she love you ok....she wasn't into deep love ...but she did had lot of fun to be with you but u know when see see the other who is her type seems like they get married off cause she will ignore u ...coz u never ask her to married and u did not love her enough...that why she feel more exacting about new guy that she met ....i dont think she gona last with him long too ...this kinda gal dont give evthing to aany guy ....unless guys is too crazy about her she will keep for safe....forgeting is pain a ass ...all u need to do is fall in love with other gal forget about her.....even she come back to u ...ur relationship wont be same ...

 Good one, Sexy in Sari.  If his/her premise in first paragraph holds true, then I too have to second the conclusion in last.  Give it a thought.

Sexy in sari is a gal la

*girl

Confused keta: now u have two options. Either leave her, and find a new girl or try to get her back. Girls become very stubborn when they want something. In my example, a girl loved me but I didn't care much about her. She was frustrated and she found a guy. I knew that and only then I realized how much addicted I was with her. I pleaded with her and begged her not to be along with other guy but she never thought a single time about getting back to me and left. Once you lose a girl and she finds somebody else it's very hard to get her back. Anyway, u can try and convince with all your effort. If you fail to do so, just damn it man. There is someone good waiting for you.
Take care and god bless you. Don't think that you have lost everything. Don't loose your mind and drive aggressively or drink too much or get tensed. This will hurt you for nothing.

confused_keta stop talking about my wife to be in public forums. She stopped liking you after she met me, you need to move on now. I have lot of money, I am tall dark and handsome and I treat her like a goddess.

You need to push her away, there is a saying let her go and if she comes back she truly lops you or something like that. if not she never did.  grow some balls man, stop acting like a poo see, it's not going to be the end of the world if she leaves you. I can't understand some people.

SIS : Yes you are absolutely correct.

 Guys can act so immature sometimes.   Guys must understand that when gals parents start looking for a guy for their daughters its time for them to step up and ask her to get married with him. Failure to do so would lead to consequences like this.  If u loved her so much then why didn’t you get married all these years and made her wait all these 5 years. May be she got tired of waiting. May be she has her family pressure and she values her parents decision more then her own.  Its not easy for a girl either to leave someone whom she loved and start a new relation with someone she doesn’t know at all. It is much more frightening for her.  

IF you are ready to get married with her within the time frame given by her and her parents…  its still not too late… but if you just want her back in your life with no intension any serious relationship ( ie marriage) . I would suggest you to let her go… At least let her be true to her parents and her would be husband.  

PS: she might have loved you but sometimes a decision has to be made and she made her decision LOUD and CLEAR…

Girls can gve everything to u but at the same time, if she dsnt get anything or any response from a guy then she cam be so strong in her decision that she cam dumped u at the same time as well..
Confused keta, it's never too late, let her Mek feel how much she meant for you, express ur feelings and give her the time or tentative plan that till when you could Marry her..it will make her feel different.. Girls have only choice to trust what guys says. Keta Ko kura pakka cha bhane nai tesaima biswas huncha keti lai..don't b late buddy, go for her

Good luck!!

The fact that she rejected a guy that her parents had chosen shows that she did love you at one point. It could be possible that you didn't live upto her expectations as time went by. I don't know how good of a bf you were to her but you can conclude that on your own. Give it a thought. Did you give her enough reasons to be convinced that you were the one she should get married to? If you think you did, then she wasn't the one for you. If not, then you know the answer.

केटा हो बिहे को सिजन छ, आफ्ना "केटि साथी" हरु को ख्याल राख्नु है राम्ररी ...

I agree to most of the comments here. 5 years is a lot of time for her to realize if she wants to spend the rest of her life with you. Now bro there are a couple of things, grass is always greener on the other side and she might see that but after a while the same cycle continues, she must have gathered every bad habits of yours that she knows about you and all the fights you guys have had in the last 5 years and come to a conclusion that you are not for her. May be a lot of factors surround your circumstances but most important BORING relations, lack of excitement. BUT thats the nature of every relation, the passion isnt the same it was after the first few months of a year. You both live together and like married people and you findout both good and bad things about each other the difference is married people are stuck and compromise due to kids, family ties etc BUT you single people aren't bound by anything but by your emotions and love so YOU guys have a choice. AND lastly again the idea of that "the grass is greener on the other side" may work out for both of you or it may not. Try your best but dont sweat over it. If she is yours she will be yours and so on, GOODLUCK

She is leaving you by herself which means you don't have to deal with the burden of dumping her. Time is definitely ripe to look for a new and juicy squeeze. How long can you listen to the same music with the same beat and rhythm without getting bored to death? Don't tell me now you are still listening to "Baby! hit me one more time" by Britney Spears.

Mr. Hyde, relationship is not like changing cloths, wear till u like n trash it wen u dnt..may b u r not matured enough to understand abt the relationship...chadai Mai ghaitoma gham Lagos...Jai hos!!

NaturalMaya!
You go tell the same exact thing to the girl who dumped this poor Confused_Keta that too so unceremoniusly!

Mr.Hyde,
It's not abt telling to whom but it's abt the decision abt life. Both love eachother for 5 years and wen the guy dnt have a strong words for a girl to convince her that, ok we can get married till dis time or is not sure on his own decision, how cud a girl trust him. she denied her parents proposal for the first time coz she loves him n d guy do too..
But the main thing is till wen she hve to wait for him? at least guy should tell her. Situation between guys n girls are totally different..keti Ko Ghar maa pressure huncha bihe garne Bhane keta lai kina hatar garunu bhanne sochai huncha..so I think she should feel secure with d guy n guy should have guts to say "u r mine n I will marry u in whatever cost"
No offense to anybody

Confused keta may be over-reacting or jealous. May be, his girl is just threatening to dump him if he does not move quick. "Boy, it's already 5 years, how long you want me to wait?" - I get that message through what the OP posted here. 

AALL IZ WELL.

Confused Keta,

It's totally Psychological. I see two things:

1. You reacted her confused. Show some manthing inside you. Tell her what you want and put your things boldly; show her some macho within you. Give her your decision how you want to DEAL this situation.

2. She may be was in infatuation with you until she met a guy who awkened her what was she looking for that she didn't find inside you.

Bro, don't be in state for confused. Just approach her in different way that you surprise her and win her LOVE.


Good Luck

Confused keta i can feel for you, she has been with you for 5 yrs if she had any problems she could have left you while ago she shouldn't take like 5yrs to realize that' . the first guy she met through her parent's wasnt' great as u maybe  The second one is probably in her mind is betta then you . she was with you when she needed you..she left you when she found betta one She is just the oppurtunistic biatch .thanks god you two were just an item no kids involve or traditional marriage in nepal then would be hard. take positive out of it  probably 5 yrs taught you many things about relationship, womens so you can carry that experience ahead and handle your future relationship better while she had 5 yrs with you if she really loved you man she wouldnt' have cut off n move on so easy.you were just a thingy of past..she is looking for someone betta den u ..obiviously she compared btwn u n him n she choose him. mate u got get out of this mess n just move on wit life..no point sticking to one ditched u ..plenty of chicks out there .who loves u fo who u r ..its just matter of time.
GUYS SHIT HAPPENS N SHIT HAPPENS FOR REASON. BREAKUP IS ALWAYS HARD NO MATTER HOW MANY BREAKUPS YOU GO TRHOUGH IN LIFE. SOMETIME ITS NOT JUST ABOUT LOVE ITS TO DO WITH BEING USED TO WITH THE PERSON.WHEN PPL BREAK UP ITS ALWAYS UGLY AND ALWAYS A REASON BEHIND IT .EVENTUALLY YOU 'LL MOVE ON THINGS WILL CALM DOWN. MAN I HAVE HAD MANY BREAKS UP IN LIFE ..TELL YOU MAN ITS NOT EG BUT EVENTUALLY YOU 'LL MEET SOMEONE N U'LL MOVE ON .LIFE WILL START TAKING IT COURSE IN   A RITE WAY.MAN DO GOOD BE GOOD N GOOD THINGS WILL COME TO YOU ONE DAY..N OFCOURSE GOOD GURL WILL COME YOUR WAY..MAN THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA..BE STRONG .N MAKE A TOUGH DECISION.GET THE FCK OUT OF HER LIFE N FIGHT FOR YOUR FUTURE N SHOW HER WHAT YOU ARE SO PROVE HER WRONG FOR DITCHING YOU . SHE PROBABLY THINK HER NEW MAN IS BETTER THEN U THAT' Y C CHOOSE HIM OVER YOU BUT IT COULD BE SHORT LIVED MAN EVRYTHING IS SO BRIGHT N GOOD IN BEGINING STAGE.
MAN IF I WAS YOU I'LL NOT GO BACK TO HER NOR EVEN TRY TO GET HER BACK WHEN SHE ALREADY PREFER OTHER OVER ME I HAVE  A DIGNITY I RATHER BE KRISHNA PARSAD ..LIVE ALONE DIE ALONE THEN CHASE SOMEONE WHO DITCH ME ..
SO CONFUSED GUYS ITS HARD ..MY SUGGESTION MOVE ON BRO..LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WORRY ABOUT WOMENS. YOU GOT TO DO SO MANY THINGS IN LIFE SO HOLD YOURSELF SET A GOAL ..N KICK HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE COMPLETELY .
TAKE CARE N GOOD LUCK WITH YOUR BRO>.

NOTE: LISTEN TO MARIAH CAREY" HERO" MIGHT GIVE YOU THE POWER TO FIGHT .

It's been 5 years of you being in relationship with her. Don't you think marriage is important? This shows your no intent to marry her. Girls are always insecure until marriage. What's the age of the girl now? You know, parents want to get her married b4 her age is too gone to get a decent boy for her. I guess you took her granted all these years. She stayed with you for 5 years and will stay n love u forever if u treat her right. Did you officially proposed her with a rose n ring getting down to your knees? Do you celebrate your Anniversary, do you guys talk about how u guys met time and again and do you look at her when she dresses good and give compliments, do you take her out? These r small things that matter. Remember what u used to do to her when u guys just met and what u r doing to her now. Stop treating her as a trash n she will love u again as in the first year of your relationship.

Guys, you've been a tremendous help for me. Anyways, whoever she choses is her wish, but I concluded that I cannot be turn negative all of a sudden and start hating her. After all I am no more than human!!! She deserves the respect!!!!