Looking for a guy to date.......? Marry
Is there anyone who is looking for a Nepali girl ??????

Aneesha,

My suspicions are true after all. lol i didnt even mention them and you saw straight through what i wrote. I'm glad you could. Rigidity is not necessarily the most attractive of qualities, but i do understand the need for it at times. Myself, being an EXTREMELY laid back person, have problems being rigid. Perhaps you have some tips. :p

So how long you been a nurse? I like people in the medical profession. :)

And ya you never bothered replying to other entries that i addressed towards you. Well there might have been just one more. Possibly with the Discrimination in Nepal topic.

Pearl,

I really hope you find some one for yourself. But i do have a piece of advice to offer.
Everyone else, please do feel free to disagree with me.

Here it is. I do not believe, asking for suitors in Sajha is a good way of looking for people to marry. Sure that increases your chances of meeting someone special, but i dont know by how much. I guess its still better than nothing. Have you tried using your networks? Family? Friends? I know its tuff to find the right person, but like you yourself admitted, time is of the essence.

Whats your back up plan anyway? is there one? Please dont marry the first guy you meet. :p You'll find your match soon. And although i do not believe in god. I'll actually make a prayer for you. I only make prayers for very few people and only on rare occasions so consider yourself fortunate. :) I hope you well

Oh my my..its my mistake..
how could I....well as a human ..everybody makes a mistake....

Pardon moi for not looking ur post in DIS....thread.

Ahh..when did I say rigidity is the most attractive quality... I admit that i need to change a lil bit..A LIL bit...not more coz its good sometimes ke...about Rigidity 101 class....let me have my weekends off so that I can give u the rigid lecture abt being stubornness...sanu dekhi lageko bani chutna garo hunchha.....
Anyway...nindra aaieng...aba sutna jaaing...Laterzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

The participant here named 'sajhauser' can articulate his points most of the time. You rock brother...a lot of others are like ' mero goruko bahrai takka'. The reasoning for them is like 'Beacuse I said so'.

sajhauser! keep up the good work.

LOL never thought sajhauser could be a female...my testimonials still hold true, just adjust the pronouns...hehehe

i am good looking though!

You're saying that it doesn't have to be a Nepali guy right? There are lots of nice people out there...you just gotta look around a little harder :) May be you should start exploring your options, go out more often, and have faith in people. :) You never know! ;)

pearl,
now u mentioned about urself.

u should write what u r looking in a guy too..
i think i read " who would appreciate who u r and RESPECT U" but that is vague hoina ra.

what kind of person u looking for? requirement kya?? tyo pani ta list garnu paryo ni !!!!

ya thapap, thik ho...tespachi ta malai pani pearl lai kta khojidina sajilo hunthyo...hehe, wink wink :)

nk

Pearl, what's the best way to contact you.If you are really serious,why would you bother not giving your contact info.

This is becoming quite a saga. If this chick (oops woman) is really serious and she does not turn out to be he (my original assumption - ke garney, skeptical I am - hence that harsh remark up there), then I guess all of us here at Sajha can make a virtual community effort to get her hooked up. What say ya'll?

nepali kaanchhi,
don't u have to sleep .. what r ya doing up so late (O:

I want to thank Sweeta for giving the names of websites..:D coz.if I will old without marrying...then gotta go there...J/K

On the seriuos note, It was for my cousin who is very successful career-wise in her life. Alas, now in the midst of her life there is no one to enjoy the life with...

So girls & (GUYS) too, everything has its own time in the life. Gotta go with the flow of life...its better to look every aspects of the life than regretting in the future.

Peace,

Aneesha

Pearl,


Nice Updated info, will you response here only or if someone send you an email, will you reply it back too?

I think will satisfied most of your criteria but there is still lack of information, what kind of person you are looking for... so that it will be easy for me, whether i will be fit that description or not.

Anyway wish you good luck

Kaleketo

Pearl you are not the only one ,it is strange but many successful woman have hard time finding the right partner.
The reasons:
1]busy professional have less time to look for life partner
2]Guys are most of the time intimidated by successful women
3]The expectation for man to be is high on successful women

It is stange but fact for girls who are looking for man :It is very hard to find a decent , honest and family man ...it is very true in US most of the time ..(i am not just throwing these info out here but i read )..

Guys are willing to date and have fun but will run away most of the time when it comes to commitment.
Guys from nepalese community often go back to marry (hmm.. i wonder why??)
These info is for girls ....try looking from now :) hehheeh... hey btw i am here;);)

Pearl - I think oftentimes when u look too hard, then u tend to overlook a lot of things. I think the best thing to do is not to look and the person find u :))

and let the person find u **

Pearl,
Becareful of the ones who get lured by your credentials. They don't love you, but your credentials....and you wouldn't really want that :D

Sajhauser,
Dont you think her credentials are as much a part of her.. as the soul that lives within her?

I meant more of her background and all. Yes her credentials are part of her. But this world is not perfect. There are people out here who are so materialistic that, they could do anything for more money. I have noticed one here in sajha that fits my description. I'm just giving her a friendly warning....since she seems to be desparate to find a guy, she might not see what's lurking in the dark....

BB,
sanchi ho.. so u want someone to find you.... i am sure its working dandily hoina ta (O:
BB ko idea ta sarai khatara... daar lagyo...

sajhauser,
its all about people/person hoina ra. U r right credentials.. i.e. sometimes decent job and stability gives false impression about individuals...
ma ta.. prolly most unstable person u can ever meet hola (O:

ImI,
I will agree on ur #1.
#2 might be okey but i completely disagree on #3. its not competition hoina ra. being compatible, working together, sharing po hoina ra.. why should there be demand on any side... if there is then it is more like a business transaction/requirement rather than... being together as a family (O:

in the end.. its FAMILY BUSINESS hoina ta.. may be u r correct (O: