How many of you guys want to marry into intercast?? I know I do,
I am so called Bahun but I find Newari girls very attractive, do you people know any nice- Beautiful and well educated Newari girl who want to get to know me better.
Are there any girls who don’t give a damn about cast, and think wiser then these discriminating losers?

oiii! lakhee ....bahun bhayera tyasto kura garne....khurukka bhanuni nai bihe garne!

Dimag kharab, lol.. :-)

jaat namile maan pani mildaina ni, haina?

Lakhee,
My parents have given me the choice to find a guy for me only if he belongs to this whole cast, and standard thingy.. I know...I know it sounds weird....But they are right after all they have done so much to me..And the last thing I want to do is hurt them.. I will see how I go if not they will find someone for me..

Dimag kharab,
Its not like that.. Maan milcha, kina namilnu ni.. Love has got nothing to do with any caste..
Its just for marriage, if you are close to your family and your family are a bit conservative and they care about people talking behind their back and you care about your family then its the point to consider..
It all depends on what type of person you are as well...If you are strong and though and have got courage to fight/convince your family then its ok too..

Just my thoughts anyway...

Im more worried about getting married to more than one person.....is there an easy way to do it ?

ok in this whole intercast talk is being held at the expense of bahun girls. just like the whole interracial relationship phenomenon is happening at the expense of black girls. and i think there is a similarities between these 2 types of girls (bahun & blacks) -- both very strong opinionated (and i mean it as a compliment) and would rarely go outside their own kind (race / caste).

so, kudos to the bahun brothers for crossing the caste barrier and a reminder to the bahun sisters as you girls still have a lot of catching up to do (and no crossing the border barrier by having indian partner doesn't count as most of them are still brahmins) LOL

daddyz-here - reading your post reminds me of a friend i have!! She's against blacks marrying whites!! She herself is black!! Don't take this in a bad way, we're both not racists or anything!! The whole issue with her is because of slavery. I mean when she says it to me she's like three generations before me my great grandmother was a slave!! I mean you might think that's a lot of time but really it's not!! you tell your kids about it and your kids tell their kids about it!! Are we as humans in the society that we live in now ready to just look or skip over the fact that slavery even existed??
This is kind of off topic, but in a way if you look at the intercast marriage thing: are we ready to just throw away the differences of culture and our background and where we came from just down the drain and forget everything and unite?? Like are we ready to not look at the differences that make us different?
This might sound weird but say an American marries a British. There will always be the fact that one is a British and the other an American!! Kind of in a way isn't this the same thing with intercaste marriage?? And since that fact will always be present, wouldn't be hard to just try and ignore it?? I mean aren't we just making life more difficult for ourselves?? and i am not saying making life difficult is bad kind of thing either! :)
And also aren't these differences that make us one in different ways??

PS: I am not saying anything here, these are just questions to think about!! :)

"I'm more worried about getting married to more than one person.....is there an easy way to do it ? "

LOL @ Khaobadi! Well, you could if you converted :P

One thing that doesn't seem to have come up so far, and if it has I have missed it, is class. I suppose it doesn't sound nice and might actually appear abit snobbish to some to say it but inter-caste or inter-cultural marriages can get complicated if they also happen to be inter-class.

I suppose it is not any different from a same-caste but inter-class marriage with possibly one exception: if there are any problems or misundertandings, sometimes people may not be savvy enough to tell caste from class. When you don't diagnose the problem correctly, you may end up with the wrong remedies to cure it.

Does that mean such marriages don't work. No. It just means an inter-caste couple need to develop the tools to handle cross cultural conflict and if they also have differences in economic backgrounds then they need to develop additonal tools to handle the additional difference.

Personally, I am all for it. Caste, and class, are all in the mind.

U're right Capt..it's all in the mind..but I do agree that you need to put an extra effort to make it work..but it's worth it !!!

whats so fuss abt this cast thing ..... man nepal is already too small country, population 28 mil. if you even divide in castes and sub castes ....... you will have to go to family reunion to look for ur life partner.

ya gane
chama fone

sam e to u and me problem

Forget inter-caste-cross-cultural marriages!

Mine will be inter-continetal ... and there will be several of these before I get to buy that dreaded one-way ticket to swarga! Loo jaa. And. will start with Africa first. Any takers?? :-) Ahem ... ahem..

Who said, polygamy went out of fashion with your dad's doraa kattu and jaangey, some donkey's year ago..

Lakhee said "it is your hormons that works as acompass, and my compass is pointing at Newari girls."- in his clearance, why he wants just newari girls to date/to be with.
And next time he said -"Do you wanna date via. email (Penpal / email pals) I like your Nick name (There is something that says something to me ke.... donno what? but something....) " - to me??

Well , lakhee r u sure?? your hormons compasses only at the company of Newari,raini or lumbuni girls??...no no i m not trying to read ur mind. its just a simple question becz according to ur first statement i sud have been either Nwearni,raini,lumbuni or so so which i m not.

See, when u r wrong over here how can u be that sure about that unknow person who is going to give a knock into ur life ?? how can u be that definate about what caste girl is ur fate??...what if u ur hormons compasses looking at ur parents choosen gal?? huh??...ehehe...whats the use of this thread then? lol

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If there is freedom of choice, I prefer Bahuni, Khatti bahuni.

When I see soo many enthic groups demanding independence, if not self ruling, the day will come soon when Bahuns will be marginalized and eliminated. Monotony and homogeneity is never interesting. Differences add the spices. I will contribute my part to save the genetic diversity. Whenever you need a Bahun gene for research, count on me. I can contribute.

I RESPECT U ALL WHO HAS ASSOCIATED WITH INTER CAST MARRIAGE1

Intercast is the way to go. Everybody goes intracast anyway. Why not something new?

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i believe we find a match first , then know the caste ? why would i bother about caste anyways!