Ok i have been having feelings for guys! well Honestly I felt this way when I was back home as well! But I tried to supress those feelings or thought I was sick n was wondering if there are any brothers/sisters that are going through the same situation!

@Every one

Thnx for all the support!

I have been getting e-mails (some good n some not sooo good) !
Once again thnx for the encouragement!

@Americane

U say Gay, I say Straight
U say man, I say woman
U say guys, i say girls
U say handsome, I say beautiful
U say hunk, I say hot
U say bastards, I say bitch
U say encouragement, I say Sympathy
U say Justin Beiber, I say Eminem


Nothing else matter if u r confident of urself

@giordano

plz not justin bieber man haha

I am sure visible u might have got some emails from other nepali gays lol!

@Americane

Yes sir I have....ANd I m glad to know that there are so many brothers and sisters going through situation like mine! I know that in the society like ours where we have so many discrimination in terms of caste, religion etc ...this is entirely a new thing... But it's upto educated people like u n me Ameicane to change this......that doesn't mean that we have to leave everything n join the gay right movement...but all we have to do is have a little empathy towards people going through situatio like mine!! Coz U never know U might know me or I might know u .....or I could b ur brother a friend!

N just for the record we have seen so many things changed in our country! Like sati pratha used to be so common back in those days n if u speak against it ...u would be mocked or punished just like how being gay/lesbian is mocked upon but look at us now...Does the thought of sati pratha even crosses our mind or if someone even talks about it seems like history to us....,ya know
Maybe things might work out for people like me not in this life time but THE CHANGE HAS TO COME!!!!
Thanks brother!

@NAs
Im so happy that people like u who were a little prejudiced towards gay/lesbians lol have come up with this great idea! N hats off to u for that...But it's sajha and like eveyone else I would love to be in the same forum...my intensions were never to demand like a separate thing for people like us!!

P.s. There will be a lot of people who will mock u for this attempt like HOw I was .....n will say things to u that r not true!!!! But my only suggestion is just to Be patient and not HATEFUL!!

Thanks NAS

@Visible I told them a same thing ..why they have to be in different category ..but sajha deleted my response.

Lets integrate not dis-integrate despite of our religion faith..cast n sexuality..

First of all we all are human n we are all nepalese..n we should live that way..people have different choice doesn't make them any less human or less nepalese..

I am against different category..

@crazy Nep
Yea I saw that! But I think Nas meant that in a good way tho!! that's y I posted my view about how I don't want a separate blog for it!
N I agree with u on not dis-integrating ANYONE!!!

@Ameircane
Shame on u
U r one of those people who sent me threatning e-mail !! He goes if he says anything personal about him then it won't be good! I still got that e-mail saved up!
N my thread got that many hits coz of guys like u who made fun of me to the point where I just had to put up with the nasty comments!

Man napare kina ...thread kholera comment hanna rayo ni ta..n Im not  just talking about u Americane !

N what's up with u posting a thread by urself about being me gay n bashing some of the supporters like NAS who himself bashed me in the beginning!

N yea Im not looking for any bf here in Sajha...if u guys r that insecured!
keti ko boobs hena, ass chamna, tali koi budho milcha hola yaha sajha ma bhanda ......everyone that likes to mock gay people didn't  give a swat! Aba mero thread chahine bhanda popular bho bhanera feri afu ni  "gay " ko issue rakhera thread halne?
nway it's a sajha! If u guys whoever likes to mock me have right to do so .......so do i to give out my point of views as well!

JAy sajha!!

Ok visible , lets come to truth , i dont feel shame on me for hating homos , though i have been here (US)  for 4 years my heart is still nepali and i am not americanised yet ! In fact you should feel shame on you dude for being a homo!
I did comment on this sh!t thread just to make your fun , you are right because being homo is going against all rules and regulation of our culture and tradition. and i just want to see who is this .
Do you think you are being popular because you publish you are gay ? Hell no ! This is dispopularity dude, you made yourself naked in front of whole world! make sure your friends dont know about this otherwise they will think twice to met you in a room!
and what did you say I did open thread to be popular ! I dont need a fame on my fake name dude !
Yes i did mailed you so what you goona do , in threee years of sajha I have send such mail to many people and got such mail from many people ! Even though we want we cant track each other unless SAN help us and he is not going to do that !
And wht you say you are not here for bf, yes dude you are ! look at your topic , you clearly state that and may be on private mails you have contact with some others too !
so dude, get some respect for yourself ! Nobody was asking about you before you post your comment ! you make yourself naked dude ! And remember GAY is still a word used to insult someone dude, in Nepal and in America too !

@  aMERICANE

@ Americane
 YOu won!!! happy now..... hm?
too much ego is not good nepali amigo!
anyway u r the winner n congratulatons!!

Visible ji,
Im just curious. I heard there are two kinds of gay. One who gives and the other whi takes. I mean sex garda. Which one are you?
Ani also there is a big issue among psychologists about gay/lesbian. Some psychologists say that gay baani is just a disorder like any other disorders.
Greek ko jamana ma gaypana lai jod dinthyo coz in a battle, a lover is more likely to save his lover, aba when that lover is gay. Sun ma sugandha for the greek army.
Im not against gay. Im just saying ut could be a disorder. Like, ocd bgayeko mancheko. Ocd bhako manchelai yo disorder ho bhanyo bhane haina hunai sakdaina bhancha. They r at denial. Tesaile if u think being will be a problem to ure parents then admit that its a disorder and u can take care of it. Just like angelina jolie, she thought she was a lesbian and was with some asian looking lady but after realing it to be just a case of disorder she started going with guys.
Timu katai saano huda, keti haru sanga dherai ta kheldaina thyo? Usually baccha belako kura haru budho bhaye pachi dekhincha. Nepal, didi haru dherai cha bhane ketiko luga lagai diera kasti raamri bhanne chalan cha. Ani ketako luga lauda chai khaasai matlab garena bhane one starts to ask for attention by doing girly things. Yestai yestai kura haru bichar gara.
The decision is yours.

hey such  a shame to see some one can hate  some other human being for there sexuality and belief

Americane @ heeralone..Gay is natural n its nothing wrong killing other robbing other is wrong condemn that' man conservative mind like yours suXX..i guess god created human being like u just to make world a hell..
Learn to accept other as well.. such a ignorant ..so lack of knowledge..there is nothing wrong in being gay.. i m not gay but i support gay marriage..n tell you world had moved long way..lots of country now recognised marriage between two same sex person.. watch Movie MIlk..
KARMA just hope not one day your brother or your son comes n tells you he is gay ..n he likes mens..what would u do..don't judge n discriminate other man u'll know when it happens to ya..

shame to see people have such a view even now

VIsible i know man despite anything ignore this people..u can't help people like them..kukur bhukdai garchaa hati lamki dai garcha.
move on put on a strong face n jst live your life.. when u different you have to face obstacles

live n let other leave

peace bro

 There are numerous gay people in Nepal. I myself am one. It is completely ok to be gay.

A piece of advice: DO NOT let anyone tell you how to live your life. Being gay doesn't necessarily mean you're promiscuous and no one has the right to tell you what is right and wrong. Be strong!

I can bet my life this is another one of those characters of babbal khate! दीस हींजडा याभटार सुट्स यू म्याऽऽऽन !!

our own brother NIROULA is a gay. What is status abt him?
he used to  live in palm spring.