So what even if she had sex? Is that too much for you?

playing with ur gfs emotions is lot worse than having sex .Grow up boy.thats it!

she hasent let you eat her sideways taco for three effing years of relationship????ह्वाट द फक म्यान !!  from what you wrote above, it not very hard, even for a royal dumbass like me to infer that you are one nasty looking hairy chickenshit and your girlfriend a gold digging slut !

डम्प  दयाट लायिंग  बियाच !

Dude, you are talking like you are some harischandra or something like that. Seriously ?? I have a simple question for you. Do you know what is love?
You are comparing your girlfriend with an used car. That is absolutely not cool. Grow up otherwise you won't find peace in rest of your life.

 Jesus Christ! How old are you, man? What's w/ Nepali guys living w/ this "caveman" like mentality in today's world? You expect her to be a virgin simply because you happen to be one? 

I wouldn't worry about her past unless she had a shady past. People go through emotional and hormonal changes while growing up. More often than not, people also do uncontrollable acts (like you kissing your cousin albeit morality is a different issue). Having sex with people of other sex is one. 

You gotta suck it up and move on. If you really love her, accept her for who she is today instead of wasting your time pondering how often she kissed her ex and all that. 

You sound like a 20-22 year old. 

I am not saying I am harishchandra or anyone like that.....but only the person who is feeling it can find it hard. Its lot easier to advise people but when it comes to you its all different, you feel like you are the only one experience it in the whole world,....ONe more thing you guys need to know is....I have never had any girls before and I never followed anyone just to be in relationship or for sex...never proposed a girl......and the encounter with my cousin was just once and it was not me who started it....I never go to any dance parties, strip clubs, dont drink.....or go around for sults to sleep with....I have saved my virginity for my that precious one for such long and now I am finding it that My gf had her relationship in the past...its hard for anybody like me to experience it...I know i could overcome it but until i get married or be with my gf i think i will find it hard...If I wouldn't love her then why would I be posting such things in web to get some answers ? 

 Get what you're saying but if you love her, you gotta suck it up. In today's age, it is atypical for a guy or a girl to 'save her/his virginity' and what not. You're a virgin, good on you but your idea and desire isn't a sensible one. 

I'm assuming that you live in the US. I'd try and assimilate. Unless she was someone who used to sleep around, I wouldn't worry about it. 

 Virginity is not a  matter of dignity but lack of opportunity . 
And if you think it is matter of dignity , you lost it all by almost screwing your own cousin.
Ever thought of giving it a shot, and if she is virgin , marry her otherwise, leave her as it would not be her first time anyway.

You went through her personal email and faked email which is totally stupid . I dont think she will ever trust you like before.
If you really loved her, you must be able to ignroe these stuffs. 
what do you expect from her actuallly?
virginity? you can seal the broken hymen by doing simple cheap surgery if you despearately need it.
lovely  life partern?- I think you have one

If you think you can leave her, then go for it , dont confuse yourself. But keep in mind that the next one you get can be a whore but lying to you about her virginity untill yu fk her or marry her.

I advise u to lose ur virginity first. Sleep around and see the difference yourself. Even if your gf had sex with her ex, it don't matter. Like everyone else said grow up.
I dun know why guys think like if a girl loses her virginity, there's a big hole and she is a biaatch.

Here is another Jackass story.C'mn man. You earned a degree, you claimed to be educated but you have not learned anything in you life. You have not learned the civilization. You are still in the stone age buddy. Otherwise you wouldn't hurt that innocent girl for something she did at that moment when you did not exist in her life. You do not own any of her moment before you were in her life. You will be the most unhappy person if you keep spying on your love.
I have read one article about suspicious lover. The article said that guys who are addicted to porn are more likely to be suspicious over his love. Stop watching too much porn man! And just don't go to school, learn something and apply in your life dude.

Dude,
Take her to bed. Lick that pu$$y. While doing so, check if her hymen is intact or broken. Have sex with her, most girls bleed during their first time sex coz hymen breaks.

 What a way to start my day:      You need to advertise for Geico Man. You can be another Caveman. That poor girl is with you for 3 years and you are acting like a psycho for her past. Even she had sex so what?Get over it. It doesn't change a thing about that.Now if you two have getting along problem or any issues other than the one you mentioned, its  a good idea to worry...if not go and kiss that girl boy!

 The problem is not with your girlfried, it is with you dude. Suck it up.  Too much hindi movies I guess.  I take it you are a virgin, have you ever masturbated imagining some else, Well morally speaking that is wrong too. Well the point is suck it up. you sound like a loser, the girl doesn't deserve you, she deserves someone better.  Kissing a cousin: - what is that?  I am a virgin because I want to save myself bla bla bla and I go around kissing my cousin .....

No easy way to say it bro, but you're the creep in this case! 

I can understand you feel curious about her past, but its something you can't change. All girls have a past, especially in today's world. My girlfriend had her first kiss in drunken stupor with a guy at a bar. Nothing I can do about that. 

like the others have said, you're lucky shes with you. cherish it while it lasts, because if you keep snooping around YOU WILL BE DUMPED.

P.S - YOUR STORY ABOUT KISSING YOUR COUSIN -- ARE YOU FACKIN KIDDIN ME? 

Look directly at the neuralyzer brah!

 EXactly I agree with Caco, everyone has past. But u need to learn how to co-operate with present and learn to love the present with her. If she is fine with you in your present, then there is no reason to talk about her past.  Love her  much and she will love you much in return. Goodluck.

long story short -
"spread her legs and love her
talk about present and future"

thanks everyone...I know its hard to take in but I am trying to...Hope it will be arlight in a while !! 

You are very naive. When you are young everthing seems like a big deal like virginity. When and as you grow older your own experience coupled with what you have learned from others will make it clear that sex is not a big deal. It is something you can enjoy as and when it happens but you don't have to think about it the whole time.

ya I think so too...And here I don't even know if she had sex with him..its just jealousy...nothing else...She is very trustworthy...doesn't have big desires...she even finds it hard to say love u over the phone...she is such simple and shy......Its all my mind thats creating it...I am thinking the worst of my imagination..thats why its hard to take in...but I think i will be alright when she will be here with me...
thanks p_didi

I am just speechless that guys nowaday still bother about past relationships... The urge for physical relationships is the highest the early teens when the brain doesn't think much about what the consequenses would be later on.

She moved on but u haven't. She is happy with u but u went digging into the past just to reveal somethings which doesn;t make any sense at all.

Move on Kid!!  Stop digging graves which can just hurt everyone.