Someone recently asked me what kind of men that I like

Of the Nepali men that I've dated, are friends or were in my family or in my community, I made a list of qualities that I like:

My ideal man is someone with a sense of humor. Is educated. Well-read. Decently travelled. He shoud be stable. No lazies or crazies, please. Should have good family values. Good upbringing. Being established in his career is important. Shouldn't be too narrow-minded. Should have a personality. Should know how to laugh. Should know how to respect the old and love the young.
He doesn't need to look like Rajesh Hamal or Shiva Shrestha, but he needs to stay physically active.

Shouldn't be crude, crass or immature. Those are such turn-offs. No pakhe types who don't know how to behave around educated ladies, please. Those men are best being conductors of buses and riding rickshaws around Ratna park.

Bonus points: If he is a musician, an artist. Especially if he will paint my picture or write me a poem or a song. Oh, I will be yours for ever. LOL. Maybe.

Couldn't agree more @ syrus_me .
@rashika kanchi: I still remember the debacle that led u to leave sajha a while ago and this time you should even more desperate.. Good luck living your life alone raschika !

does size matter?

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@ RasikaKanchi: Go Girl!!  I wish you the best.

@ all insecure nepali men:  There is a saying, Life Will Pay Whatever You Ask For It. Ask Intelligently and Specifically.

Whilst there's nothing wrong with a woman expressing her opinion about her ideal man, one needs to understand that she does need to possess good qualities to be deserve a man that she seeks. 

Pukar Malla is probably your best bet. Look him up. Geology Tiger and Jantare 1 are two of the finest eligible bachelor's from sajha,too. 

Good luck. 

@footyfan:
keho bro hamilai chai bhooleko...ma pabi bachelor nai ho ni...aja bhanda eligible bachelor...mero laagi pani sifarish garidinu paryo kanchilai...

All Guys always hold MBA = Married But Available.

I have all the qualities that Kanchi nani mentioned above and some more, but dukhko kura I will not try to eat something that has been licked by so many others!!!!!!!!!

No human being have all those qualities. So Rasika, you will never find him. Why are men in this post bashing Rasika? All she is doing is stating her opinion. Remember freedom of speech? One of our bill of rights.

 
WOW! Janterai. You deserve the best...not Raskia Kanchi though :-)

This is so typical. Like always, Women want everything. Ask a man, or rather chris rock in bigger and blacker and its simple. Men look for three things: Food, Sex, and Silence. As he quotes it so eloquently " Feed Me, F*** me, and shut the F***up". Again, before you unleash your holier than thou attitude, i quoted Chris Rock ;).

Sirus_me,

I am secure enough to accept someone like you as a friend, with all your lackings. How is that, my friend? LOL

And the rest of you men, if the words you have expressed is your attempt to put me down...LOL...could you at least be a little creative please? It's a good thing it's close to becoming winter, otherwise all the hot air on this thread might have made me sweat.

Anyway, I guess some of you are right. Perhaps I did invite this upon myself by starting this thread. You Nepali men can't handle compliments very gracefully can you? All I was trying to do was appreciate the good qualities that I found in all of you. And look at how you repay my kindness....tsk tsk tsk (shaking my head).

That's a shame.

Rasika Kancchi,

It's not about putting you down.  If that is what is in your mind (winning/losing/putting down or w/e) then you definitely are not intellectually sound.
You yourself  are just trying to deviate from your own self-proclaimed statement. Sorry to see your's and Sexy-in-Sari's lame defense mechanism.

~That's a Lame execuse (smh)

No_more_crush,

Would you consider being my friend, despite my lackings?

 Men I like this girl. She said what she wanted. Nothing wrong that!


Well I got one thing to say:   If you believe that you are a beautiful princess and waiting for  a handsome prince to pick  you up in  a white horse,to sweep you off your feet,to take you to fairy land,where everything is like you dreamt , then girl wake up!!!

Before you know it, next week you will be 35/40 and looking for your baby daddy.......(Not your hubby).


P.S: Keep threads like this coming. It makes sajha interesting. I know you are one smart and beautiful girl.

Sure! Online FWB.

Sanju Baba,

Thank you for looking out for me.

 Rasika ji, 

How about, we trade places. This time, you describe yourself - from your body figure to your own "khandan"? I bet there are plenty of great suitors who could sweep you off the floor. 

Brain Teaser,

You are jumping the gun, my friend. Let's just start with a decent conversation. LOL