Guys...I am in a dilemma about my gf...at the begining when we started our relationship..she was so keen to me and she always used to do some thing to make me realize she is always there for me...
before when i was upset she used to call me everytime just to make me feel she is there but now...she just says how are u feeling???bloody hell what's the meaning...i don't know how to understand these girls...
Do you guys think that she is over me...moreover i havn't meet her from last 10 months...she is in nepal...i call her everyday (bloddy half of my money goes on phone calls...) but still she is not as excited as before...
do u think she is over me or what....
please guys let me come out through this agonizing moments....

Hehehe i know San...but its simply stupid always to keep bitching....by the way na leave it. ;))

I see MatrixGirl makes a lot of sense here.

Blaming others is easy because it givs you an advantage. Winning is not what a relationship is all about, it neither is just giving. It is sharing. If a partner does not want to share, learn why not. If the reason is within your control and seems reasonable to you, adhre to that. If not say, good bye. I know, it is not easy to say good bye but what are you going to do? Saying good bye will hurt once but not saying so and just dwelling on failed relationship will hurt always. Think about it---perhaps neither choice is the best but which one is better?

If you think your partner should honor your love then consider this also :other partner's withdrawl also deserves respect.

aba arko byabastha nabhaye samma lai apna haath jagannath athawa haathi mera saathi dine prabho. Aba ke garne niyati ko khel ma kheladi bhayesi....

If you think your partner should honor your love then consider this also :other partner's withdrawl also deserves respect.

--> Deep ji... arka ko point of view bata pani sochdine prabhu? :p feri .......
" if you keep from thinking from their sides, what are you left with?"

Nothing personal deep bro, khali musukka hasera padeko timro lekhai :P ehehe
But i agree with considering other's point of view.
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Khai mero Matrix girl le ke tactix garera ya sochera lekheko ho bujna sakina maile:p
Vaguely buje buje jasto lagyo:). Anyways, it was clear that damn right bro's ex-girl was cheating and taking advantage of him. As much as communication, understanding and blah blah blah are imp. Sometimes its a plain fact that we must look in to. She acted in indignified way, should have been more upfront and should not have cheated on him with ( at least ur partner deserves a word that u no longer have the same feeling and are considering splitting or taking a break). All she needed to do was COMMUNICATE and let him know its over. She did do that, eventually.

Sometimes it's useless to talk about communication, understanding, learning to forgive, compromise, when other partner is untrustworthy, in other words, simply, BITCH or JERK.

La ta tyati ho... aba ahile nai ali ali bujnu chadisake maile afule lekheko... badi bhayo bhane feri. blah blah blah... :p

IndisGUise:)

P.S: Hi Matrix girl, how u doin tweetie ;) eheheh:)

I thinkt Deep said it preety well.


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Sometimes it's useless to talk about communication, understanding, learning to forgive, compromise, when other partner is untrustworthy, in other words, simply, BITCH or JERK.
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I gotta agree with you here too....but to find out all this a week is enough....best is as soon as you have doubt just let them know done. Awwww life can be so simple if needed. lovely. ;))
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La ta tyati ho... aba ahile nai ali ali bujnu chadisake maile afule lekheko... badi bhayo bhane feri. blah blah blah...
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Nice to know someone thinks of someone while posting hehee.

PS...your tweetie is doing fine....exactly the way you are....if you know what i mean. ;))

"--> Deep ji... arka ko point of view bata pani sochdine prabhu? :p feri .......
" if you keep from thinking from their sides, what are you left with?"

IndisGuise,
if you keep thinking from their sides, you are left with left over. aru ke aba? haina ta prabho?

ke garne sir, duniya duniya bhanthe ke hola bhanthe keta keti ma---ahile herda tyai afnai tolechhimekiko bhogate falne bari chhekya nilkadako jhyang re chha prabho---jaile ni bhogate khana jam bhanyo tyai nilkadale ---you know khattam gardini ni----shirt ta katti chyattya chha---bhogate sogate khana pa haina khali mu** shirtai matrai dhwasta---katti choti ta kalilo aang ma pani daaga dharya chha prabho tyo nilkadale tara bhogateko moha ma jammai birsini---- bhogate ni feri layak ka ke probho----rasila rasila huda hun jasta---

Anyway, all who are going thru heart breaks know this fall from love is so painful that words run short. Consolation is a short term pill, but only moving on with no anger for the love left behind should heal the pain in the long run.

Anyway, all who are going thru heart breaks know this fall from love is so painful that words run short. Consolation is a short term pill, but only moving on with no anger for the love left behind should heal the pain in the long run.

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Very well said.......:)

Someone said; He who wants to do good knocks at the gate....he who loves finds the door open. yum yum.

DIl ka darwazza khullla hein rajaaaaaaaaa:m:m/// ajj raat ki tu chutti leke aajaaa ajaaa @ bhaneko ho Matrix babe :p?

I find the door open too ;)
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Deep,
Afule ni choriyo bhogate ta pachadi ghar ko bari bata :)... yoo kura arkai ho ki aba tyo bari hamro tyo ghar ko simana ma nai parcha ... bhogateko rukh ta kaam cha.. tara prasasta bhogate janmaucha.... aba aru ko chorne palo hola gathe:)..

Last parag. chai ghat lagdo cha deep ko... tara in da begining alik anger, complains etc etc ta bhai halcha ni... aba samaye bitdai jancha.. then anger and complains haraudai jancha... Jathi gayekai ramro bhayo bhanna ni maan lagcha hola :p, Ki kaso?

What goes round , comes around :(

Hazur hazur if you say so must be right hehe by the way spicing is lovely but please consider the chweet heart too....you bhujing right ? LOL.

you said... tara in da begining alik anger, complains etc etc ta bhai halcha ni
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But why....you are the one to choose the person no one forced...so stop bitching...no risk no fun.;)

"Everybody hurts sometime" - R.E.M
"Tujhe yaad na meri aayi kisise aab kya kehena" - Kuch2 Hota Hai
"That's why you go away" - MLTR
"Mera kuch saman tumare paas padha hai.." - Ijajat

These were some of the songs i used to love singing when i was broken hearted...

LOL! Now i can looks back and laugh at those days :o) Trust me TIME is the Best Healer...

Exactly my point How bizzar. And isn;t it fun thinking about those moments.. being broken hearted... ahhhhhhhh those were da days :).. tsk tsk.... :p

I never laugh..neither think anything...i go for vacation for two weeks and im done...nana thats a lie...for mine i needed a whole year....but he deserved it...and im happy now...and am glad that i feeling like wanting someone....well may be such things happened....cause i still had to meet this person...awww lucky me. ;))

"But why....you are the one to choose the person no one forced...so stop bitching...no risk no fun.;) "
-------------> Aba Mercedes bhanera choose gareko ambassdor ( indian car which stops after running every few hundred miles) jastai dhoka dincha bhane... atleast ekchin risauna ni napaune aba????????????/ Ke anartha huncha ta ekchin risayo bhane???
Aba pachi afnai murkhata raicha bhanera.. hasnnuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu taaaaaaaaaaa chadai chaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa:)

IndisGUise:)

Ha ha Indi, yeah those were the days, but i'm not looking forward to it anymore :o). Once is fine (bitter sweet memories), twice is ENOUGH!! (what da F^@k was i thinking?? or was i really thinking??!!?) , Thrice NO Freakin Way ;o)

Aba Mercedes bhanera choose gareko ambassdor ( indian car which stops after running every few hundred miles) jastai dhoka dincha bhane
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May be you did someting....which made her stop. LOL.....sowwy........kidding.....be more caring. :)
chessyyyy.

Hahaha How bizzare... its like,
Once a victim, twice a volunter.. and thrice????? common fawking abuse me, bhaneko jastai ho.. ki kaso? LOL///

Common fawking abuse meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee:)
Mero ta yeh dil mange moreeeeeeeeeeeeeee:)

IndisGUIse:)

You talking about me me saying come and abuseeeeee....u tink datttttttttttttt ? How longggggg dooooooooo uuuuuu knowwwwwwwwwww meeeeeeeeeeee ? kwaaaaaaaaaa

Hahahahahha.... hahahahha excuse me Matrix babe... I know u from eternity, or so i feel.:p

By the way.. did u CLOSE your deemag ko dhakkan? or is it always like this ? LOL... i was responding to how bizzar bro

He said, "twice is ENOUGH!! (what da F^@k was i thinking?? or was i really thinking??!!?) , Thrice NO Freakin Way ;o) "

I said," Once a victim, twice a volunter.. and thrice????? common fawking abuse me, bhaneko jastai ho.. ki kaso? LOL///
Common fawking abuse meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee:) "

And we were talkign abt how WE feel. Did not involve you. But if u intend to abuse me, please do so... i wud lop to be abused by you my tweet one :)

IndisGUISe:)

okok........sorry.

Ha haha Indi --- bro re?.. Its fine wid me but if u call me sis will do fine too :o)

No sis for me how bizzar... i do not create nakkali nata :P

but, mujse dosti karogi? @ how bizzare... hahahaha.... JK
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Matrix babe... afno manche sanga mafi magna pardaina :P