Guys, I am not Indian but want to know why do we always blame Indians for every thing .

They are the one to support Nepali families in US by providing jobs.
Helps on Professional job.
Provides all the welfare grants to Nepal. 

 

Behoove me,

Not all fighting is bad. There is good fighting and there is harmful fighting.

Us Nepali brothers are mature enough to be able to fight playfully without taking it personally. I see this being done in my company among my work associates all the time. Don't you see this type of playing around in your company?

LOL BitterTruth,

Why so quick to defend Indians? I didn't know they felt threatened by us Nepalese uniting.

 Hey bitter truth, why are you sitting there like a lato looking at a kera? Are you gay? 

Why don't you knock Babal out. 

You know he's wrong. 

 Hate indians??? yes I used to...still when it comes to say sports and I would tend to support the team against the indians. Its just like that right from the time I know about india, I don't know why. But I have a few indian friends now and I realize I was carrying a false impression on indians. They can be as good friend as a Nepali could be. Of course when we hear about the political stuffs doing rounds, we don't much like or hate the strategy that India takes on Nepal. May be that is one and only reason why we hate india and ultimately indians.

We need to find somebody to blame, we were proud of not being part of East India Company, but we became slave for Economic Prosperity, it become part  of our life as dowry in Indian culture. Corruption and crime for economic benifit , country going down but we trying to be clean pointing fingers to INDIANS. What else we can do? We are shameless, ethicless.

We need something to justify, then we point out to INDIA and Indians. That is the easy way to be clean on an oil bath.

Magorkhei,

Can you explain what you mean please. I want to understand what you're saying.

rasika, babal khatey made some point in other posts albeit haven't read what he wrote here. So, didn't really bother to reply to anyone of em.

well, I know that was figurative but I can assure you that literally once you go my kera, you don't go back. lol.. I"m not gay. I can prove it. wanna try.. ?? 

@babaal khatey,
I hate some dhotis as much as you do bro, no doubt :D 

 BitterTruth ji, 

Namaskar. Tapai saachai Nepali nai ho ra? Hamro Nepali daju bhai haru le ta tapai ko jasto bhasa prayog gardainan. Tapai ko sakali jaat ke ho? Nepali jaat ho ki...aarkai? Tapaile Nepal ma kun school ya college ma padhnu bhaeko thiyo? Kun thau ma?

BitterTruth ji,

Tapai lai Nepali bolna ta aauncha hoina? Maile sodeko karand kina bhane tapai ko post haru ma ni, tapai le Nepali bolna khojda, Hindi sabda haru dherai mi-se ko dekchhu ke.

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@babaal bro, haami nepali bhaye pani herna chahi khubai sanga majja ley hindi film ra serial haru nai herchau.. .
sayad tapai pani , fursad ko bela ma hindi movie hernu huncha hola, hindi geet nai sunnu huncha hola. hoina ra? 
jati sukai nepalitwa 'khokay' pani aakhir ma india ley hamlai nuun(salt) ra teil(oil) nadiye samma hamro ghar dailo ma chulo baldaina.
jun kisimley haami ahiley india sanga yesari nirbhar chau ni, sayad testo nahunu parney thiyo. ma ta asha garchu ki yesto kisim ko gathabandhan chado bhanda chado tutos , baru china tira laagey hunthyo jasto laagcha.. yoh dhoti haru ko bewar dekhda.

tara hamra chor neta haru , india ko noon khako huna ley, uni haru ko goon tirna lai tatpar chan , sadhai bhari nai. yesko matlai yo hoina ki kunai 'diplomatic' relation nai nahunu tara jasari india hamro sampurna raajniti ma haawi cha ni, tyo hunu naparney thiyo jasto laagcha.

ani tapai ko gaitho ma gham laageko chaina bhaney, I'd like to reiterate the same thing I mentioned earlier '"I hate some indians as much as you do, babaal bro"

mero tyo rajkumar ko dialogue ko kura ley malai ma nepal hoina ki bhanney sanka lageko hola, ek choti aafu aaina ma gayera hernus ra bigat ma kati choti 'amitabh' ko nakkal garnu bho bhanera..

so, stfu :D 

I'm human.. , don't really care about race.. anymore..

so, jaat-paat ko kura chodum, be human!!! :D 

Thanks all for your views and opinions.

Should I get rid of this thread coz I see this is creating some kind of misunderstanding between us.

BitterTruth,

Your points are well taken. Actually I don't hate Indians at all. I have many Indian friends outside of sajha.

But this is sajha. This is where I connect with my Nepali brothers. What I don't want is Indians sabotaging this conversation that I am having with my Nepali brothers. I have a lot of respect for both India and Indians. It is just that this is a Nepali website and the people I want to communicate with in regards to Nepal...are Nepali. So from that point of view I only wanted to make sure that you are what you were saying you are--a Nepali.

I respect India for many reasons. I respect Bollywood. I respect the cultural roots and self-respect that Indians have. I respect how strong the Gujarati community in America is. I respect how many professions--doctors, engineers, lawyers, etc Indians are all over the world. I could go on and on and on. Us Nepalse have a lot to learn from Indians. They are far ahead of us in many many spheres.
What we don't need to do is fear Indians or envy them. Over the long run we need to put them in their place so that Nepal can fulfill her self interest.

This is a Nepali website. And here, I want to know that most of the people that I'm having an intimate conversation with are Nepalese.

Having said that, I want to deeply apologize to you if you are a Nepali and I thought that you were an Indian. My apologies. I had no intention in offending you. I just don't want you or anyone else sabotaging this very important conversation that Edipire started.
 
BitterTruth, do you feel that I am being unreasonable in what I am saying in this post?

Nepal has many strengths that it can leverage on in defining itself as an independent nation that can form it's own identity:

The advancement it has made in the last 60 yeears in it's history in terms of education, economics, politics, media. The number of educated and intellectuals have have grown in Nepal are manifold. The number of Nepalese in the world who have become independent and can stand on their own feet and who can now help Nepal grow is immense.

Nepalese have a lot of good will all over the world. There are millions of foreigners who love Nepal and Nepalese and who consider Nepal to be a beautiful destination. There are millions of people who come for both spiritual and secular tourism to Nepal.

So Nepal has huge strengths. In the end, we only seek to seek a partnership with India along with the other South Asian nations. We all have common strategic interests in terms of culture, geography, religion, economics, etc. So all of us partners of the South Asian conglomerate need to unite in a common strategy for our common interest.

This is what Himal Magazine is doing:
http://www.himalmag.com/

 I think someone hacked Babal's sajha account today. 

@babaal khatey, hats off to whatever you wrote. Those are really nice views.

http://sajha.com/sajha/html/index.cfm?threadid=94871