I am wonderring if a blonde girl is lost the whole USA is shaked up by media and when a foreign national is lost no body even cares???

Although i have to say ,i have experienced less descrimination till now.I am just not happy with the whole thing about a nepali girl getting lost and the american cops not giving damn.What kind of effort are they doing.Are they even searching seriously.I pray for pratistha for her safety but at the same time i am mad with lack of attention the media and other sources are giving to this matter.

Where is that thread about missing nepalese boy...nobody seems to care??????

ImI,

Its dIscrimination, NOT dEscrimination!

Your outrage is not helping Pratishtha's case. If you want to yell, make sure you at the right place and infront of the right people. Otherwise, it will have the same effect of you yelling in a cave. Timro afnai kaan lai dukha hola, echo aayera. Actions make a difference, not words. If you want something to happen, start being active. Its simple as that.

Vincent, you r right!
what does Nepalese Association do??
anyways , there has been couple of cases where i have been discriminated (i used both above,thanks for correcting).I am now more careful and i know how to deal with it.I am just not talking about the Prstistha's case.There has been other cases too.

Aznswty:
you really think cops are not racist???? how many cases do you want to know?I am sure they are searching but they have no pressure.

ss47k,
yes that nepalese boy too? why the media never reported ?People do run away from places but there are different reasons for that but if there is no reason they there can be other unwanted reasons of disappearance.

Well, we just hope and pray both of them are in good state.

IMI
"we are talking about descrimination in USA as whole for nepalese" what r u talking about, how often when you were in nepal, did you treat an indian " dhoti" as similar to as you would treat a nepali.

Discrimination is everywhere, and if you can do it, then why are you complaining about it when others do it.

i agree with mansion...discrimination is everywhere.

if media is involved then there would be more pressure for cops to put more than necessary effort. The more pressure from ppl and media the more publicized it would be... in other cases too..their family and friends go in tv ..make billboards..put out fliers ...put donations..do a lot...to put pressure on cops and stuff.

i am not saying there is no discrimination but in order to get something one has to get more involved than just put out a complaint

How much hype did we make when those two KUIRINISwere raped and murdered in nagarjun, for crying out loud?

P.S. This is only reference to this thread!

ImI,

I never questioned the ability of the Nepalese Association. I was questioning your motive behind the post. Cerine has echoed what I was trying to say in the last sentence. Actions my friend, actions.

i am not denying we need action.I am not in search team .I have expressed whatever search team need i am ready to help may it be monitory in the sticky topic.What the hell Nepalese association doing till now.I don't know whats going on but i do not hear anything.

One thing i am talking about this so nepalese bro and sis (some:) become smart and know how to act incase.Most of the time if you are in car accidents if the cop sees you are brown then their statement do change.So, to be smart and to protect your self always carry camera in your car.Do not sign anything what cops writes even after they take your statement without reading it.I have so many friends and their statements have changed .just warning all of you guys and to share some stories .That is the intention of this thread.

Mansion , i am not denying that when i was kid i have said discriminative words toward madesis but now i have seen a lot i don't think i would do the same thing again.I know that is wrong but gores know this and for 200 years they have been discriminating people.i don't say discrimination will be completely eradicated but people need to know their rights and be smart.

this is a public forum, so people voice their opinion. not everyone can or at least are in positions to deliver actions. this is an age of IT, so voicing one's opinion can be sometimes as effective as action, provided if the voice can be delivered to the right people. sajha, being a nepalese forum, is a good platform to put forth issues. i m sure nepalese community do visit it time and ofen.

let's stop this debate on actions and speech. as long as it helps, even in bits and pieces, to cater the purpose, i don't see any reason why one cannot complain.

as for the discrimination thing goes, i agree that there is relatively less pressure from teh media on police department of Estes park about Pratistha's case. if this thread is being read by any nepalese association in US, i urge, on behalf of all nepalese to do something to at least broadcast the news over all major news channels. i also request them to ask for any help needed from members of the nepalese diaspora.

Loote

ImI,

If creating awareness was your intentions then why was discrimination brought into the picture of the case of disappearance? How do you know this case has been dampned by discrimination? Seems like you live on assumptions (correct me if I am wrong), and use the same to build a theory. If you are going to live your life thinking that you have been victimized, there will be no end to this. You can't change the way others think, even if its discriminatory. Also think about whose loss is it if you let others wrong actions make you lead a life thats not totally right.

Yet, if you want to fight, you are free to do so. (this is where Lootekukur comes in the picture). Its your fight and you fight it. Dont lure people in this "hate club." What I find really amusing about your writing is that you "urge the nepalese association to broadcast the news over all media." Why don't you do it? Seems like you know very well how to type and seem to be able to put together a sentence. Why don't you write a letter or two to the people involved? Why dont you for a change put yourself on the line?

Its a dare!

I am doing that......

hats off to you mate.

no problem. and vincent, it does not matter whether i do it, or you do it or any other for that matter. i m not boasting here and not seeking for any damn attention either.

cheers and g'night

Loote

i dont get it.

when a white girl disappears , is kidnapped and murdered, why wasnt there any thread in sajha, from any of you, regarding that.there are hundres of white girls kidnapped ,murdered, raped every year. they were also someones daughter, someones freind. how many of you guys did anything to support the effort, forget about action, not a single thread was posted , not a condolence, nothing for sajha users.

how is that not discrimation from our part. with all due respect to miss pratistha and her family, but its only when something bad happens to one of ours own, then we think about all this.

may be it needs to start from within oneself, not to discriminitate others, and only can we expect the same.

PS- now pls i hope one of you wont respond saying, well the white girls are the majority in states, coz you cant validate any discrimination on a basic of majority or minority.

Mansion Its not about onewhite girl missing.When it comes to your family and your community then you see things clearly.Don't tell me you are super humanbeing.we do not mention those other people missing here because they do not belong to nepalese community.Wouldn't it be wonderful if there was no language , no country no caste..then where and what is your identitity.Human begins.Why don't we talk about war in other countries ??why don't we talk about iraq? why don' t we talk about dafur????
dude , why only we talk about when one person in Nepal dies when millions of other people in the world is dying.It is human nature.. may be you are god or acting like one.

This intention of this thread is not to hate white people.To make aware people that these things happen and becareful we know discrimination in caste but have you experienced discrimination by cops when in accidents????if you did not good for you but many othere nepalese have ..

You guys are trying to act super human out here. good for you. MAy you everysec of life think that way and if i ever see you posting any other stuff than being super human .I will be commenting that time.I have helped my in past and i will help them every possible way.i have good intentions when i was created this thread and you guys are trying to prove how discriminative i am because i didn't start thread on Natillaie Hollaway??or DIscrimination on Black??

IMI....You are full of yourself. you just talk and talk and contradict yourself.
"we do not mention those other people missing here because they do not belong to nepalese community"

so why the hell do you expect americans or american media to mention her and be more aggresive, she's not from amercian community either.

"Why don't we talk about war in other countries ??why don't we talk about iraq? why don' t we talk about dafur???? " WTF....What has war to do anything with racial discrimination. whats your core point. you started the thread on discrimination...stick to it., dont try to change subject.

"You guys are trying to act super human out here".............i am not saying i am super human, but just coz you're not a super human , that doenst mean, there arent ppl wo are super human, and actually go out from their way and do things.

"i have good intentions when i was created this thread and you guys are trying to prove how discriminative i am because i didn't start thread on Natillaie Hollaway??or DIscrimination on Black??
"..........................lau who is trying to prove how discriminative you are, i think you take things too personally. i dont even get what your point is , you change your subject too much.

but anyways, and common, stop saying so much dude.

this so simple you just don't get it .Point is we talk here our problem , problem of nepal.
You cannot just understand this and you are arguing with me!!!!

problem of nepal re, you are not the only nepali in states, just coz you think you are being discriminated, doesnt make it a problem of nepal.

my last post for this thread, coz ya u're right, i dont get it, what is the point you're trying to make...u started with discrimination, and u brouhght up issues of war,and now problem of nepal. but anyways.

you guys talk too much.... you guys need to zip it up, or find some other hubby than quarreling in sajha.. it looks like two chuthalay aayamaiee fighting in a padheraooo...

Where the fug are all the SO called Nepali organizations(all over the USA) ?
Are they all fugging dead ? or sleeping ?
ANA ? sittin on their ass as usual Doin nothin'
I am outraged at those bastards too.