Okay, I admit I've went way overboard at times, and I was warned, I took it. I accepted it. That was couple of times.
I don't know for some reason, SAN is suppresive towards my comments.

Somewhere on the thread, some guy made a post for wanting 'O N L Y  Girls' needed for his house as roommate.
I wrote comment not abusive not foul tone, nothing like that.. just a thought .. like "hey females, what could be his motives for wanting only female roommates. He could be perv, not saying he is" something like that.

But SAN's message pops up on when I log in to sajha, and look what he has to say , " 
Hi Bittertruth, this is my third message to you regarding your postings in sajha.

At sajha we encourage everyone to feel comfortable in posting their opinions and help wanted posts, and postings like yours below discourages people from postings. I hope we do not have any more conflict of interest.

"girls??? no reason , nothing??

beware girls, could be peepshow somewhere...

I've read news everywhere.. of these pervs...

not saying you are but, just expressing"
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And, this is how I replied SAN:
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Okay, so how do you decide, they're legit or not. This site is like craigslist to nepalese. Don't know what they really are cooking. I was just expressing my thought. Their posting was like 'only girls'. I'm not arguing with you, but you are like way way suppressive. So, I just put a thought. If a guy has paid you, put a note somewhere it's a classified or paid posting. That way they'll know it's legit. Else, you don't want to be in a position where craigslist is, all those court things because someone committed crime through their messages ..exchanged. And one more thing, I've not accused the posting owner of being perv. I just put forth my view, get that please.

he has been silently warning me for my posts before. I wrote as per response to agree with those terms because I know I went overboard, but looking at this message, I'm stunned how he's trying to put leash even on simple comments made like that on free internet.

And, I don't really like to be monitored the way the person is doing.

Adios all Sajha friends. :D 

RIP bro :-P

 The characteristics of a good person depends on what you have got but reading your most of the comments I found  intelligence, confidence, humour, helpful and straight-forward in you. The dark side I found is, argumentative, impatience, unfriendly and disrespectful. Having said that I like the way you are in sajha. As a owner/mentor I think San has every right to show us carrot or stick whenever we do good or bad in sajha. Hence, I think you better take that as an advice not as a warning. 

I think, what San trying to say is, 'Lets not caste the dirt into the wells that gives us water'. Be cool brother and enjoy sajha. Happy new year.

Mr. bitter,

Why dont you talk it out with San! Anyways, if youre intent on leaving, then accept my thanks for contributing to my posts. 

 BitterTruth,

I agree with you. I know San dai's motive is good. But he is "taking the law too much in his own hands." Instead of creating rules that everyone understands and implementing it fairly across the board, he is imposing his own morality on other people randomly on an individual basis. This is not good. SAN dai cannot impose his morality on others on a case to case basis. He is not God.  

What he needs to do is make his rules public so that we all know when we are crossing the line.

San Dai should explain what the rules are across the board so that we all can follow the same laws and judge each other, including him, based on these laws. 

No one in sajha is above the law, including SAN dai. San Dai may be System Admin, and have more power than us, but if he abuses his power we need to feel free to voice our opinion. Just because his intention is good does not mean that he can do whatever he wants. The same applies to all of us. 

 I read that post, few days back and trust me for the first time I thought bittertruth is talking about something which is important, but all of us never thought about it.

It reminds me an article about the super stores where, dressing room was on survellience.  Also there was a scam of double sided mirror and so on.  It was spreaded through the facebook too and i guess most of us also get that article.

Now, I think  bitter truth is just tyring to warn which is a good thing but as all of us are also reading other threds by you, there is a negative criticism towards the writing even if you really don't mean it. And I think that's what happened here.People say "well this guy is always writing some thing stupid and thats what he did this time too " and tend to ignore your intention.

 Anti-me234, 

Are you saying BitterTruth was losing credibility because of his actions? 

In response to Bittertruth's message I replied him the following message:

"I also put my view forth to you regarding the seemingly negative implications of your postings. 

Especially when the posting you replied to was a FACEBOOK user, which in fact shows that the person is real and deserves common respect as human being and not vindictive speculations on their motive, from an anonymous user. 

Also, please note that if I communicate with you via sajha messaging, it is a one to one communication and not an invitation to publicize the issue at hand by posting in kurakani. This is something that needs to be resolved by your acknowledgement of respecting other sajha members without accusing them of lowly activities."

Whenever I sent a message to user to tone down their behavior, it should not be taken as a threat. Sajha has a goal of being accessible to a large audience and any behavior that discourages new users from participating in sajha will need to be checked if everyone is to feel free to post thier problems and issues.

Bittertruth's response to thread Room Available for Girl displayed unnecessary negativity in my opinion to a person with family and kid representing his real self by posting as a Facebook user.

"girls??? no reason , nothing??

beware girls, could be peepshow somewhere...

I've read news everywhere.. of these pervs...

not saying you are but, just expressing"

Bittertruth I don't have any personal problems with you, and I appreciate your participation in sajha and I hope this will not be a deterrent in your sajha experience. It's just that you have to respect the goals of this site so that there is no conflict of interest between the sajha goals and what you might consider harmless personal fun and frolic.

I and I am sure many others have enjoyed your intelligent conversations within sajha threads and I hope you will continue to be an active member here.

Happy New Year!

that's the exact reason why i use more than 1 form just incase if i don't like 1 form just leave the form and go to another form for a while and come back again but every body is different who am i to judge bitter truth may be u need to take break  or vacation from this form for a while and when u are relaxed and in good mind come back again believe me it works atleast worked for me thanks god there are more than 1 form or substitutes .

We had enough of your "i know it all" attitude in every single thread here in sajha bittertruth. Gald you finally chose to get a life !

well ciao bro!!
thanks for enlightening me with INFLATION!!! :p
HF...

Yes, this guy thinks he is way too smart posting such on that post. I think San did the right thing. But more to that San knows motives of this guy trying to take down sajha to his advantage of his own sajha like website :) Nevertheless, this guy will be blocked eventually. Good for all.

seems like bittertruth is pissed right now . go for now relax for few days or week or month and when ur not angry anymore u know how to come back again  its not like  u have to pay money per hour to use this service .remember the another guy commenting is another guy in computer just like u with different face different teeth but u know where i am going don't u and virtual respect matters for most of us  :)p

moro sab ko thread ma gayera tite karela jasto dialouge handai bastho gayo. aanand bho.
San dai i have talked with you several time i really appreciate that you were never rude to me even though you banned my user name lol. p

About a week ago, i asked fellow sajhaites if they had any info or experience with salesforce.

http://sajha.com/sajha/html/index.cfm?threadid=95131

Bittertruth had nothing positive to say. All he had was grudge against my nickname or my surname.

I am not against freedom of expression but i am sure there is conflict of interest between san dai's envisioned goal of sajha and bittertruth's idea of having fun.

प्रारम्भिक दिनहरुमा bittertruth को लेखहरु bittertruth नै लाग्थ्यो तर गएका केही दिनहरु देखि चाँही truth कम bitter बढी देखिन थालेको थियो । तर साझालाई बाइ नै भनिहाल्ने स्थिति आएको छैन कि...

आथ्यो जिती दाई आथ्यो !

Sorry bittertruth i have neger noticed u. It is not going to make any difference to me whether u stay or go.i only wish thqt u and ur likes quit trying to make it an emotional matter cuz it is not.again it is up to u.do what u wish bye bye bye

mahodaya bittertruth , 
                                       aba jane bhae janos hazor ke garno aba hazor ko chada chada sabda haru youn pipasu sabda haru miss garne chan hamra pyara sajha user haru le aaoundai garnos hai bela bela ma ma pani aba chitai nai ban huncho hola  chada chada sabda bolera . solitude to bittertruth . nabirsinos hai hamilai 
                             
 
                                       hazor kai  kai tyahein jogi nokar 
                                       sincerely , 
                                       intelligentguy

I haven't seen such a numbers of negative response to the person who is leaving Sajha. I guess it does not matter to anyone whether one stay or leave. Bye

Life goes on.....you will be just fine and rest of the people who are in sajha will be just fine too.....