MY COUSIN RECENTLY TOLD ME SHE LOVES ME AND SHE WANTS TO MARRY ME AND BE WITH ME. I HAVE BEEN DYING TO HEAR THAT WORD FOR THE LAST FEW YEARS.  . we both been here in US for like 2 years now and we live together. I ALWAYS LIKED HER AND I HAD A PREETY GOOD SENSE THAT SHE LIKES ME TOO. BUT THE PROBLEM HERE IS THAT I WANT TO LET OUR FAMILY KNOW ABOUT OUR RELATION BUT SHE DOESNOT WANNA DO THAT.
HELP ME GUYS.I DONT WANT TO LEAVE HER AND I KNOW SHE DOESNOT WANT TO DO THAT EITHER.

hello

haha
purana kagaz bro, where are yoU?

दिमाग खुस्केका भनौ कि त्रिताल हून , खुराक पस्किदिन्छन : अनि कन्सिरी तताई जबाफ दिनेको धुईरो लाग्छ !

सोध्ने र हामि जबाफ दिने दुवै तराजुका दुइ पाटा हौ  |

Dont know abt the 2nd one, but the first one is an incest for sure...many countries incl nepal considers incest illegal. Some people consider consensous incest between two adult (like in your case) as a "victimless crime" . Nonetheless, the incest taboo is & has been one of the most Social-restrictive issue for long time.
Mistake happens, n if there s still time to back off, please do so !!
If its too late, settle somewhere !!!

only in pakistan it is allowed
i guess it is allowed in some remote district of nepal too

u from ARKANSAS?

FYI - Mama and Fupu ko chori are called Soltina in GURUNG community and are allowed to marry by all means. IDK which community you belong to ????

Thats why most gurungs are born so retardly.

So please sathi find a decent girl for yourself and move on. Leave your cousin alone.

 this post is so disturbing to me, the op is not gurung or such cast where he can marry sister other wise he should not have ask this..

i wish this post removed from sajha..

 @pirka: “Thats why most gurungs are born so retardly”

Your remark reflects how retarded and ignorant you are.  I wonder how a person can generalize without considering all of the variables. Do you have any data to back you up?

Although first cousin marriages seem incest, some ethnic groups practice it as their “Gotras” are different. “Gotra” means clan which broadly refers to people who are descendants in an unbroken male line from a common male ancestor.

Call it male chauvinism or sexual discrimination, the Gotra is inherited from a Father. The mother’s Gotra is simply ignored. In short, Boy belongs to Clan ‘A’ while the girl belongs to clan ‘B’. Since they are from different clans their marriage is approved.

It’s true that the children of first-cousin marriages have an increased risk of genetic disorders. Inbreeding can make children more susceptible to infectious diseases. But it is ironic that the man who gave rise to the importance of genetics in natural selection; Charles Darwin chose to marry his first cousin. Well Darwin wasn't alone in this - Einstein also married his cousin.

Let’s not post words of hatred against racial groups, just because what they practice is a Taboo for you.

P.S: If Adam and Eve were the first humans, we are all brothers and sisters related by blood. Damn, I need to find a girl from Mars or Venus probably. 

hahaha if she ain't ready to fight the world for ya...she don't love you truly braw !! 

Apart from gurungs, the thakuris also allowed the first cousin marriage. I'm a thakuri and I'm allowed to marry my mama ko chori as long as we both and our parents agreed for the marriage. Unfortunately my mama doesn't have a daughter :-P

Who the hacks revives a 3 year old thread? Nothing better to do?

 थुइक्क बोका हरु आफ्नो दिदी बहिनी लाई पनि बकी रक्दैनौ /.

ऐले सम्म त बच्चा  पनि बनाई सक्यौ होला , कि अजै चिकमारी मात्रै खेल्दै छौ?

Even if you are allowed to marry your first cousin because of your culture, you shouldn't do that as it brings genetic imbalance and most of the times the child born will be mentally unfit.

good. brahma le ta fanai chhori lai swasni banako thiye, tapai le thikai garo. anta khojna janu parena.

Bhote haru ma chalchha incestuous marriage....go ahead man if you are bhote....
but be aware about state and federal regulation in USA...

In the US, you can actually have a relationship with your cousin. it might depend upon your belief( Catholic, protestant, Methodist etc). Even in India, in some culture you can marry your
mummy pattiko hajurba ko natiniharu and your own uncle's daughter(being your cousin).
In Nepal as well there are lama, limbu, rai communities where you can marry your phupu and mama's daughter, they are called as ashyaang, i believe.

aba kuro aayo tapaiko. bolld relation chaina bhane i would say go ahead and live your life man. incest and taboo bhanya ta man made shit nai ho. ghar pariwar lie thaa dine ki nai its up to you but yei world ma kati places ma cousin cousin bihe hunxa, kati thau ma hunna. which means it dont make no difference. love her and live with her dude.