Turning to you Sajha friends. Been in Nepal for awhile and family wants to know if I like foto of prospective brides. I'm sure many of you guys/girls of age in Sajha have gone through similar experiences and felt this rather unusualness, so was wondering if you have any suggestion or advice.

r u kidding me?? nepal gayera ba garne re?? nepal ma aile fresh mal paudaina bro...mandir ko ghanta lai kati jana ley bajaucha tha nai hunna...arka ko ghado mal kina afno gala ma linchau bro..moj chai aru garne ani timi lai vidaune...aafnai gf ba gara..arrange marrige simply suck.. yesi timi lai yesto kura ley farak pardaina bhane chau upto u

"People call these imperfections, uh, but it's the good stuff"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ltNhwj-F7c8

I do not believe there are still such ridiculous people who materialize the girls and say she is used. Why the hell you dont understand who you are...Used ass. Dont listen these ridiculous people jerry swari, and find yourself what u think.

Yo jatho madesi ta khub khokdho raicha thuika nakacharo.... Aile samma pani yesta gatiya manchey chan yo sansar ma.
I applause u Comrade-Chemistry 😊

JerrySwari bro,
photo post garnus na ta hami milai diula:)

Just marry whoever you think is compatible and know them after marriage.And remember you might have a image of perfect bride in your mind but thats just the illusion.Reality is never what you think it is.When you know someone closely you will find out she is not what you think she is and your bride will find out you are not what she think you are.And eventually you have to adjust or get divorce.

Also this world is a boring place .so, you will go crazy if you dont have any human being to distract you.So, she will distract you by arguing or whatever she knows...

https://youtu.be/Dw6VE8jjP-0

Whether you like the bride or not, please have this quick conversation to better know your to be wife. Good Luck :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z8X97OL06OY

Make sure you talk with the girls and try to explain the US situation (I do not think they will understand though). Depending on your visa status, let them know they may or may not be able to work legally. Many girls go crazy when they have nothing to do and they are alone and husband out for work...they may not even know how to use sajha...

JerrySwari ko bihe chai PuriTarkari sanga nai hunu parcha hai. Bhandeko chu ahile nai !!!

Even though it is arranged try to date girl and know each other's behavior before marriage . You tell what your plans are and make sure she tells her side of story . Make sure at least you like something about her and she likes something about you before marriage. Make sure you both have something in common so you don't regret later . Good luck !!!dont go for beautiful lady outside . Try to find beautiful girl inside