This may sound kinda wiered and conservative but very true. Can any nepali guy think why nepali girls go with indian or pakistani? I don't know if anyone even thought about it but this is a serious issue and challenge to nepali guys. I'm a nepali guy and personally I think nepali guys are more understanding and loving. Does anyone have anything to say on it??

Nepali kti ko jati kura kate pani last ma nepali kti nai chaincha kaso ta nepali keta haru.....

why you huys are making too much noise in this subject? In fact the title of the thread itself is disgusting and against Nepalese girls. We Nepalese males will never get improved. Nepali girls are doing excellent and have left us far behind.

In my life, the thing I really regret now is that I really missed the chances of dating Nepalese girls. I did not start dating until I got into univ and by then I had already left Nepal therefore there was absolutely no chance to date Nepalese girls.

I really like to know how they think and how things work with them and I guess it has become more likely that I'll never get that opportunity in this lifetime.

However I didnt miss the experience of dating and knowing girls of very differnt races, religions and backgrounds (In fact I almost gave serious thought of marrying one of them).

Well, I believe it will be very wrong, unfair and unjustified to reach a negative conclusion about Nepal giirls just because they choose or not to choose to go out with guys of particular race or particular culture.

Nepalese guys dont have problem going out or f**king Khiree or hispanic or Paki or dhoti or even black girls then it will be very unfair to expect Nepalese girls not to do exactly the same thing.

I do agree with some the girls who have argued that Nepalese girls are conservative in Neature at least in this matter thought they might be really great in other aspects of life.

first of all, hahahahahaha on the topic. whoever started the thread is a dumbass.

Meera,
I own a pair of Daura Suruwal and I wear it proudly.

Having said that however I do have knowledge of one aspect of Nepalese girls (as told to me by my friends which might or might not be accurate or applicaple in general) that I really didnt like.

They try their best to hide about their past relationships and pretend as if they never have had any relationships in the past instead of opening up, being really frank and honest about it. Not being open about it and not letting it go of course I believe creates a huge problem of trust.

I guess they are primarily affected by the notion from the Hindi movies and of course the own Nepali culture of "First and the only love" which I find very unfair and unrealistic.

One thing I always talked about and asked my past dates to talk about was my past relationships and her past realtionships which I find is very romaltic thing to do when I'm newly dating some girl.

captain haddock interesting ideas on relationships...lemmme add my 2 cents to make them four..

having experienced a lot of stuff...a relationship with anybody can be set right, if you want it that way..otherwise it just won't..

looks, religion, culture, nepalipan, sabhyata are just figures of speech...just like a good coffee is good coffee, good sex is good sex and so is a realtionship..a relationship is like a good chocolate..

i'm the kind of person who belives in boundary less realtionship..you have your life, job, home, relatives and your friends, and then you have a love who gives you that chocolate candy you've been missing throughout..you know you don't need a chocolate but its nice to have one anyways..i belive unless you see the other person as a person who'd be happy to share such secret cravings..and sometimes only...then you know its gonna work out fine....the moment you start asking questions, comparing and judging..you know that you're not in mood for chocolates..,,belive me less the better..or sooner you'll get fat..

When in doubt of your love or chocolates, just give yourself some time..look yourself in the mirror..are you deprived or becoming fat???..and then make sure your normal life has nothing to do with those delicasstein..it'll all be fine..stop look and go...

life without love..possible...life without chocolates impossible..

hush,
box of ferro roche ..just 4 u (o:

Diabetes hola hai ... dherai chocolate nakhau. LOL.

Poor jokes aside, that's a very interesting way of looking at things - thanks for sharing your thoughts. It appears you have organized and structured your thoughts on the subject much better than I have. You think the way you do for reasons you know best, and I will not seek to find out what they are, but I must confess I am a little curious about one thing you mentioned - how do you not ask questions of her or him? I think its a great idea but I wonder if it is something too difficult to humanly do. I mean when you share the same bedroom, bathroom and bank account can questions really be avoided? For example, where do you draw the line between personal freedom and accountability to a common set of responsibilities when you know he or she is cheating on you? Perhaps an extreme example, but there are countless other examples that crop up in the course of a relationship that hover over this very line. But I am with you as far as making that a goal to strive for. I just haven't been too succesfull at it - have you?

harey bro timi pani euta pakistani na bhaye.. desi thiti liyera hidana.. why u bitchin bout nepali thiti haru chyatta pardai.. pardesi thiti haru sanga hidyo bhanera.. aba jolai jo maan paryo tesi sanga hidne ni.. na mula nepali titho le.. bmw chaluncha na ta nissan ko z350.. pheri.. je chalaye pani..

my fren's sister told meh.. n she's INDIAN.. baad main to ma baap jisko bolenge usi se sadi karna padenga.. abhi apna waqt hai.. goroun kalle aru mexican ko patalo.. baad main dekha jayenga..

thank you meera, you at least broke the ices,,,,,,, telling paki keta haru are decent as well, forget it cuz once pak males(muslims) get the chance they destroy hole world besides Muslim's world. And, one more thing you need to remember that no Nepali decent and honest girl goes with a paki guy, and no one decent or honest paki muslim guy accepts Hindu Nepali beach (girl who likes muslte). . If you are Nepali Muslim I don't have to say any thing, but if you are Hindu girl, and willing to go with Pakistani, there is something wrong either you need money or help the same as akriti's explanation in earlier posting. ..... I don't even talk to a girl who go with paki- musalte and said pakis are good ............ those girl who go with paki they are ridiculous.......... either they go with them for money or misconception (such as lamo Dick..... now you could find Nepali who use machine to extended their dicks as well) etc................ it is totally false............ only uneducated girl go after them. Otherwise, Nepali girls want Nepali guys, they need Nepali maya,,,,,,,,,,Nepali pan, culture, and Nepali smell until they alive. Peace out meera........I like akriti MSG, coz there is Nepali pan.............. and it is totally absurd to believe the paki guys love Nepali Hindu girls.

HUSHPUPPY writes

OUt here, the nepali guys i come across, are mostly like danda kanda baata jhareko bhariya (maybe it is not YOU)..

Hey Hushpuppy... I reallly dont understand, Dnada knda bata jhareko bhariya bhandai ma PAKHEY bhanne? K nepal ma sabai thau ma Danda Kanda chhaina ra? If ur not from Dada Kada ur not real Nepali.

Kathmandu ko phohor KHALDO ma janmera kahilyai THANKOT nakatne haru lai kaha thaha hunchha REAL NEPAL kasto chha bhanera? Pleas mind nagarnu la Im not saying you.

ANd to say actually, PAKHEY word comes from PAKHA ( who resides there) so in one sense we all Nepalis are PAKHEY.

So much to write...... I stop here, Dont take personally HUSHPUPPY, sajha ma sano tino bibad ta bhai halchha ni....
Take it easy

captain haddock, here's my answer..whenyou're so close as you mentioned..share your bedroom, bank a/c and maybe the same email passwords..comon..you know all the answers..such as who were you chatting with or whom did you go out with..where did you spend that money..where were you??..I'd leave that to mom and dad..who's born to do do that and not yopurself or your love..cause you simply know all the answers....

yeah sure there's one question you can ask .."DO YOU FEEL ALRITE?""..Eric Clapton..and give her more/less chocolates..

Ok now i'm rebutting Amazing..u know whom i'm talking about dear..tadaiih bata thaha paune nakkkaley thitha haru..ghatti bharri JPT necklaces, Yellow/pink NIKE T_SHIRTS and JAckets..Timberland shoes In the summer, HIPOP PANTS..i'm gonna puke ..should i add more??

Hush - I only wish I knew all the answers (sigh). Thanks for sharing your perspective. I have half a mind to continue on but any further discusion on this will most likely be about splitting hairs and I dont want to hijack the thread for that purpose. Maybe when you are fittu and I am fittu, we can start a separte Sajha thread about it, ya? ... he he

And hey, that chocolate idea is awfully romantic but what if she keeps eating chocolate after chocolate and getting fatter and fatter? Then you have to send her to the gymn ... and a sweaty smelly sweetheart on treadmill isn't quite my idea of romance. LOL.

I'll give you the last word.

OMG europeans or north americans girls are prettier than NEPALI girls!

Ewwwwwww, Doesnt your girlfreind use B.O or deodrant, perfume and stuffs if she goes to gym!!! and btw you could give soem "fat free" chocolates:)

well nepali girls go with other guys cuz they are more understanding and they don't always try to prove that they are always rite . i would no cuz i'm a nepali chich and i've realisd it..

Had been a few days since I had browsed through the posts in sajha. I really did not even read through all of this thread.... it just got too long, BUT I am assuming that the basic idea it is trying to convey is "WHY DO NEPALI WOMEN GO WITH MEN OF OTHER NATIONALITY". Correct me if I am wrong.

This is so weird and amazing. I mean come on arent there enough Nepali men who date people from other nationality? There are people from all around the world dating and mixing with one another, but when Nepali women do it, there are questions raised. I mean how dumb can it get?

Personally I have never and will NOT date people from other nationality, the reason??-- I would rather speak with MY GUY in my own mother tongue, and enjoy the same food taste and other small things in life that realy dont count. BUT I have had cousins and friends date and marry people from other nationality and HEY... as long as they are happy nothing else matters.

Marriage and dating is all about your happiness, compatibility, a sense of belongingness and the "someone" who you can be yourself with and be totally comfortable with. NOWHERE does it say that marriage is the act of officially accepting a person from the opposite sex and SAME nationality as your partner. Its just what makes you happy! So instead of looking at the caste, creed and nationality.. one should just choose a person one thinks s/he would be happy with!

OMG i would go out with italian ,spanish,portuguese,america,french,canadian,english all but i will only make out with a nepali guy=D

I have rarely heard of Nepali chicks making out. Do they really make out at all ??

yea hot ones do like me !!! and the hot guy i've been dreaming of since ever i was born!! there must be a hot nepali guyy who would make out!