i went to the local wells fargo bank to deposit money and then the bank teller was a young girl.. maybe 22 - 26 years old. her real name is beth.

me: umm i wanna deposit these cheque's.
beth: so u goto college
me: yea.. how about u?
beth: nope not in college... . so hows classes going on.
me: its alright,
beth; what u doing this summer? working ?
me: going overseas to nepal.
beth: oh iv been there a few times, kathmandu, pokhara

i was shocked when i heard this. i was almost speechless. but i said wow.. and then there were other customers behind me waiting so i said umm wow very interesting and i left the bank after making my bank deposit. at that point i was excited and so nervous. its not too often u meet someone here thats been to nepal.


2 weeks later
i went to the bank today and by luck i got the same girl as a teller.

me- so ur the girl whose been to nepal
beth- (a lil shy and blushes) yess
me- why how did u go to nepal
beth- (something something i completely missed out)
my brother, sisters have been there too. many times within past few years.
so are you coming back next semester?

me- umm no im graduating and going to Uni of minesota
beth- are u going to stay here after graduation
me - i hope so, but dont know if i will be able to legally.


and so that was the highlight of our short conversation... do u guys think she might be hitting on me ? like she might be interested in me. ??
shes like maybe 5'7, blonde, sexy body, good face.. but i wonder if shes married or has a bf.


What do u guys think ? is she just being very friendly or is she maybe interested ???

i dont know im a confused. but next week im going to the bank and asking her out.

im just an average guy actually... im not that tall too.. i am 5'7.

just last month i was in Taco Bells and another girl working there at the register started flirting with me too. shes was some maybe 16 year old hispanic girl. she was smiling and looking at me weirdly. and then she told me my food was ready and wouldnt give it to me.. like she was pulling it with her hand, trying to joke with me.. i dont know if she was high, drunk or just liked me too much ?

strange. but i really need advice on the Bank girl.. cuz i am definately interested in her.

Latoboy

She is just doing business. May be she just wants you to put in a good word for her at the bosses desk for excellent customer service. A teller job is no better then an check out chicks job at the supermarket same level.

Good Luck

boyyy! thats the most lame stupid thing ive ever seen in my life, why would you ask a girl you dont even knoww and met once "why how did you go to nepal" at almost begining of the conversation and just because she told you shes visited Nepal DONT mean she would hit on you LMAOOO!!! "why how did you go to nepal" wow thats soo unprofessional! BOY LOOKS LIKE YOU GOT LOTTAA GIRLS FLIRTING WITU. you ask ehr out you're so done, thats not even the way you ask anybody out LMAO + this soon like you dont even know if she likes you, so unprofessional christt!

Latoboy:
I think, she was just curious towards you just because of your Nepali face or last name which may reflect as nepalese. It's normol to ask you or have conversation since she has already visited nepal few times and so their family member did. Nepali respect any foreign guest in nepal and they like that honor from nepali, that might be the reason, she just wanted to chat with you for couple of minutes. I know that there are 100s of nepali students in Minnesota, so its easy for them to recognize nepalese faces.
while working, they try to sociolize at the same time. You know, they work from morning to evening. They need a break to fersh up their mind so that they can keep working without getting tired.
So that do not get excited about it that much.
But you never know, you can always give a shot and see. What would you lose? Nothing!

LOL. Lato, don't be that lato. Looks like you are not getting good service here in US. Of course, she was doing her work and customer satisfaction is what americans value the most.

A lato.

Unlike others, I say that she's a crush on you.Just go for it.Who knows tommorow you'll be working on the same bank with her

LOL just kidding .

customer satisfaction is what americans value the most.

"Looks like you are not getting good service here in US" AWWW THATS MEAN!!!!
THATS RIGHT LEARN FROM IT " customer satisfaction is what americans value the most. " SHE WAS JUST BEHAVING NICE, NOTHING MOREE LATOO!

im gonna stop by the bank and be like When u going to nepal again ? i can hook u up with some good deals for hotel, flight. ;) ;) and i will write down my fone # and be like call me ... i just wanna talk to you about your experience there...

why would she ask me if im coming back to US ?
i know why- cuz she wants to see if I am worth her time. cuz if im live in nepal permanently she has no reason to see me in future.


i have asked for girls fone # before in bars and campus and asked girls out. i am Not afraid of being rejected. Try try until u succeed.. ;) thats my philosophy.

dont be a headache for anyone, "aru ko boz banne ramro haina, kasto jjanne ghussi ghussi kasaiko ghar ma pasya jasto!! or theres a saying ke re something man namane meheman but whatever you do non of my buisness just couldnt burst out my feelings toward THIS SILLINESS OR LATONESS,

"Give a shot man, you wont lose your balls".

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latoboy,
she is just being freindly. that's all. think ab out it, she is in a bank and customer rapport in businesse is extremelyyyyy importnat!! she has gone through months of training on how to deal with customers. those psychologists (or whoever) at the bank know damn well that the bank's dealing with thier clients will make them come back more and more...wokred for ya didn't it?
hi and hellos are OK i guess, but i doubt if she's really interested. that would not be very professional for a young girl who works at a bank.

Next time give this line: "I really feel like asking you out but I am afraid you might say NO. So, why don't you ask me out and I will say YES." and see what she says :)

no it shold be like-- " i think i like u because im so shocked you've been to Nepal and the way you serve the customers including me has made me like you a lot and i think i am a special one for you, love me bebbbe? HEHEHE" id wanna see the girl snap on ya, you so lato!!

da thing is there is no scope for nepali guys

no chance for you at all bro

Lato boy... Nari charitra Daibya najane!....j pani huna sakcha

लाटो बाबु,यो belzibuth ले भनेको सान्चो हो,नारी च्रित्र दैब नजाने,पट्यो भने राम्रो भयो,प्टेन भने तिम्रो क बिगृन्छ र । बरु पट्यो भने तेस्लाई कहाँ लोगेर के के गर्‍यो,कसरी गर्‍यो,त्यो सुनाउन् नबिर्सिनु।

Latoboy, congrats ur in right track!!!

Unlike many sajha fellow frens, I think U can get her.....Im sure u can!!!! but now uve to take different steps, Arkai Goti chalnu parchha kya......it wont help going bank and just asking how are you and so?????

If I were in ur place, I could have definitely scored her, Commn man, dont miss the train. Well here are some options for you....

Now ur first and the formest priority would be to meet her somewhere so that u could talk freely (of course not in bank reception). Just go to bank for the final time and give same smile. and start something like this

"By the way, I was wondering what do u like in Nepal?" May be her reply would be
" oh Nepali peple r so frinedly"
or Mountanis
Or Pokhara or somtihn like that

And hit next Question

Do u like Spicy Nepli hot food?
She would say "YEs" even for formailty (80%)
U hit again " Oh Dyamnnn!! im perfect Nepali cook, can cook for you someday " then dont forget to say laughingly " commn I was just kiddin"
Her reply " I knwo I know .."

This shows ur interested to her and wait for her signal (if it works alright-- if not)

One more option

Lato- So did u go for trekkin in Nepal?
Beth- Oh ya, it was fun
Lato- I know u went to Annapurna, right?
Beth- OMG-- how come u know (80%)
Not realy though we were planning (20%)
Lato - I would lvoe to see some of ur pics taken in NEpal
Beth- Oh sure / or May B (no one can directly say NO in this case)

ANd finally-

Lato- What if we meet somewhere so that u could show me pic of Nepal.
Beth- Hmmmmmmmm
Lato- Commn Beth......... Im just curious to see snaps (ha ha ha THAT IS ONLY bahana ho ni ha ha ha)
Well, the I will see you ........tom .......evening (name of place)

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THere r many options man, just go.never underestimate in girls case. Remember, Dhunga paglana garho hola but Keti ko mann.....havent u heard......

Nauni jasto, mero man nauni jasto, chira paryo usko rupko karautile.......Garirkhet ko sirhai hanyo........

Good luck man.......cmmn go n get her

hummmmm if u r intrested on her then ,,,,,,,,,well i dont really like long way round

so 2 things

first simply ask for out

and 2 thing depends on the answer

so let me know the if u r done with first thing

Hey Lato Boy. Dont let that shit reflect it on ur name. This is how it is. Gurls cant be nice to you everywhere u go. U must be a good looking person or interesting in some way. But if ur single and hell even not single ...as a man it is ur duty to find out if the gurl is interested or not.....just ask the gurl out for a cofee or something....just thow a simple line like " may be we can go have a cofee sometimes.....i would be interested talking to a woman who is interested in nepal....u dont find those a lot"....the worse thing that can happen is she may turn u down. But as a man u gotta have some balls man ...dont be afraid of being turned down. Me personally i ask everyone who talks to me out and the success rate is 20% but it still works and there is no need to be shy about that cos we're men and its ok for us to get turned down. If u getturned down just move on to another one. i would have asked that gurl out on the first time to see if she was interested. Blondes are good if u havent had them yet...IT looks like a pink rose and smells like one too ....lol go for it dog...