Hi guys! I am thinking of getting married with my gf sometime this year. US mai sano bihe garne vaneko, tara family ko pressure le Nepal mai garne ki sochdai chau. We don't like the idea of traditional marriage, but we are just going to do it for the sake of our parents. I am Bahun and my gf is Magar, different culture vakole duita types ko bihe huncha vanirako chan. Dherai nai hassles hune vaye etai garauna family lai convince garne ni plan cha.Has anyone done inter-caste marriage in Nepal? Afno experiences share garidinu hola :-)

With proper management, it shouldn't be a big problem in Nepal specially in city areas. I myself find magars and gurungs very cute and I highly adore their Kauda dance.

Kudos to you. Hang in there. You have our respect.

sir, sansar ma ramro jaat kt nai napaune jasto kaha magar ko chori uthaunu bha? proper bahun bhaye pachi kamse kam chhetri samma ba gareko bhaye hune?? afu lai janma dine baba aama lai kasto hunch ahola manche haru ley koi napayera Magarni keti layo bhanda, alikati afu lai janma dine baba aama ko lagi ni sochnu bhaye hunthiyo hola...

ani mero famili experine yo matwali tyo ni magar ko jaat sanga chai hami bahun chhetri ley bibaha nagareko ramro..pachi dheri tesnion hune raicha.. dheri dheri kura namalne.. uniharu hami jasto straight forward nahune... chetri bahun khasai chal kapat gardainan...yo matwali ma chai k k ko bakhera... nata kutumba chai yini haru sanga nagasnu hola.. afno ba ko bare ma punar bichar garnu hola...biswobhar chetri bahun capable kanyo ko kami china.. my personal suggestion ( based of facts) chetri bahun sanga ba garnus

yar la sabai kura lai birsi dinus, yini haru sanga ta saskar nai nahune yar, ustai paryo bhane tapai ko parents lai mu###ji samma bhanna ber laudainan .. ramro ma ta ramrai hola tara famili ko kura hola bholi khat pat hola tes bela tapai ley yini haru ko asli character dekhnu huncha... hami chhetri bahun jasto sahansil susil nahune,, bholi afno baba aamai ko bichar garnu hola ,, sciety ma hune apapaman ko ni bchar garnu hola ani dheri kura sochera matra marrige aagadi baraunu hola sathi.

all the best

@KTM123 YOu can go ahead if you love her. There is no nothing great than true love and care.
@Jhunathan Nacpao Padsing. This guy looks to like racist. As his comments looks, he is giving too much priority to this own caste. Dude you probably dont know that there are 100 of caste superior to yours. Don't be proud of you caste being superior. My case is superior than yours and so many bahun chettri works under me. Mind it.

@ झुनाथान नाच्पाओ पद्सिंग - अमेरिकामा आएर जुठो भाडा माज्न हुने, गाइको सुंगुरको माशु खान हुने, जात-भात नभएका एस्कोर्टहरु संग चीकामारी खेल्न हुने, अनि मन मिल्ने नेपालीसंग बिहे गर्न नहुने ?

#Snow2017

bhai bahun bhanda superior ta kun jaat raichas yeso khulayera lekh na.. too much comedy

@ktm123 bro, just chill. man milepachi sab kura milcha. bahun ra magar le purai nepal banaunu hune,[Disallowed String for - use not allowed] bihe garna chai nahune bhanne kasle lekhya cha.
@Junathan, fcuk off [Disallowed String for - use not allowed] randi ko ban racist. ja tero ghanta hanne bela bho hola .

Yo sansar ma junathan jasto chutiya ajja ni rahecha. Ali kiti bandar bhanda mathi hunnu teti garo?? Humans are all equal, their color, profession,location, rich or poor doesn't make another human less or more human than another. For Ktm123us bro, all it takes is ur respect and love for that lady to be called ur wife. I think you're not yet sure if you are ready for commitment. Because u fear people like junathan(no cap J) coz he doesn't deserve it. He's smaller than any human because he thinks he is superior to other human.

There r so-called educated ppl like junthan in our beloved country, Nepal. He is BShit.. his baseless argument--such a pathetic thoughts. He is the typical hypocrite nepali who represents Nepal. Good for nothing, egoistic, greedy, small thoughts and fake.
While Nepal is the country run by remittance & so-called bahuns are the majority leaders in all major party. What have they done for the country and for the people, besides corruption and irregularities? Can't they not be united for the sake of prosperous Nepal? All people are suffering irrespective of their caste and creed. see the sewages around streets, behaviour of people. Have some life brother.(no offence)
For ktm123us= follow your heart dude. Nothing is better than the love of ur life. F**k the caste & creed. It's all in ur thoughts. If u r strong in ur resolution, nothing matters. You can alwz lead by example. It's far better for u here(in USA) for marriage. You will save time and money & hassles free. After all you can always organize a marriage-party in Nepal. good luck.

Hypocrite "Life is about balance. Be kind, but don't let people abuse you. Trust, but don't be deceived. Be content, but never stop improving your self". Facebook ma yasto lekhne ani sajha ma yol post garni .................khate moo-ji