWS IT NOBODY KNOWS WHAT THEY WILL DO, WILL THEY BE ABLE TO BEAR IT?
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