hey.. just wanted to see how y'all react on this.... alright here it goes...there is a girl to whom u love and ready to marry.. to whom u can give everything just to make her happy... but the thing is u don't know how to show the love to her..coz' u are always thinking abt the future and how to take care of her and the family that u gonna have with her... so u r busy working, studying and planning for the future...i think this is not crime, do u? but as the time goes by, she thinks that u are not giving time for her and starts talking with her other guy frens... u being so understanding and busy planning for your family's future...u don't care abt her talking with other male.. now here is the kicker.. for like 6 7 months she talks with the same guy but u don't think anything and takes him as her good fren... but in fact she was making love with other guy and that f**king guy had f**king DV... may be that may be the reason... Now y'all tell me how would u feel when a girl runs off with other guy when u were thinking abt the future with her..working your ass off ..saving money.. fulfilling her demands.. damn isn't this painfull... . what would u do??????guys would u beat her..call names... forget abt her.. take it easy.. and girls why would u do such thing like that???

THATS WHY THEY SAY - NOT TO THINK ABOUT YOUR PAST, DONT WORRY ABOUT YOUR FUTURE, JUST LIVE IN THE PRESENT.
THAT WAS WHERE THE PROBLEM WAS. YOU GUYS WERE FAR APART FROM EACH OTHER YOU WERE LIVING IN THE FUTURE AND BUT SHE NEEDED YOU AT PRESENT.
CONFUSING ISINT IT??? THATS WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT.
NOW WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE IN SAJHA. GO AHEAD AND DO YOU KARMA.... GET WHAT YOU WANT (GET HER OR FORGET HER).
GOOD LUCK.

actually this wasn't me & they both lived kinda together...

call her names and beat her re.. jpt
since u were so bz with the future plans u prolly didn't even know her ...
life happens ..deal with it
be happy..there are plenty of fishes out there..Go fish kya:P

She probably didn't feel the same as you did…Ask her what she wants and if necessary part ways. If she doesn't love you, move on…the shoe didn't fit anyway!! Heard this sometime ago which sounds good, "Don't marry the one you can live with, marry the one you can't live without." Make sure the next girl you date will see you as filling the role in the earlier quote, aight??

Now go fish around!!

LACK OF COMMUNICATION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!