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rabi4
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Posted on 12-02-11 1:29
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http://www.parakhi.com/blogs/2011/12/02/petty-and-unprofessional
Petty and Unprofessional
December 2, 2011 By : saani
There is a long list of reasons why working in Nepal can be difficult, but more than people never being on time and men who cannot stand smart powerful women, what bothers me the most is the complete lack of professionalism.
I’ve worked with and for a number of people, companies, and I’ve yet to find a place that I believe will nurture, encourage, and help me grow. The ‘professional’ realm here ends up being more of a gladiator’s area for egos where the biggest douche-turds survive.
In my own professional life, in the life of my friends and my family we all have those intolerable pompous buffoons whose attitude would have you believe they fart into their mouths and therefore are generally unpleasant to be around.
I cannot understand why employers treat their coworkers like the rest of us are simple minions while they are mightier than Zeus, Hades, and Poseidon combined into one (or Bramha, Vishnu, and Shiva if you will). So, because I would like to help make Nepal more productive I’ve made a short list of things to keep in mind in the workplace:
1) Your teammates aren’t your inferiors
There’s a generally rule about not treating waiters with disrespect because they have the power to spit in your food (and a mighty power it is!), the same logic should be applied to all fields. Don’t treat those you work with like shit. Those in superior positions should understand that they are meant to manage a team… the team isn’t there as your personal cheerleader fan club. We are not here to be your ego boost.
A boss is supposed to guide, not dictate. Being in a position of authority, it is highly recommended that you not mix personal and professional and get hung up on things that are petty. Your team will NOT respect you, trust me.
2) You’re not always right (but I am!)
Bosses would also do well to understand that they err. Being human, we’ll understand when others mess up because we all mess up on occasion, but not willing to admit that you’re sometimes wrong is infuriating and unproductive.
3) Give credit where credit is due
What drives me up the wall here is when you’re not given credit for your work. When a person carries their duties and responsibilities in an admirable fashion I am of the thinking that appreciation is due for a job well done. Instead people with egos the size they believe their cocks are won’t applaud you for the effort, they’ll criticize for the most minor of things, and not even in a way that it’s constructive criticism which would be much appreciated!
When it comes to giving credit, I also believe it comes to giving cash. For the hours of work a person does, the LEAST Nepali employers could do is pay them on time. A superior should be embarrassed for not automatically giving a raise, but when an employer has to constantly ask and follow up – they should be simply shamed.
4) Team work works
Regardless of whether you’re the boss or at the bottom of your office’s hierarchy I think the simple thing we were taught in elementary school still applies – work together. The work place isn’t the right environment to puff your chest and walk around as if you possess powers inaccessible to the rest of us. Those at the so called-bottom need those at the so-called top and vice versa. One end doesn’t complete their work and it’s disaster for all.
I’ve clearly had bad experiences at the places I’ve worked and I’m running out of decent employment options. Maybe it’s not the same for everyone and if you work in Nepal and completely disagree with what I’ve said because where you work is actually professional, please tell me you’re hiring.
Saani has no real goals and aspirations but she sees opportunity in everything and goes with the flow. This is probably because she loves exploring and discovering. She writes for fun but for the same reason she also cooks, reads, and spends a lot of time on random websites that offer a chance to learn all sorts of tid-bits on life.
http://www.parakhi.com/blogs/2011/12/02/petty-and-unprofessional
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Rasika Kancchi
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Posted on 12-02-11 10:07
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Saani,
Do you see how fools rush in where angels fear to tread?
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Rasika Kancchi
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Posted on 12-02-11 10:13
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Saani didi,
It's like different movies are playing in different theatres.
Look at Laurel and Hardy here. These two are classic. They are absolutely adorable.
http://sajha.com/sajha/html/index.cfm?threadid=94254
But I am disappointed. Feel like crying like the little girl that I am. Saani didi, I really wanted to see monkeys. But no one is cooperating. Why don't you ask them to act like monkeys please. Maybe they will listen to you.
I mean, I thought all of us in sajha were like a team. You know, all of us girls in sajha snap our fingers...and all you guys in sajha act like wild untamed primates, baboons and monkeys. Why aren't you guys in sajha cooperating?
Saani didi, why isn't my snapping fingers working? Am I losing my magic touch?
*snap* *snap* *snap*
Snap to it guys!
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behoove_me
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Posted on 12-02-11 10:50
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Posted on 12-02-11 11:42
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@Dear Rasika kanchi
Being a regular visitor of sajha i have never seen any men nt respecting women or demoralizing them. respect is not gimme. if u show respect , u will get in return too.
i beleive all of us respect women coz
1. women is mother who make me whom am i today.
2. women is sister who is my best freind.
3. women is wife who i love to death.
4. women is my daughter whom i share a countless memories that i can live long. and so on n on..
So please stop ur stupidity here. all i see is u ranting about Nepali men this n that. if u hv trouble with some nepali men then just share here in sajha , u will find lots of love,respect for u. if u r happy with american,african.mexican wtsoever men then ths find have a wonderful life and leave this bull crap ranting. we don't leave in 60's era of where women r just a liability wake up see around u women has done wonderful job in every aspect.
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Sexy In Sari
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Posted on 12-02-11 1:08
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@ Nepalimato,
Of course, no matter what, you've to love them unconditionally, these women are your family members.
We're talking ab't..
Those women whenever you have a chance YOU TWIST YOUR NECK TO SEE HER BACK.
Those women who makes lots of Guy friends and YOU START TO TALK NONSENSE ABOUT THEM
Those women who wants to live life differently in Society and YOU DISRESPECT THEM NOT BEING SAME AS YOU
Those women who writes on Sajha about their opinions and YOU RESPONSE THEM THINKING YOU'RE SMART.
So Where is the Respect!
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Posted on 12-02-11 2:25
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Posted on 12-02-11 5:44
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@Sexi in Sari
Really, r u serious. This is like tht nepali saying " Birod ko lagi matra BIrod garya".
1. Those women whenever you have a chance YOU TWIST YOUR NECK TO SEE HER BACK.
Not all men do tht but yes they do and there is nthing wrong with tht. thts is just admiration of beauty. and ladies do the same thing when they see a hot, rich guy.
2.Those women who makes lots of Guy friends and YOU START TO TALK NONSENSE ABOUT THEM
everything has limit. now if u r in a relationship n spend ur time with other guys/gal it is a problem. i think in todays age every guy/gal has friends with good understandin of limits.
3.Those women who wants to live life differently in Society and YOU DISRESPECT THEM NOT BEING SAME AS YOU
live a different life like what lika a prostitute than ofcourse u nt gonna get respect. even a guy who cant live up a life of society standard is nt respected. i beleive there are so many women in this world who has live life differently and has earn respect more than men. So please stop complaining about it.
4.Those women who writes on Sajha about their opinions and YOU RESPONSE THEM THINKING YOU'RE SMART.
See thts the main problem here. writing opinion is different issue than forcing and generalinzing n demoralizing the whole men kind is different. RESPECT PPL U WILL GET RESPECT .
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Rasika Kancchi
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Posted on 12-03-11 6:23
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Behoove me,
Why did it behoove you to not act like a monkey this time around? Are you Nepali men in sajha evolving at a faster rate than the rest of male-kind, you think?
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Mridula
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Posted on 12-03-11 6:32
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Aaaiya-ya, atha-tha, saila-dai!
Rasika Didi, this sajha thread is feeling like a dohari that we village girls used to sing in the evenings around the fire with the men of our village. Ki kaso ho? Mo pani palo ae-pachi gaidiu?
But Didi, these are Americanized men who have long forgotten their Nepali ways, their witty ways and their sense of humour. What would these men know about dohori and having a sense of humour like all those Nepali men did from back in our village?
Ki kaso ho, didi?
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behoove_me
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Posted on 12-03-11 6:59
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Mridula
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Posted on 12-03-11 7:27
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behoove_me ji,
So you are admitting that you don't know anything? After your mother gave birth to you, she didn't explain anything to you? Wow, that explains a lot about you and the way you men in sajha have been acting, actually. My suspicions have been confirmed.
Rasika didi,
Hajur le bhaneko sabai kura thyakka milyo la.
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behoove_me
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Posted on 12-03-11 7:52
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Juggy
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Posted on 12-03-11 8:24
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behoove,
mahila ko bhesh ma purush parlaan. ;o)
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Homeyji
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Posted on 12-03-11 8:27
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Good one Juggy!
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Rasika Kancchi
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Posted on 12-03-11 8:41
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Mridula bahini,
Do you see how evolved our Nepali men are? They know what American men don't know--the power of milk from their mother. What would these whities know about the power of milk? That is why they are constantly working on their tan--because they did not get enough milk in their bodies at a young age.
But, our Nepali men know the power of milk. Milk--it does the body good. Mother's milk does the body even more good.
Good boy, Behoove me. At least your mother gave you something. Unfortunately, whatever she gave you, did not seem to instill any true sense of self-respect and confidence in you. Perhaps your mother's milk lacked some nutrients?
Nepali men. They have so many insecurities, doubts, identity issues. Sigh. Even in their 40's and 50's, they go to their mother and ask her to open her blouse so that these men may lower their mouth on her teats. Kathai......They are still, in their old age, trying to find security in her bossom that they could not find any where else.
The whole world kicks Nepali men around from one place to another. What else can give them a sense of security and a place of belonging than the breasts of their mother? No?
You don't disagree with me, do you Behoove me?
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Keti haru ko paalo sakyo. Aba dohari ma keta haruko palo.
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Juggy
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Posted on 12-03-11 8:48
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bla bla bla n bla again.
add bla here, add bla there and bla bla bla.
and more bla bla bla nepali man suck. bla bla bla
blaa bla bla
there more blaa bla bla bla
add bra here. bla bla blaa
blaa more. I was born in test tube. Even sperm was imported from bideshi. Nepali man is not my father, nor my grand father. bla bla bla
and more bla.
bla bla blaa blaa. :D
Ok now nepali men's turn.
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Rasika Kancchi
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Posted on 12-03-11 8:52
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LOL Juggy. Your point is well taken. Good point. But I am still waiting for Behoove me's response.
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Posted on 12-03-11 9:40
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Mridula
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Posted on 12-03-11 9:53
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Ha-re Rasika Didi,
Maile ta bhane ko nai thiye ni. Eeni haru paa-int ra boot layera hidne sahar ko keta haru le hamro gaunle dohari ke bujh-the ra?
Rasika Didi, hajur barta over-janne bhaera hamro Behoove me dai risairanu bhaeko chha. Aba bhaju le hamilai galli garnu huncha.
Sense of humour bhaneko paanch paisa ko chhaina ho, yo America baseka Nepali keta haruko. Ek dui dollar ko talab ke paeko thiye, aafno Nepali pan sabai guma-e-chhan. Ha-re.
Rasika didi, khoi, hamro Behoove me dai pani 'hai hai' garera nindra aeko acting garna thalnu bhayo. Dohari ta haami keti haru le suru nai nabhaikana jitem jasto chha.
Behoove me Dai, Rakshas Dai, Rethink Dai,
Hamro Jitauri ke ho?
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Posted on 12-03-11 10:06
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म्रिदुला जि,
खै त अहिलेसम्म तपाईंको महिला मोर्चाको एक जना पनि सदस्य आएनन् नि त मेरो घरमा?? म त् झन ढाका टोपी ढल्क्याएर तल्बार कट जुँगा टल्काएर तपाईंको महिला सदस्यको आगमन हुने आशा लिएर कुरेको कुरै छु । तपाईंबाट कतै धोका हुने त होइन? मलाई धोका दिनु भयो भने त साझाका मेरा मित्रहरुलाई सहय् हुने छैन नि फेरी!! यदी कतै धोका भएर साझाका बोकाहरु सबै यहाँ माथि खनिए भने म जवाफदेही हुने छैन नि फेरी !!
पुनश्च: रसिका कान्छी र म्रिदुला जिलाई सानो सुझाव, यदी गन्ध पचाउन सक्नुहुन्न भने बोकाहरुको हूलमा नछिर्नु होला, बोकाहरु ठस्ठस्ती गनाउँछन्
धन्यवाद!
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