its easy to point fingers..may be she had her own reasons..just coz u dont find her reasons satisfying doenst mean, it wasnt imp to her.....i mean common...u can find 100's  of guys who has dumped a girl for one reasons or another..or cheated on their wifes..gf...and many other things....so accusation aparts...if she owes him money..he should def ask...whats the harm in it.

who are we to judge whats right or wrong....

Hey darlagdo manche,

 I think whatever happened to your best friend has already happened. Now nothing is left other than remembering the way he innocently trusted the girl. As mansion said, we can't blame a person (the girl) with the only reasons that's apparent. She may have other reasons that made her so. Unless and untill one doesn't knw the truth behind her behaviours and actions, it is not good to blame ..

Your best friend should be strong to forget wat that girl did to him, coz it will only leave pain and regrets in him. As u said your friend is blessed with a wonderful kid and wife, he should rather focus on his beautiful married life, coz his family is the ones who he shud love and trust 100% . If he starts to think about that girl's deeds and her life and others, then it will be a waste of time for him, coz its useless crying for one who even doesn't care his feelings. Forget the past, and live for the present-his wife, kid and he himself.

And Its your decision to ask or not ask the money, but i think it will just shatter his married life and even the girl's if their family come to know about their past love life. Everything goes round....Its just my opinion.

thanks aaisha,

it would be very long if i write everything what she wrote. briefly, her hubby knows the past just like my pal's wife. maybe he doesn't know how badly my pal was cheated. on top, she as calling him names. that pissed us off. JO CHOR USAIKO THULO SOR bhanya jastai.

we will see what to do.

Hey darlagdo manche,

Since i don't the depth of wat she had wrote to ur best friend, so I guess if u heartly feel that girl used up ur friend in terms of money, time and everything, you guys may be right in taking wise action on her coz its really bad to play with other's life, but Be careful that she won't take dreadful revenge on him and his family, coz some people are like that---aafle nai galti garne ani ajha afunai jhan aruko bejat garne. They are so pshyco that we never know wat they will land upto.