Being in luv is the state of mind and heart and soul (well..everything) going abnormal, not at all under control. You don't have control over your feelings, emotions and yes esp. your temper!! He doesn't call you up when you expect him to and here goes your temper up higher than the mercury level of the thermometer kept in the cup of hot tea. He talks about the other girls and you decide that you've got to take "Serial Killing" as your profession and let him investigate the homicide (becoz' you want to keep him busy in something that involves you). When you're in luv you don't need to watch horror movies, you keep getting those goose bumps every now and then and few heart attacks too, and you don't need any of those beverages you just get intoxicated and get seriously hung over. You don't need to sprout a pair of wings you literally fly high and go head over heels. If you re one of those from small town and never been to Disney world's roller coaster, fall in luv and you'll enjoy the ride (the SCARIEST one). All the luv songs on your radio start sounding familiar coz you feel (the weirdest of all the feelings) that you had written it for him yesterday n they re playing it now and those silly lines, (be it from mills and boons or some ol' classic lovey duvey movies) they just DON'T fail to make you feel mushy mushy (and you fall in luv with these words-mushy mushy, hunny bunny, lovey duvey) you start talking those baby talks! You become a lil' child again. You luv being pampered and throwing tantrums! For an 20 years old-grown up-lady like myself [Ahem!], its just insane..so I don't want to fall in luv. I'm not against luv but its jus not meant for me. It ain't that easy baby so, single, that's how I wanna be.

LASTLY, HATS OFF TO ALL THOSE PEOPLE WHO ARE IN LUV (with me) ^__^ [Hahaha]  

Well if you don't want to, then....Don't let yourself attached to anything around.....get out  in 30 sec flat if you feel the Heat around. That's what Dinero says.

Kinaara

Forget relationships and learn how to relate.
Brain = logic
Heart = emotions
Soul = pure enjoyment/feelings

If brain activates more then possessivness/craziness/helplessness starts
If heart acts more doubt,restlessness and frustrations develop.
Let soul play. Its unbiased

It has to be a silent commitment; eye to eye, heart to heart, being to being. It has to be understood, not said.

 

hope it helps..

 

 

Spreadlove thanks for your help.(tho am not in trouble)

           One incident bout eye to eye,last week i met a guy he was good looking and i was kinda shy,he was handsome,lean and tall and wouldnt take his eyes off me at all.i was blushed and terrified,until i discovered that he was cross eyed.poor me and my poor eye sight!!! 

 

       

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Kinaara timro koora sunera malai ahile nai timlai kinaara laidiu jasto po lagiyi ni!

 ma pani 25 years old grown ass baby boy ho k.

guffadi recha timi.

I know you love to love! :}

 

Humors like this make life worth living, isnt it?

There is no reason to be frustrated and disheartened. If sometimes you feel hurt just do yourself a favor and laugh at yourself. It'll bring your spirit up. Patch up with yourself. Reasons to cheris and laugh are more around you than reasons to cry and complain.

Kinaraa,
why stay on the beach, come to my ocean and take a dip,
I won't mind if you wanna take a sip,
love juice is flowing, I can see you glowing,
You can run to me, I will let you hold me
when the time comes, you can set me free
I wont' mind, I won't keep you in a bind
I have a 20 20 vision, to you please you is my mission
I am not cross eyed, you can ride by my side,
fancy cars, flashy life, you won't have to drink high life
champhane in demand,
like a cop will keep you in my remand
don't worry baby
Timro roop is still in demand!!!!

sabai ko lop parera hairan!!mero chai kaile parne ho kunni??

kinaraa well said dear,

but i am not getting all those he he he, may be those are only for the people who are in luv with you he he he

"you're going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times.
but in the end, it's always their actions you should judge them by. it's actions, not words, that matter."

-the rescue, nicholas sparks

i agree kinara and yes, your granny got a nice name

You sound ike Kareena Kapoor in Yaadein. Remember she thinks love is nothing but an entertainment package?

Your plan to "not fall in love," urm...good luck with that. One of these days, a very good man is going to come across who will do everything "right." And you're going to fall for it. He's going to sweep you off your feet. Its just a matter of time. :)  You'll find yourself asking "why didn't i meet him 5/6 yrs ago?" Haha...thats my take.

kinaara,

do you really need love or just to make love. if its the second case there are plenty of guys including me to help you get out of it.