Dear friends of Sajha,
For quite sometime, our " Kurakani" has been confined to dirty, communal and provocative discussions (ofcourse there are many intellegent discussions also). I can see many of us have become very much hateful toward a perticular cast, group and religion of the the country which definitely isn't a good sign for Sajha, our society and the country as a whole.
First of all, as many of our friends of sajha have written in the past, such kind of narrow minded discussions and the use of uncivilized words will lead our site toward a "third rate" sites and I think it will loose it's credibility among intelectual and civilized circle.
In the first place, I want to remind you all, the code of conduct of sajha.com, ""Please practice civility, consideration and
respect for individual ideas at all times. Also please note that sajha is not a site to
participate in tasteless propaganda. You are free to cordially discuss on any topics possible as long as
you keep the above in mind."
Now a days we can easily see that our discussion is heading toward tasteless propagandas.
I believe, most of the sajha users are the top few percent ( may be 5-10% the most) of our county's educated and intelectual population ( total adult litracy rate being just 49% as according to UNICEF 2000-2004), we need to show others that our intelectual circle is free from personal and communal as well as provocative propagandas.
I guess we have much better issues to be discussed about. For example, even in the domain of religion, we can rather discuss about some bad and inhumane practices present in some of the world religions, more fanatic believes which is cousing unrest and destroying the harmony in human society or may be about politics, our opinion toward the present problems being faced by the country and the possible solutions (even if it might not be practiced by the accountables immediately) as well as some inspirational events that we all have seen in our experiences ( if we have one).
So finally, once again lets set good example of civilization by practicing civility in out language and if possible, in our behavior as well. Lets not blame somebody for something before looking at ourselves and so on. If followed, am sure one day we will be the source of inspiration for the generations to come and at the same time, sajha will remain as the respected site as it is now.

Namaste all nepali mitra-mitriniharu,

Well, it is indeed sad to see all these mistrust and hatred among we Nepalis going on for so long. At least now at 21st century being exposed to other ways and education, we should ingnore these things.

After all all religions are just a system for survival by exploiting ingnorant, weak and non-exposed to outside world by fear of socalled God or supreme beings. Well,these all religions started after destruction of ancient civilizations of Atalantis and from remanants of Sumeru statred the building blocks of Sindhu Civilization mixed with orther Iranian , zorastrian and other adjoining areas and ancient societies becoming into Hinduism, Buddhism, Judiasm, Christianity and finally Islam.

Only from the time of Indus Valley Civilizations it took a different distinct form combining mysteries of mighty Kashmir and Tibet what we now called Himalayas. Imagine back in time of 10000 yrs without any electricity and surrounded by dense tropical jungles. So, became the Fire, Water, Rain and Wind became the mistries to the people. Were curious about the origin of being as WE ARE TILL NOW , thus the importance given to LINGUM and GUHESWORI and again still at 21 century WE DONOT KNOW the mystery of functioning of our BRAIN with inherent Electric WAVE inside all living beings, came the MEDITATION to FOCUS this Electric WAVE to CONCENTRATE and try to UNFOLD the SECRETS of our EXISTENCE well thus came this concept of BUDDHISM. I still wonder what kind of sensation Buddha might have experienced with so called enlightenment hope each and every body can attain such experience in such a DOLDRUM TIME.

Still no body is sure about our ORIGIN as Collective Life Form, thus still wondering and trying to find and reach this ULTIMATE CREATOR-s before using these vague natural phenomenon based on Traditional Survival Instict given to each community, society and family within their Perception later formed into socalled RELIGIONS. We are still busy at 21st century trying to UNRAVELL through study and observation of this same NATURAL PHENOMENAN with what we called SYSTEMATIC and SCIENTIFIC way of percieiving things looking for answers for same OLD QUESTIONS i.e. Origin of Life forms, our Existence as Human beings, Sufferings and many other Emotional upheavels during our Life time and finally THIS VERY MYSTERY OF DEATH AND CURIOSITY AFTER DEATH.

Well, now at least being bit educated with 21st century findings we know this MULTIVERSE IS STILL AN IMMENSE MYSTERIOUS PLACE BEING GOVERNED AND INFLUENCED BY THIS UNKNOWN ANTI GRAVITY CALLED DARK FORCE AND DARK MATTER.

Thus in that sense our life and daily happenings in our place called EARTH is so miniscule in such a GRAND DESIGN or CREATION/SELF EXISTENCE (?), we will at least not in our life time will get to know the FULL MYSTERY.

Hence folks, so long as we live our MOTTO SHOULD BE LIVE AND LET LIVE, GIVE OTHERS TOO EQUAL PLACE AND OPPORTUNITY TO SUSTAIN THEIR LIFE TILL THEY LIVE AND GIVE CHANCE TO EXPLORE THIS MYSTERY OF ORIGIN, EXISTENCE AND DEATH IN A PLACE CALLED THIS TINY HANGING BALL CALLED EARTH IN SUCH DARK AND VAST EATHER.

Good luck to each and everybody!!!!!!!

as long as yo man nepali ho.........nothing else matters..........live in peace guys....

censorship?

censorship is bad. VERY BAD. communal hatred ain't good either but who cares? i don't give a rats ass to what they say. its their opinion and they are free to express it. they don't represent the 'masses'. the word 'masses' has been a big fat hoe lately. anyone can use it for their own benefit. i wonder who actually represent the 'masses'?

Censorship is bad, it cutails freedom of expression . And question regarding who represent masses,we(all sajha people) represent masses. we are the eduacated few lucky percentage of nepali with good social influence all in foreign countries.Lucky enough that our parents had enough money to send us or lucky enough being able to use computer an express our opinion. what i am trying to say is if few percentage of educated people can think that way it can clearly indicate what others with less exposure to free society would think. there is a certainly a problem underlying in the society not only is sajha.

"hate only generates hate" freedom expression of hate spreads hate

soo...

who's gonna set the first good example?

ma sojo manche ni sajha ma auuna thale pachi bigrya bigrya jasto vachu ..hehe

:-( soo sad

Dear friends and hyaaaaaaa
ImI,
Nice saying after all. your are absolutely right to say that "hate only generates hate."
Practicing civility and excercising restrain in using uncivilized words is not as a results of curtailment of freedom of speech. Rather, it is the outcome of highest human civilizaton where u feel the pain yourself by the acts tha hurts others.
Also abiding by the principle of selfdiscipline is not being censorshipped. Those problems that u mentioned underlying in every society, u r right, will take long time to be abolished or even might never be abolished at all but,for sure, be miniaturized by our disiplined practices in the days to come.

Dear Cerine
You are the one who just set a good example by not using any uncivilized words, my friend. This is the begining of a decent era. I don't think that we need to do something really huge to change the society in a heartbeat, it will take time. with slow but steady pace it will get to its zenith if we keep excercising restrain and following spontaneously, pure humaniterian laws without any pressure form outside forces.

wink wink '-)