I have been with my gf for 5 years. Last year we decided to move in together, and right now there are talks of tying the knot. Since we started living together last year, I have been getting bored of being with her. The spark is not there at all. She is a very nice girl and I don't want to hurt her, but I'm not happy being with her anymore. I don't know if she would be able to recover if she knew what I really feel thesedays. I feel like I'm not myself because I constantly have to act as if I am in love when I'm not. What should I do??

don't worry...that's all he's left with now anyway

hey GI, i already mentioned you that i am too weak now because i have already lost substantial amount of weight becasue of this. at this point, i simply can not do that. i am not making things up here. i am going through the worst phase of my life.

YO KAAN MA KUNDAL,

WITH THE NAME LIKE YOU HAVE, "KAAN MA KUNDAL" ...I ALWAYS THOUGHT YOU MIGHT BE PLAYING A GAME HERE. NOW I BELIEVE GRK IS ALSO NONE OTHER THAN YOU. "GRK" POSTED RATHER OFFENSIVE QUERY SO PEOPLE STARTED BASHING HIM. THEN YOU CAME TO THE PICTURE WITH MORE EMOTIONAL CASE. SO THAT WE PITY ON YOU.

LET ME TELL YOU THIS

YOU ARE ANOTHER FU---CKING HYPOCRITE...MORON...NOTHING TO DO ANY BETTER IN LIFE....U STUPID BUFFOON WASTED OUR PRECIOUS TIME FOR NOTHING....

GO GET A LIFE...YOU DUMBHEAD.

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गर्ल ई.,

केटीको कारणले ५ किलो घट्यो, यान भयो, त्यान भयो, के गरौं भन्दै रुवाबासी गर्ने कुंडलेलाई पानीमरुवा नभइ भन्न मात्र खोजेको हो के।

तिमीले पनि भनि हालेउ नि, खुट्टा भए पछि जुत्ता जति पनि पाइन्छ भनेर!

anD GI.

STOP SHOWING PITY ON THIS HYPOCRITE SICKHEADED FUC___KING BUFFOON

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लुते ब्रो कसम नै चाहिँ किन खानु पर्ने यार तिमीलाई?

you've a terrible habit of ruining your generally rather witty comments by swearing for absolutely no reason

hey loote,

i would just like to say whatever i am saying is truth. i can not give you any proof at this point. i spend whole day here seeking advices so that i could move on. probably you thought that i am making all this, but friend , i am not. i can not tell my gfs name here. i am pretty sure there are so many people around here in sajha who knows her as she went to one of the good school in nepal from where a lot of folks comes to usa. anyways, the case is true. i am not like khutta bhaye jutta jati pani pauchha. i always respected girl and i am kinda of guy who believes in only one girl. this is the main factor i am suffering too mcuh. i have not talked with many friends about it, i jsut did with couple. lets see how it goes. believe me, i am not making anyhting here and this is not fake. this is very real story. why would i spend so much time doing this kinda stuffs. anyways, thanks a lot guys. please keep posting, i want more advices in here. but what i see from most of the post is that let her go and find another one, which is the hardest part for me. i love her so much i just could not let her go, and it is very true that becasue of this nature, she is gettign more far from me.

GI and chakku...

i am so irritated. coz u know why? i felt for this chap. i put myself in his shoes and thought what might he be going through....

THEN AFTER 2 hrs OF CONSOLATION FROM SO MANY PEOPLE, what we come to a conclusion is he is making all this....

fxukk him !!


signing off from sajha for today
loote

हेर त त्यो कुंडलेले हामीले यत्रो बेर कराउँदा पनि हानीसंग केही बोल्दैन! तिमीसँग मात्रै कुरा गर्छ।

उस्को केटीले छोडिहाली उस्लाई, अनि उ चाहिँ तिमीलाई छड्के हान्दैछ जस्तो छ। विचार गर है गर्ल ईन्टरप्टेड! मलाई त शंकै लाग्यो।

Kati natak dekhau parcha hai yo kta haru lai........

kan ma kundali...tiimilai aruharule jati samjhayepani tyastai...i am getting annoyed by your same repeated remarks.......best of luck for your life.....

Juss tell her you had enough of her, oh no word it a little differently unless you want some chapple. Tell her hmmm you need time-out for sometime to think over... damn that is hard too she will probably kill you...Dude RUN.

GI experienced with gals eh?;o)...aucha jancha re?kati ayo kati goyo?wahahahah ;oP hehe..

anyways..kaan ma kundal...good luck hai :oD...i think there is more than enuf good advices(which u were lookn for hoina?) here...that is if someone seriously wanted to listen and follow..

ani GRK lai pani good luck :oD...ke garney world ni testa..wat we get..we get bored..wat we dun get..we long for it?ironic eh?;oP hehe..

la la good luck to all :oD..kati dherai seems to have tonnes of similiar experience ;o).thats wat i feel hai...alik tryn to empathize ni ;o)..wat we dun experience we can try to empathize hoina?;o)..kasto daar lagdo ho!to just read!and think about it...experience garda ta jhan ke hola :o|...malai daar lagyo!!:o| hehe..herum ke huncha in time re kya..i know wat link to click if i get similiar experience ;o) hehe..

good day :oD

I am Bored with this fukin thread.

just yesterday, i was watching a korean serial and there 's a girl in that video whose boss loves her. when she asks her boss why he loves her so much ,he replies "i have no reply to your question becoz i don't love you for something that you have.if i say i love you for something then that means i am not gonna love you when that thing is gone.i love you just becoz i love you."
now isn't this how a guy's supposed to be?
GRK, u definitely fell for her coz of some qualities that u saw in her which at first enticed u. now that u see her everyday, those qualities r normal for u so u lost your interest.
i say the best relationship is possible between frens.u won't have to look good, act smart or confident.u're always the way u are and love's stronger.so, go for your frens, not prerrty faces/voluptuous figures/muscular bodies coz these don't last long.

ya but there arent any these type of guys^ guys go for stuff in girls :P

u know a lot shawty :D

somebody fukin hit tha brakes on this personal dirty laundry.
THE GUY IS A TOOL END OF STORY. He like to flog the Dolphin rather than going to the Sea world. he he

ok, i am back. i met her. she does nt have any valid or logical reasoning why she did this to me. her logics are very stupid even for 12 year kids. she does nt want to listen to anyone, not even her parents, sisters, brothers. she has become very stubborn and looks like she is totally brain washed. she used to take brata for me in Tij, she was very nice and simple girl until sometime ago. i dont know how she bacame like this now. if just two of us are talking in certain point then i would assume that i could be wrong too and she could be wrong too and we could be 50% right in certain issues. but if so many people are supporting me and everyone is saying to her that her decision is not good and she needs to think with cool mind for her future, still she did not listen to anyone. we are still in touch and she do care for me and she cried a lot when we met but she does nt want to come back to me. sometimes she says, she is not the only person who did this, well thats not a good point to say. how would you say if someone tells you that he/she is not the only person who killed someone, there are so many people who does this type of crime. the other guy now does nt completely believes in her and he told her that she just used him to bridge the gap that she was missing in our relationship. he knows that he will not be accepted in family and she knows that she will not be welcomed by family and other relatives. all of us are in trouble i guess. i do not want to go for anyother girl. .....

O kundale bro,
i don't want to do this, i don't want to do that bhanera ruwabaasi garera k huncha bhanya? sidha sidha kura garna sakinna u sanga? maanche ko yesto chhoto jindagi ma yesari khera faalne time chaina jasto laagcha malai ta. if i were you, i'd decide that i had cried enough, i would take a shower, have a shave, stand up and get going. that's what i did, actually. i have no regrets now. rediscover yourself yaar. it takes a lot, but it's worth, i'd say.