One of my friends just broke up with her boyfriend because he went to a dance restaurant. Why do Nepali men do this sort of thing? I know they go to those massage parlours and everything. I can't trust men who do that. That is what they will do even if they are married.

 Going to  Dance resturants or Massage parlors doen't make one untrustworthy.

Beeecause.

Put yourself in our shoes. We work hard, sweat and blood, to come home, and there's no dinner, you're angry that we did not bring in that stupid flower seed and thus don't talk to us properly, and when we try to make a joke, you take it personally and get even angrier, and by then we are just as equally confused as to what to say or rather what NOT to say to keep the pot from boiling over, and finally, the last straw, when its bedtime (aka sexytime) you pout and face the wall and sleep and we are left tinkering our thumbs contemplating the mysteries of the universe.


nowdays couples goto strip clubs or dance restaurants. I hear its better than therapy (and cheaper).

Nilasha you sound naive and young. Men are guided by one thing only and no matter how perfect relation you seem to have they will always covet another sexy girl that comes in front of their sight. The degree of desire will vary but they will always have that.

okay coco, you maybe a rookie redditor!

Zgr

I think if all women are trustworthy then all men will be trustworthy...ketiharu paila aafulai sudhara ani aruko barema bichar garnu...

i go there each week. i love massage

 Its faith and belief.  If you do not believe your partner than you will find mistakes in his every action but if you believe him, everything seems right.

On the other hand, why did he had a situation where he had to go to dance restaurant and massage parlour? Did you tried to find the solution before you dumping him? Or were you so angry with him that you didnt spoke to him? Relationship stands on regular frank communicaton, and if you have not done that or if you are not prepared to do that, your relationship will not go far.

However, I am not saying he did right by going to dance restaurant and massage parlour... He could have tried to solve any issues or asked you to go to the dance bar/ massage parlour together...... 

another sexist thread.

FYI, discussion related to the following can never be generalized:

• men vs women, / boys vs girls
• gf cheating on bf ( vice-versa),
• who is more loyal in the relationship
• 

just correcting some mistake
taraju ma keta ra keti lai rakhdai praya keta ko taol dherai huncha but again
nepal ko kanon anusar keta ra keti barabar hunchan ofcourse kanoni rop ma kanon anda hai ra tyo taraju bokne manche le aakhean ma kalo pattey lagako huncha
ya its not good idea to cheat no matter what
its just matter of time the bf or gf will know eventually if they are cheated or not and
consequences maynot be always fruitful or good

Just think sex as a sports.. Then no one gets hurt, lol

Thanks for replies. U are right there are no correct answer for this. Everyone is so different. So......

so...we are all different eggplant from the same farm.