K garne saathi ho... America aayeko 6 years bhaisakyo... Na padhna sakiyo na paisa kamauna... Ghar ma koora gare tero padhai sakiyena bahnchhan jaile pani.... Ghar ma ani saathi haru sanga pani khasai koora garna man lagdaina... Sangai aako saathi haru kaam paayera established bhaisake aafu bhane jaha ko tehi... (Finally yo december mai chhai balla balla sakinchha padhai) ani tespachi k?? Na dv nai paryo nai असाइलम file garne aat nai aayo... Dukulanthu bhaiyo... 3 years samma ko relationship pani break up bhayo reason: found she was cheating on me and i asked why?? She told me "i dont see my future on u so i had to make wise decision"
Still dhoti ko gas station mai ghanta haanidai chha... Aba k garne k nagarne bhaisakyo... Anyone on the same boat??

PyaaroNepal साथि लौ त पहिलो कोमेंट मेरो तर्फ़ बाट है | "Anyone on the same Boat" भन्नु भयो , मैले धेरै साथि हरु देखेको छु तपाइको परिस्थिति मा भएकाहरु | This is life , it will sail no matter what . मेरो त झन् हालत डबल खराब थियो तपाइको भन्दा , लेख्दै गरुला यो बारेमा | राम्रो कुरा पढाई चाडै सिद्दिदै रहेछ , तपैले अब केहि गर्ने निर्णय लिएको राम्रो, मेरो सुझाब , short cut ma "go to some consultancy and get that job in IT " तेस्को लागि साझाको धेरै साथीहरु हुनुञ्छ if u need further help, good luck

Some had found US army as better option.

Don't.....theres nothing to fear as we all happen to think our own problem is the biggest one in this whole world..not only most people are in same boat,heck many people are in the same ocean sailing with unexpected events ...man lagayera gare afule chaheko j ni garna/pauna sakincha vanne hamlai lagxaa and lastly my fav.dialouge " Jo dargaya woh margaya."

Let me ask you the purpose of posting this thread.

Do you just want to express your feelings or are you actually seeking some life changing advice?

Let's say the former first. In that case, let me tell you that no matter how bad it seems, its not the end of the world. A highschool kid was depressed because he didn't have any friends and people were mean to him in HS. He thought his whole life was going down the dark pit. I told him, as bad as it looks right now, there's always going to be so many opportunities to make your life better. Even if you cannot make your situation better at your high school, know that this time will pass. Then you will have a fresh start again at college, then again at your job. It gets easier; but if you just shut all the opportunities in your depression then you will definitely lock yourself in that dark pit. So, the choice is yours. You cannot improve the current situation, but are you going to shut down the future opportunities too? Get strong and anticipate a better future. Prepare yourself for that future and take everyday as learning opportunity to face the future well prepared.

I'd give the same advice to you. Let's say you didn't get any better job here. What's going to happen? Are your friends going to look down upon you? If they are, then they are not your friends to begin with. You will find plenty of new friends in the future. What about your family? Are they going to be disappointed? Maybe, maybe not. Maybe not because you did finish your studies here, so it was not in vain. Maybe, because they took so much of loan to send you here and you took forever to finish and now went back home empty handed. So be it, this is your family. They might be disappointed at first, but they won't be disappointed with you forever. Specially if you start working towards getting better everyday. With the degree you've earned, you might find a job - possibly unrelated in the field of studies but some job nonetheless. You might then move up or start some other business. Opportunities are everywhere, all it asks you to do is look for it. If you just give up right now, it's not going to come looking for yuo.

Now, if the purpose of posting this thread is latter, i.e. you want some advice to make a change, I might have few more advice in addition to the above. But the change has to start from you.

Well said Kiddo, this applies to everyone.

Agreed H2S. It applies to everyone.

hyaaa bro pani kaha pir garira toittt....it seems like u are better off than so many unfortunates in this world....ma [Disallowed String for - use not allowed] gwaach vayera ta bachirachu ajhai....steps I might follow after graduation....

best options on hierarchy

1. Nepali (US citizen) keti khojera biha garne.....( chances are very low since nepali citizen keti pauna garo tes mathi tiniharu le kukur lai jati pani bhau dinnan so almost impossible option .Maile pani khojda picture samma chai herne mauka pako thiye.)

2. Khairini pattyera bya garne...aba chwaak kharini le ta chaak farkayera hini halchan so ali naramri vaye ni moti moti vayeni pattayera bya garne.......

3. tyo pani sakiyena vane.....bya garaune thau haru cha LA ma...tyaha jane ani biha garne paisa tirera....afule pattyeko jasto ta ali hunna plus dui barsa ta keti le chaak lai drum banaucha so get ready for that........

4. california udera jane.....t-raining garne dhoti company haru sanga...tei belama saranarthi pani file garne......

5. Medical technology/Nursing padheko ho vane chai....Shaan sanga jaagir khane..........jaagir ghar mai aucha khojna pardaina ........Computer Science padheko vaye chai chaati fulaudai saan sanga developer/Automation ma jane consultancy gayera.....aba budhhi khuskera business/dance/art/photography/biology/psychology/MBA jasto kaam lagane Gu jasto major padheko vaye chai dhila nagari QA or BA padhne.....ani mathi ko 4 wota option madhya euta feri choose garne......

Anyway Gud luck brother....ma jasto gwaach Lanthu vayera chai nabasam...dukha paincha

Thankyou everyone for your suggestions!!! got relief for a while..

Pyaronepal lai k bhanna chahanchu bhane.. hami mula green card bhako, citizen haru ta gas station ma ghanta handai chau. so don't feel bad abt yourself bro. Quit drinking alcohol if you drink. Start saving money and invest. You may want to work for sometimes and buy a store or something. ma chai super rich hune sapana dekhera stock market ma chireko chu. risky cha. no problem.
I've not drunk alcohol since 2011 and trying to get a degree in business(I was a f*%king genius in my school life). ahile ta dimag pani bhutte bhai sakyo. haha. tara Je huncha ramro ko lagi huncha.
All the best bro.