Someone recently asked me what kind of men that I like

Of the Nepali men that I've dated, are friends or were in my family or in my community, I made a list of qualities that I like:

My ideal man is someone with a sense of humor. Is educated. Well-read. Decently travelled. He shoud be stable. No lazies or crazies, please. Should have good family values. Good upbringing. Being established in his career is important. Shouldn't be too narrow-minded. Should have a personality. Should know how to laugh. Should know how to respect the old and love the young.
He doesn't need to look like Rajesh Hamal or Shiva Shrestha, but he needs to stay physically active.

Shouldn't be crude, crass or immature. Those are such turn-offs. No pakhe types who don't know how to behave around educated ladies, please. Those men are best being conductors of buses and riding rickshaws around Ratna park.

Bonus points: If he is a musician, an artist. Especially if he will paint my picture or write me a poem or a song. Oh, I will be yours for ever. LOL. Maybe.

You should be Draupadi to get a man with all good characters. i.e. You should marry 5 or more men with all characters you want.

"Shouldn't be crude, crass or immature. Those are such turn-offs. No pakhe types who don't know how to behave around educated ladies, please. Those men are best being conductors of buses and riding rickshaws around Ratna park."

I am usually a passive reader in sajha. But your above comment made me speak up. You said dont want someone who is immature. But there's something very wrong about the last half of your sentence above. If you do not know how to respect all human beings irrespective of their profession, how mature are you yourself?

PS Although somethings tells me that rasika kanchi isn't an innocent girl looking for that perfect person and is just someone trying to start an interesting thread provoking sajha readers. I had to reply.

Wa Rakshas ji, tapai le ta kya 'funda' marnu bho ba. LOL. But I like how you write. Keep talking. I'm listening.

You know Passa? I think you make a really good point. You are right. It is insulting to the bus conductors and rickshaw wallahs in Ratna park for me to compare some of the rude and crude sajha members to them. I apologize for my remark. Thank you for correcting me.

And by the way, the qualities I mentioned, are those that I admire in all Nepali men...whether they were in my family, friend circle or have dated. But apparantly most of you guys can't seem to read past the word 'date.' It seems that somehow, when you read the word 'date' you can't but envision someone very promiscuous.

Admitted that I have my biases about Nepali men, but why do you guys have such crude biases about Nepali girls who date? Do you have no other choice but to see us in the worst light?

Love,
Rasika K

Not all are conservative and you are right, few folks here don't read the whole thing.
'aadhi padhyo, ani comment suru'

and you don't have to prove yourself virgin by saying that most of the friends you've dated were just friends and relatives. who cares? I don't care if a girl I'm dating is virgin or not as long as she's going to be with me. don't really matter her past to me. just saying :D 

keep chillin

Rasika, you sound like you have a lot of experience with men. Have you been with a black man yet?

does size matter?

Yes Chaurey, size does matter. A man with a big heart wins me everytime. Do you have one of those?

 Rasika, you did not answer my question. Chaurey, when you ask question be specific or else chaalu keti like Rasika will tweak and twist it and give it a completely different meaning.

Thank you for the compliment, EastSidaz

 If you take that as a compliment, I bet five bucks that you are very easy to bed.

Eastsidaz,

With the kind of logic you sport, I'm just impressed you managed to have 5 bucks to bet. Wow.

What kinda fool would wanna be rational with a woman? Everybody knows they don't understand logic.
Anyways whats your going rate? I don't do this very often.

EastSidaz,

more empathy than you will ever have.

 Is that your best comeback. I thought you were da Shyt. Now figures you aint all that. Youz a typical housewife material.

Similarly, i dated 5 women and they liked my five different qualities ( one loved my Fart aslo) and there were few women i didn't find all the package. I have an advice for Kannchi; "how about dating multiple partners at the same time to experience the perfect package of a man?"May be you can mix the different catogeries ( race, age, body size, size of the tool, heart size, wallet size, brand of the car and sometimes homeless man). Do you know what i do for long lasting relationship. ( lower my standard and BAM!! i got my perfect woman).

rasika, you must be real ugly to keep exchanging words with strangers.. in search of your dream man :D not saying you shouldn't but the way you are ... (rolling eyes)
normally that's what 'F'uglies do online.. my experience. :D I don't lie that's for sure like you do :D 
see, truth is bitter :D 

Kanchi will date several men at one state. After few years finishing her school, she moves to another state and acts like a virgin. Impressed by her innocence on Nepali man with h1b and good corporate IT job decided to marry her through arrange marriage. After knowing 3 months they both go to nepal and marry ( Both Virgins). What a happy ending!!

I think we're ready for 'bukkake'
lets fix the date and time, all guys be tested for HIV , and kanchi, be there, it's gonna be fun..
LOL 

I think( really believe) I am the one kanchi is looking for. Problem is she the one...... may be yes..... My profile picture proves.

size does matter...then okay how about one who has a big heart and a big nose?