Hello Sajha mitra haru,

Just wanted to ask fellow sajha frens about how much do you guys usually send money to your parents in Nepal for monthly expense and how often.

My parents live in Easten part of nepal. Afnai ghar cha but they need money for day to day expense, living cost, health cost, food, electricity, etc.

My parents are retired but no source of income. Rent aucha tara 5-6000 matra aucha nepal ma so i am the only one they can depend on.

Thank you for comments....

Depends Bro. Depends on whether bro le "fariya odisakya" (married) ho ki hoina. By the looks of it, bro le fariya odeko matrai hoina fariya bhitra churlumai dubi sakya jasto lagcha. It's ur parents, bro. U know better than anybody else, what they mean to u. So make ur call.

Mine averages around 400-500 a month. You gotta do it bro, that's what makes us proud.

Yea....around 500 should be enough. Nothing against parents, but you have to put cap on how much to send. Nepal is society which demands more and more, when there is easy money. So I would recommend to only send how much they need and maintain some for emergency here and send when actually needed

I would recommend against sending extras for siblings, just for parents.

आफ्नो परेन्ट्सलाई , जति पठाए ने भयो नि ब्रो, यहाँ बैंकमा कुहेयारा राख्नु भन्दा | आफ्नो वीएफ़्फ़ वा गिर्ल फ़्रिएन्दको गुले ओपिनिओन हुन्छः बट वहू क्हरेस ||

tara pathaune sab bhanda uttam upaya chai k ho broman haru?

send only what they need, lots of family in nepal think in America, "there is money trees'

since you are the only one they can count on , make sure they always have at least 20-30k cash and couple of lakhs in bank for any emergency, if they already don't have. This is on top of what you send for monthly expense.

It depends how much is their expenditure. Agree with @ meraj and gaulejetho; only send what is needed. Also recommend Against sending extras to siblings/other family members. Send only for your parents expense. Easy money has no value. Many people in Nepal don't understand how hard it is to earn and what you are going through here to earn that money; they feel it grows just like that in Amrika; the more you send -the more the expectation.