Ok i have been having feelings for guys! well Honestly I felt this way when I was back home as well! But I tried to supress those feelings or thought I was sick n was wondering if there are any brothers/sisters that are going through the same situation!

Visible101 Mitra,

It's a weird question. Don't you know that there is a gay member of parliament? Sunil babu Pant, head of te Blue Diamond Society, is a great example representating LGBT group. While I was back in Kathmandu early 2009, I saw so many gays in Thamel. I heard Nepal could be the best wedding destination for gays.

Looking your behavior, it looks like you are gradually becoming gay. So, it's good news for you. You could visit Thamel to find your partner NOT sajha. Good luck

Hi there, 
Homosexuality is in all races, not just westerners. Our Nepali society is against homosexuality. Therefore people hide. But i'm sure there are 100s of homo sexuals in Nepal as well. Infact, if people think its weird and destruction of culture, facts are that even animals can be gay, not just human. If you feel for men, there is no point trying to falling in love with a girl, marrying her, making her pregnant and fooling her of your actual desires. You will not only ruin your own life but the girl's life too. they say you can lie to the whole world but not yourself and trust me the best way to stay happy forever is to be truthful to yourself and to the people around you. People are gonna criticize you regardless, whether straight or gay. Specially our nepali culture is that we talk too much about others and judge others. Don't be intimidated by people who are of no help in your life but just enough to make you feel like shit. Go for what you feel and be happy. Afterall i don't think there is any bigger happiness than finding the true love of your life, whther man or woman who can understand your deepest feelings regardless all these judgmental people. I'm a straight gurl but i am not against gay and lesbian because its simply uneducated to do so and everybody has feelings...just coz we are straight doesn't mean we have to ridicule the feels of a gay man. Feel free to fall in love with a man. 

dragontatto frustu bhaye justo cha

khula mancha ma gayera bhasan de justai garera lekhna thalyo
but what you have said is correct man, 110 percent.

Dragon,

I totally agree with you. As a gay man from Nepal, evertthing you say resonates with how I (and many like me) feel. Many choose to get married and have children, while living a life of deception. At the end of the day, we're all human and happiness is what we seek. :)

Thank you for all the replies!!!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eAfyFTzZDMM

@visible, no matter who you are, you are what you are, we all are beautiful, as long as their is love, god loves us all. you are brave, don't worry about keyboard warriors, be what you are...

@ NAs , testo kehi haina NAs ji--jasto thiye aile ni testai chu haha -Tapi sanga mero Bhetghat bhayo jasto lagcha tapi le malai na chine ni
BTW I really liked your article regarding Bindu Pariyar :/

Thank you High Flying Eagle

Gay, from Nepal, neither proud nor ashamed. (about both of those facts)

carlossantos i know:/ It's kindda like it's not your fault but you are still held accountable :(

@visible101: Not saying that I didn't have my own struggles with it but I finally decided that life is too short to live pretending what you are not. You may not change the whole world but what you can do is be honest and it's amazing how that brings awesome little changes to you and the people around you. So no :( just a big :), just like the original meaning of the word implies. :)

@ carlossantos!! so true

@ Nas bro le picture haru chahi babbal betaunu huncha.lol..Obama scandal ko bare ta ma lai tha pani thiyena haha...Nas bro le dheri kassam na khaye ni huncha- tapi ko pani kohi sathi haru holan jo closet case huna sakchan tei bhayera khyal rakhnu hola:) Ra muri muri Dhanyanad gay jati haru prati kuni naramro bhawana rakhidiyeko ma!

@ NAS man photoshop ko pani hadh ni huncha ni, bichara obama lai ni chodena :( anyway tabloids are everywhere and can be about anything! Obama ,Larry gay bhane ni na bhayeni I am! Nas le obama ko image ko Nas garyo pravu! :P