Actually guys this is more like love problem...I love a girl very much n so does she. The main problem is her caste ma parents never gonna accept her and another thing probably at this janaury i am going to USA, so will it b better for me to ask her to apply for usa now or after passing her Bsc nursing course. n how in the blue hell ill b with her.i just cant live her...

Dude!

If you cant live her, then kill yourself.

r4rupace you said you love her so much and so does she. so what's the problem. what's it got to do with the Caste or your parents.

1. if your parents are not going to accept her then kill yourself or kill your parents.
2. runaway with her to some place.

r4rupace - haha!! here's the deal!! you can't get her!! the end ke!!
that's life, live with it!!
don't go around ruining others life just for your sake!! don't be selfish like that ke!! :@
move on, life goes on!! ufffff!! what's up with kids these days?? LOL! :P

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Well if I was in your situation, I woulden't care about Cast and it seems you two yourself don't either (Otherwise you two woulden't be loving eachother).

And parents, to give you an example: I don't care what my parents say to me as my parents also are very strict about this cast things, but they also know that I don't give rat's ass on the discriminating thinking and idea of theirs, if I love the girl and want to be with her then I will be with her. It is me who has to spend 75% of my life with a girl I marry, not my parents.
I do love my parents and respect them, so I will not choose a girl who is complete out of control and without manners and respects for your family either. But that is not your problem. ;)

Study wise I don't know, I'd say it may be better if she finished her study and then you can ask her to apply, and you will be able to help her to come to you, coz till then you are setteled out in US. She will also have more possibility after finishing the course, coz if she left in the middle, then she may have to start all over again.

Where's the problem? The only problem I see is in your writing. But don't get discouraged, just keep reading and writing and you'll do better.

Don't wait till her studies completed. I have seen things may change with time. Start applying right now. Once you both in USA nobody can separate you guys.

Pursue your career first then think about EVERYTHING ELSE. i know it is easier said than done but dont jeopardize your future NOW while you still have time.
And well, nowadays parents are also liberal,, they allow intercaste marriages (look whose talkin.. whose parents would NEVER EVER allow intercaste marriage *LOL)
and well, in life you dont always get the things you want.
And i think you should go to the US and stabilize your studies and career and then, let HER finish her studies and afterthat, if your love is still ALIVE (whihch usually doesnt because of LONG DISTANCE and all that) then persuade your parents and if your parents are stubborn, then, elope with her! (kinda surprising to say me that but that should be the last resort)
for now, just concentrate on your studies.
And if you love her, and vice versa then NOTHING can stop you guys i suppose. and if the love wasnt strong enough then, every lil thing will be an obstacle.

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r4rupace,
I know if you are desperately in love nothing goes into your mind...
Anyway these posting and readings are just stopping the tears from your eyes for the time being.... creating some hope...
r4rupace, I am exactly on your situation too but a step ahead that I am in US..and looking forward everything will be fine... I am just praying and praying...

Just follow your heart with one thing in mind; never hurt others and yourself...

I wish everything goes right on your side too.

don't give a sh*t. once you come here you forget about her. or once she comes here she be going out with another guy.
i have seen too many of these things.

In order to get her you will have to forget her first. Are you prepared for that?