3 years is a long time, I  might have 6 gfs by then if i continue from my current trend lol  I found that the most imp thing in life is to get in relationship w/ smbdy who likes u rather then who u like. My exp tends to think that way dude. I might be wrong. 

Well, My appology..........But as I said that was just my thought...it was first thing that came to my mind, while reading the post.........nontheless, I am very aware with our Nepalese mentality - 'one ear, two ear, and then field' ("aak kan, dui kan, maidan"). however, it doesn't make of all us into same default.

Anyway, this is why I like this kind of healthy conversatations. It really made me think over all these during this weekneed. If all these can be true, and ppl can go to such extend for various reason....I would really wait and find the right one before making any decision. As few of u said above, I still think whatever works best for you is the best choice as marriage doesn't come with guarantee.

But thanks to all out there, for their inputs......It really helped me.

please no arrange.. takes out the fun of wooing the girl u lobb. :D wtf...arrange is for cheaters (pun not intended :P).

"But then even in love marriage, what if you fall out of love at some point? Would you then leave the person because you r no longer in love? it can happen too, right?" 

Speaking of Marriages, this seems to be a perfect marriage that everyone could dream of.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=np8RxeRFFD4