hi,
  maile sajha ko barema suneko dherai bha chaina... tara yesma post garna mali dar lagcha.:)
      Yesma altofaltoo kura dherai huncha.. mookh chadera gali gareko post ni dherai huncha..editorial sensorship ni nahudo raicha..female haru ta nayeni hune raicha..porn photo.. gender inequality ra keta haru ko ajib gaf hudo raicha. yestai khalko clean discussion bhako.. , editorial sensorship bhako..dherai tihar ko bela ma balne jhyap jyap batti jasto advertisement nabhako family friendly discussion site khole hunthyo ni nepali haru le..yeti dherai jana overseas chan..yeti dherai jana janne sunnechan..sabai lai ramrai hunthyo..chahiyeko bela ma nadarai question sodhna milne, khutta tanne prabriti nabhako ,clean site bhaye kati ramailo  hunthyo .

 Sajha mai sajha ko replacement khojne lai k bhannu. Try My sn sar. People who dont like sajha definately like that site.

 Person like you who love baburam and his shittty ideology should join mysansar,,,that's best for you.

 http://nepali.im 

 http://www.yellownepal.com

Clean site bhanera ke dhoyera pakhalera chalaune ho ra?
Chalaune hamile nai ho :-)
Maile birsi ra, mysansar cha ne thakka timle bhane jasto.

" ..dherai tihar ko bela ma balne jhyap jyap batti jasto advertisement nabhako.." This one is funny, but I agree to this sentence!

Ye lau ta nani uso bhaye Kitchen is for you ladies leave sajha alone for bokas L0L

She needs to grow up ...... You are not kid anymore you kno what to expect on social sites esp on sajha .....

mysansar

C'mon guys, her question is valid and sincere.  No reason to dump on her.

San, do you have any plans on starting a moderated discussion site?  Or is there a section within Sajha that is moderated?

LuckyGal07's query is very valid and it points out the blatant intolerance that used to exist before Sajha was reclaimed back last week. Since last week, there has been a huge decline in anti-virtual behavior which was rampant as LuckyGal has pointed out.

The main goal of sajha is to provide a virtual place where someone can easily ask a question or share something without having to fear someone attacking them, where both male and females need to feel comfortable to interact without the apprehension of some anonymous group of users ganging upon them for their own entertainment.

I realize that I should have done this long time back but I suppose it took me a while to realize that in a virtual world, "a self correcting system" is not feasible. Different people have different definition of fun, and as long as few people believe that their personal entertainment at the expense of others' is more important for them than the greater good, "a self correcting system" would never work because these people will spoil a 'respectful' and 'tolerant' system to suit their needs.

With that in mind, sajha will cease to serve a handful of people whose main reason of being in sajha is for their personal entertainment at the expense of others who are here to get some help or to share info with other Nepalis.Use of foul language, inciting hatred, belittling of other users, and practice of other behavior that promote negativity are not acceptable in sajha.

It may take a few weeks, but sajha is already becoming a place that LuckyGal is looking for, Except for the tihar ma balne jhyap jhyaap batti jasto ads. Tihar is just around the corner so lets light it up.

For many new users a short one paragraph history of sajha:

Sajha started in 2001 with the goal of bringing Nepali people together to share info, discussion and questions. I work as a web application developer and it was a fun hobby to do on the side for Nepalis living in the US. After many - many years, few businesses started advertising in sajha because it was a win win situation for all, they continue to promote their businesses via sajha. As you can imagine the cost of hosting the site has increased a lot and the 'tihar battis' help out. The goal is to make every day feel like dashain and tihaar in sajha for Nepalis from all over the world.

 Thanks for all your response..
   maile yo post popular huna lekhya ni hoina..maile sajha ko barema US ayerai thaha paye.. afu bhako tham ma nepali dherai chainan.Nepali haru ko forum cha re bhanera suneko le ayeko ho.. dherai din samma ..here... ali napache napache jasto ni bho..nepali haru yestai hun bahera ni...man lai bujhaye...natra yo ta public forum ho ni haina..?? ma female bhayera ho ki thaha bhayena..mali yo site male haru sangai basera kholna laj lagne bhayeko thiyo..ki ta male exclusive bhannu paryo...ki sabai lai suhaune hunu paryo.. mali grow up..mature up... bhaneko comment sunera chakka lagyo.. dai ho..ma mature vhai sake..budescal lagisakyo..mature hunu bhaeko keti haru ko photo rakhera ...personal comment rakhera udaunu ho bhane mali bhannu kehi chaina..mature hunu bhaneko afno kura bahek ali beglai kura rakhyo bhane tyo manche lai nwaran dekhi ko bal lagayera gali garnu ho bhane mali kehi bhannu chaina.. ma lai man ma lageko kura matra bhaneko ho... ali constructive site bhaye hunthyo matrai bhaneko ho.Ani mali Kitchen tira lagera sajha tapaiharulai choda bhanne dai... Thanku for the advice... ma tyesai garchu.. :)
    P.s= ani mali baburam jasto ideology support garne haru lai my sansar site thik huncha bhanne dai---- maile ideology support gareko hoina.. individual kam lai support gareko ho.. yesto garda mali maobadi banaunu huncha bhane mali kehi bhannu chaina..maile kam ko prashamsa gareko ho..khutta taneko ni haina..kasaiko blindly support garya ni haina.. kunai party ma nalagikan kasle ke garyo bhanera criticise garna napaune.. ???? 
       Dherai nai lekhe ki ke ho...  :) la..sajha tapaiharu lai nai bho.. bela bela ma herdai garaula phursat ma.. environment saprera budabudi sangai basera aftyaro napari herna milne bhayechi definiately aula hamra budabudi.. :)

 p.s- i checked my sansar, liked it.. thanks for the link. :)

Well said, Luckygal !

luckygurl, if you love freedom of speech mysansar is your wrong choice.

Luckygal, I can give solution to "tihar ma balne jyap jyap batti"
Use http://isajha.com
nice, clean and simple

And yeah do not use mysansar.com. you can only get cheap responses